
Nobody gives a shit. Why should you?
Nothing. Im just nothing. Nothing matters, nobody cares. She's just an emotional shit storm, she'll get over it all. She wont remember why she was upset. Its just depression, its just little fits that come here and there.
She has no right to snap at little things, even though a friend is in grave danger of losing their life. Nobody cares that she's crying out for help when she does what she does. She doesnt want to be pushed away and left alone. She wants somebody to love, and to love her. She wants to be wrapped in physical arms, feel the warmth, be told that she is loved. To not be blamed for who she is. She tries so hard. She tries just to make you happy. She puts herself last. But when she wants to be put first, when she goes out of her way to make things work, all people can see is the inconveniences for themselves.
Oh no, dont you dare snap at your siblings in public. How dare you. Calm down, dont let your emotions control you.
Bullshit. You dont understand what goes on in my head. I dont think like you do. I cant control things like you do. ITS NOT JUST SOME DAMN THING YOU CAN FIX IN A SHORT AMOUNT OF TIME. Why wont you look at her? Why wont you speak to her? Why do you just tell her to shut up, or suck it up, or attack her back when she attacks you? She isnt even intending to be mean, she just doesnt know how to handle it. Just hold her, ask her whats wrong, why are you doing this? Why? Whats going on in your head? Let me help you.
When she says she wants to go home and be by herself, she cant handle these people, DONT LET HER GO. Hold her tightly, convince her to stay. You dont know what she'll do all on her own to herself.
She has no right to snap at little things, even though a friend is in grave danger of losing their life. Nobody cares that she's crying out for help when she does what she does. She doesnt want to be pushed away and left alone. She wants somebody to love, and to love her. She wants to be wrapped in physical arms, feel the warmth, be told that she is loved. To not be blamed for who she is. She tries so hard. She tries just to make you happy. She puts herself last. But when she wants to be put first, when she goes out of her way to make things work, all people can see is the inconveniences for themselves.
Oh no, dont you dare snap at your siblings in public. How dare you. Calm down, dont let your emotions control you.
Bullshit. You dont understand what goes on in my head. I dont think like you do. I cant control things like you do. ITS NOT JUST SOME DAMN THING YOU CAN FIX IN A SHORT AMOUNT OF TIME. Why wont you look at her? Why wont you speak to her? Why do you just tell her to shut up, or suck it up, or attack her back when she attacks you? She isnt even intending to be mean, she just doesnt know how to handle it. Just hold her, ask her whats wrong, why are you doing this? Why? Whats going on in your head? Let me help you.
When she says she wants to go home and be by herself, she cant handle these people, DONT LET HER GO. Hold her tightly, convince her to stay. You dont know what she'll do all on her own to herself.
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Really? You're going to play that game?
That is the point. You're no longer fighting for Tartii's benefit, but trying to make Demerots wrong. Don't be bothered by anyone's opinion you deem below your standards; be the bigger person, just ignore them.
And for Tartii, sorry about that. Take this;
The best way out is always through.
-Robert Frost
That is the point. You're no longer fighting for Tartii's benefit, but trying to make Demerots wrong. Don't be bothered by anyone's opinion you deem below your standards; be the bigger person, just ignore them.
And for Tartii, sorry about that. Take this;
The best way out is always through.
-Robert Frost
this is actually one of the few sad pics i actually download and keep.
and don't worry even if noone else will be there for you i will, i will try to be. hey by the way if you are sad in RL then pls text me if ya like I wanna try and help,
my number is on my profile at
http://www.facebook.com/donwolfani
and don't worry even if noone else will be there for you i will, i will try to be. hey by the way if you are sad in RL then pls text me if ya like I wanna try and help,
my number is on my profile at
http://www.facebook.com/donwolfani
I'm a stranger, so I don't feel like my words can help much...But I really do hope things get better for you, and NO ONE IS NOTHING.
NO ONE ON THIS PLANET IS NOTHING.
And you aren't either.
I'm sure tons of people care about you, but no one should get angry for having emotions. Everyone has them.
Emotions are emotions, they can do what they want to us, so no one should be mad about that.
Just try, attempt, to ignore them.
And the helping the friend thing, I can honestly understand that. I had to abandon them, they are too far gone. Maybe if they won't take your help, they just aren't the same. That's all I can say.
But in all in all, I wish you all the luck with your problems, and remember, people, whoever they are, love you.
<3
NO ONE ON THIS PLANET IS NOTHING.
And you aren't either.
I'm sure tons of people care about you, but no one should get angry for having emotions. Everyone has them.
Emotions are emotions, they can do what they want to us, so no one should be mad about that.
Just try, attempt, to ignore them.
And the helping the friend thing, I can honestly understand that. I had to abandon them, they are too far gone. Maybe if they won't take your help, they just aren't the same. That's all I can say.
But in all in all, I wish you all the luck with your problems, and remember, people, whoever they are, love you.
<3
I cant say mush in regards to this. Though if you do want to talk I would gladly like to hear yah out if im able to.
Still, given that I cant be there in person Ill say this mush. Your honestly not Nothing, Your someone who not only has those she cares for but also someone who isnt afraid to be her self. Your not Nothing, your far more than most people you will see walking the streets now a day.
Still, given that I cant be there in person Ill say this mush. Your honestly not Nothing, Your someone who not only has those she cares for but also someone who isnt afraid to be her self. Your not Nothing, your far more than most people you will see walking the streets now a day.
You're not nothing sweetie D: Everyone has these thoughts sometime, but they'll go away... I'm sure out there is the perfect Partner for you <: For us its just pretty hard to find it. But you'll never find one if you stop seeking
So don't give up! Life always goes on and try to make the best! What would good times be without the bad times?
So don't give up! Life always goes on and try to make the best! What would good times be without the bad times?
There is quite a few of us who have gone through major bouts of depression. We may not know EXACTLY what you are going through...yet...we have been there. Eventually, you figure out how to overcome your depression, that being depressed just plain sucks. You pretty much will call yourself out, and smack your emotions in the face, give them a scolding, and then hug them.
Depression sucks, it really does, but it's something to overcome...is it easy? Not at all, it's one of the toughest things to do...but if you are able to overcome your own depression, you prove to yourself, that you are a strong person, a VERY strong person.
Go sit down, be quite, take a nap, and think about it.
It WILL get better, but YOU need to be the one to fix it.
Depression sucks, it really does, but it's something to overcome...is it easy? Not at all, it's one of the toughest things to do...but if you are able to overcome your own depression, you prove to yourself, that you are a strong person, a VERY strong person.
Go sit down, be quite, take a nap, and think about it.
It WILL get better, but YOU need to be the one to fix it.
I second this. Likewise, I'm a stranger so I can't know for sure what's going on - though I'll try to give you my insight based on what I understand.
You're a teenager. You're going to get depressed, to get angry about the whole world. You're going to think no one cares about you. You're going to think no one loves you. You're going to feel like no one understands you. And you're going to feel that especially toward your parents/siblings. That's part of being a teenager - the vast majority of people goes through that, and it's a healthy thing. It makes you think, it makes you realize important points, it makes you accept yourself and build yourself a personality with strong values.
That being said, when an adult witnesses a teenager going through a depression, saying that no one cares about them and no one understands them, the first thing that comes to their mind is "Classic". Trouble is, it gives the teenager the impression that the adult actually doesn't care at all, like if they aren't moved the slightest by what's going on. This is however usually wrong. That feeling arises because actually neither parties understand eachother, or at least, they give the impression they don't.
It doesn't mean your parents, your siblings, your relatives, your friends, or anyone else doesn't care. It just means wherever you're looking for care, you feel like you don't find any. Maybe you're not looking where you should be looking. Maybe you're just misunderstood. Maybe you just misunderstand them. In fact, it doesn't matter much, for these people do care about you. You just need to find the common grounds where both parties can express that correctly, since as you pointed it out, they're not you and you're not them.
Understanding others and being understood is hard, and learning to do it can lead to pretty tough situations. But it'll come by eventually. Just don't give up, and don't forget those people who care about you, but who maybe don't express that correctly.
What (actually who) helped me through that rough phase, is my dear stuffed black panther. I've had that plushie since I was 17, and she helped me go through a lot of tough situations. Such a companion is faithful, reliable, loving, and loveable. They make great confidants, and are always there when you need them. Just don't forget they're here to help and not replace your human friends :)
You're a teenager. You're going to get depressed, to get angry about the whole world. You're going to think no one cares about you. You're going to think no one loves you. You're going to feel like no one understands you. And you're going to feel that especially toward your parents/siblings. That's part of being a teenager - the vast majority of people goes through that, and it's a healthy thing. It makes you think, it makes you realize important points, it makes you accept yourself and build yourself a personality with strong values.
That being said, when an adult witnesses a teenager going through a depression, saying that no one cares about them and no one understands them, the first thing that comes to their mind is "Classic". Trouble is, it gives the teenager the impression that the adult actually doesn't care at all, like if they aren't moved the slightest by what's going on. This is however usually wrong. That feeling arises because actually neither parties understand eachother, or at least, they give the impression they don't.
It doesn't mean your parents, your siblings, your relatives, your friends, or anyone else doesn't care. It just means wherever you're looking for care, you feel like you don't find any. Maybe you're not looking where you should be looking. Maybe you're just misunderstood. Maybe you just misunderstand them. In fact, it doesn't matter much, for these people do care about you. You just need to find the common grounds where both parties can express that correctly, since as you pointed it out, they're not you and you're not them.
Understanding others and being understood is hard, and learning to do it can lead to pretty tough situations. But it'll come by eventually. Just don't give up, and don't forget those people who care about you, but who maybe don't express that correctly.
What (actually who) helped me through that rough phase, is my dear stuffed black panther. I've had that plushie since I was 17, and she helped me go through a lot of tough situations. Such a companion is faithful, reliable, loving, and loveable. They make great confidants, and are always there when you need them. Just don't forget they're here to help and not replace your human friends :)
Tartii...I know where your coming from with this, bubblegum suffers from anxiety/depression too, if not maybe a little more worse then you, I cant...understand...it alot, only a tiny bit form an anlytical view, but as long as their's someone there you can hug and cry out your emotions too it helps for the small immediate time. *virtual hugs*
That's it! My first finish piece of my new sona will have Tartii in her grasp. Clutching to the beautifully talented woman!
Life gets hard lovely, and with out all the downs we wouldn't enjoy our ups so much. I understand every word in your description, I was there not too long ago myself. and my younger sister is working through it now. Kind people do still exist and we are hear to talk with you when you need. it.
Please don't give up. your a beautiful person, who's growing up and having rough patches along the way. And you are beyond talented!
Much Love,
The Madness Fae
Life gets hard lovely, and with out all the downs we wouldn't enjoy our ups so much. I understand every word in your description, I was there not too long ago myself. and my younger sister is working through it now. Kind people do still exist and we are hear to talk with you when you need. it.
Please don't give up. your a beautiful person, who's growing up and having rough patches along the way. And you are beyond talented!
Much Love,
The Madness Fae
Unfortunately depression isn't something that just goes away. It sticks around and hurts even when nothing is wrong, and the worst part is when you try to explain this to people who have never experienced it. Because of my own experience with it, and having to deal with it (mostly) alone, I have little sympathy to offer others in the same situation.
However, I CAN tell you that while it doesn't go away, it can become easier to deal with. You can become stronger, more able to tolerate it. You can try to treat it with medication and therapy, but until there's a cure, this is something you're going to have to live with. It's up to you whether or not there's something in your life worth enduring it for.
However, I CAN tell you that while it doesn't go away, it can become easier to deal with. You can become stronger, more able to tolerate it. You can try to treat it with medication and therapy, but until there's a cure, this is something you're going to have to live with. It's up to you whether or not there's something in your life worth enduring it for.
All I can say is I hope things get better for you; whatever might be happening (If I'm getting the right message from this picture). I don't know you personally but I know that people don't deserve to ever feel like this. Remember to listen to the voices that love you and respect you; talk to one of those voices. Even if they can't say anything in return talking can do a world of good, just to know someone's there to listen.
I really hope you feel better soon, please don't let yourself fall apart or into a hole, because believe me, there are people out there with you that love you and hope only to see you succeed and flourish.
Keep strong, keep alive and keep fighting.
I really hope you feel better soon, please don't let yourself fall apart or into a hole, because believe me, there are people out there with you that love you and hope only to see you succeed and flourish.
Keep strong, keep alive and keep fighting.
I feel like I need to add something here, the emotional pain and everything. The fact is...a lot of people have said it so much better than I could ever hope to convey. Depression does suck, I've fought with it for a long time, and most of the time things haven't gotten better, at the least for me. But...keep pushing through, there's always something to live and protect for. No matter how grim the situation may be, no matter the pain, it will pass, given enough time and attention. I sincerely wish there was more that I could do to try and ease your pain, and I can't say I know what you're going through. But...what I can say is, you have a lot of people who wish nothing for the best for you, me being one of them, and so many others. Keep strong...the rain will pass, and the winds will become a gentle breeze in time.
I don't know you, but being who I am .. I would like to offer a hug *hugs* and your wrong, you might be crying for help and think no one is listening, but we are .. You just need to look in places you normally don't look. I didn't know about your friend till about five mintues ago. I saw a journal from a friend, followed the link .. Found someone going to do an auction and offered my services as a writer to help out.
I am also praying that your friend pulls through to .. So yes we hear you and ... we are helping ... Friends and strangers alike
I am also praying that your friend pulls through to .. So yes we hear you and ... we are helping ... Friends and strangers alike
Shit i know how that feels!
Hugs to you tarti and i hope you feel better soon! Your not nothing dont let the bad things control you, i know its hard and easier said then done but look there are people who care and love you, we might not be able to give you real hugs but surely you can see and feel the love it emmits :)
Hope you feel better soon!! xxx
Hugs to you tarti and i hope you feel better soon! Your not nothing dont let the bad things control you, i know its hard and easier said then done but look there are people who care and love you, we might not be able to give you real hugs but surely you can see and feel the love it emmits :)
Hope you feel better soon!! xxx
Sometimes it's easier to talk to someone you don't know at all.
My msn is pushy_prop_67[at]hotmail.co.uk (add me if you want to talk, I've helped others overcome their problems before, and I will try to help you as much as I can with yours.
My msn is pushy_prop_67[at]hotmail.co.uk (add me if you want to talk, I've helped others overcome their problems before, and I will try to help you as much as I can with yours.
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