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Stereotypes of the AB/DL world really annoy me. Especially since my mum and dad still don't give me the opportunity to try it out. Yes, they once did allow me to wear diapers for a certain period of time, but that was, like, five-or-so years ago. And it was only because they thought it'd make my ''fetish'' go away.
This is exactly why I so long to start wearing diapers again. It's unbelievable that this stuff is still a taboo in the ''normal'' world. Like I stated in the picture -- there are entire communities centered around Adult Baby / Diaper Lover activities. I believe we even have one not too far away from where we currently live in the Netherlands. I just wish my parents weren't so allergic to this topic. Yes, they know I have strong feelings towards this, but they refuse to let me do my thing, and this is even more insulting when you take into consideration the fact that I would harm absolutely NOBODY with this. So, what's the big deal?
This is exactly why I so long to start wearing diapers again. It's unbelievable that this stuff is still a taboo in the ''normal'' world. Like I stated in the picture -- there are entire communities centered around Adult Baby / Diaper Lover activities. I believe we even have one not too far away from where we currently live in the Netherlands. I just wish my parents weren't so allergic to this topic. Yes, they know I have strong feelings towards this, but they refuse to let me do my thing, and this is even more insulting when you take into consideration the fact that I would harm absolutely NOBODY with this. So, what's the big deal?
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Wow, eh... t-that's a bold statement.
I'll always love them. Why should I stop doing that?
My intention is to start my ABDL life once I'll move out of my parental house. I'm not showing any animosity to my own parents, man. That would be weird to do.
I get what you're trying to say. But the point of this picture is to make them better understand the situation I'm in when it comes to the topic of wearing diapers.
I'll always love them. Why should I stop doing that?
My intention is to start my ABDL life once I'll move out of my parental house. I'm not showing any animosity to my own parents, man. That would be weird to do.
I get what you're trying to say. But the point of this picture is to make them better understand the situation I'm in when it comes to the topic of wearing diapers.
I'm sorry your feeling this way Lay I know how it is and I completely understand what your saying and where your coming from
I wasn't always in diapers back when I was in my single digits and preteen years I would always look at them and always want to wear them Even kids at school and when my parents were foster parents I would look at a lot of diapers that kids wore and I would maybe sneak one or two away from them. But besides the point as I got older I got even more interested in diapers and found out my grandmother uses them due to very major health issues and other grandparents as well. So I would sneak one or two maybe on and off from them and eventually my mom discovered them and she had me go to therapy to talk with a counselor because she never understood it. I never understood it myself honestly. But I still liked wearing them and to this day my mom still doesn't understand it and I have been wearing them for a long time even with my medical problem as well. But still she still doesn't understand it. She doesn't say it's normal either My dad probably knows about it but he wouldn't say anything or understand it. My brother. He's probably seen it but he wouldn't say anything. He's not really wanting to speak my sister. She probably knows but she wouldn't say anything about it. But besides the point I get where you're coming from to this day, I have to chat with Mom now and then about it. She brings it up and she just wants to know. It's definitely not an easy topic to talk to them and she doesn't understand the whole abdl thing I keep telling him as long as it's not hurting me or anybody else. Where's the harm? But it's still the same result. They don't get it. I'm sorry you feel this way
I wasn't always in diapers back when I was in my single digits and preteen years I would always look at them and always want to wear them Even kids at school and when my parents were foster parents I would look at a lot of diapers that kids wore and I would maybe sneak one or two away from them. But besides the point as I got older I got even more interested in diapers and found out my grandmother uses them due to very major health issues and other grandparents as well. So I would sneak one or two maybe on and off from them and eventually my mom discovered them and she had me go to therapy to talk with a counselor because she never understood it. I never understood it myself honestly. But I still liked wearing them and to this day my mom still doesn't understand it and I have been wearing them for a long time even with my medical problem as well. But still she still doesn't understand it. She doesn't say it's normal either My dad probably knows about it but he wouldn't say anything or understand it. My brother. He's probably seen it but he wouldn't say anything. He's not really wanting to speak my sister. She probably knows but she wouldn't say anything about it. But besides the point I get where you're coming from to this day, I have to chat with Mom now and then about it. She brings it up and she just wants to know. It's definitely not an easy topic to talk to them and she doesn't understand the whole abdl thing I keep telling him as long as it's not hurting me or anybody else. Where's the harm? But it's still the same result. They don't get it. I'm sorry you feel this way
I can really see where you're coming from, Marry. And I totally understand what you've been through. My parents know that I like to wear diapers, but they won't let me do it because they say I'm living in their house and should obey by their rules. That's really the only stupid thing. Why would they prohibit me from wearing diapers if they KNOW I like to wear them, and they know that I wouldn't hurt anyone with it?
Thank you for understanding. Lay I'm sorry that must be hard on you It clearly is a mystery it really is I don't know a lot of parents. I hear are that way because when I talk to other users they are saying exactly what you're saying It seems like a lot of parents of users on here and other sources are really against it. I mean I am 100 support of the abdl community My parents really don't understand. They always ask me why. I tried to explain it to them but they still don't get it but it makes me happy. I mean look at all the diaper artwork I get. My parents don't really know that I get it well. My mom does but my dad I don't show anything like that to him. Besides, he doesn't really care about that kind of stuff or Pokémon to be exact. I'm never around my brother and my sister's always in school so it kind of caused the point redundant. But yes, my mom finds it's weird and it's disgusting that I like getting artwork done with Pokémon and diapers or me wearing them. She says it's not normal for a 28-year-old person to be wearing them. I don't know. She just goes along with it and she's just confused and doesn't understand
(I personally strongly prefer speaking English over speaking Dutch - especially if it comes to wanting to discuss heavy topics like this -, but you may respond to the following comment in either language.)
Mate, I absolutely don't understand the whole fuss around "diapers/nappies are just for babies" and "ABDLs are weird" and everything similar either.
Also, we're totally in the same boat in terms of having horribly close-minded parents who have those exact opinions.
Back when I didn't live on my own yet, both of my (additionally abusive as F) biological parents, who have no longer been together as of my birth, forcefully discouraged me to wear nappies as well, no matter how badly I wanted to. (e.g. by looking at them with pleading baby-doll eyes and pleading to them whenever we'd go through the baby aisle at the supermarket, at some of which they sold those Libero Up & Go size 7 pull-ups, into which I think I could perfectly fit back in my single-digits.) The reason why? They claimed I was "too old" for them - which is absolute poppycock, because there's plenty of people of all ages who still wear or have even never gotten out of nappies for all sorts of reasons: psychological trauma, any given (visible or invisible) disability with which they're born, the aftermath of any given major physical accident/injury, et cetera.
I remember randomly venting to my biological mother (the only bio parent whom I still speak to nowadays) when I was aged 13 (oh, the joy of birth sex hormones and major unresolved tension amongst my blood relatives already biting me hard back then) about how nobody's too old for anything, to which she had the nerve to say "Well, people will eventually become too old for nappies and dummies." ...believe it or not, as a then-closeted TBDL who only had their old baby toys to occasionally fulfil their desires and feelings with, I felt indescribably offended and hurt deep down.
However, about a year or so later, I do remember eventually randomly checkmating my biological mother's aforementioned nonsensical statement with "Oi, I just wanted to say that factually, nobody's too old for nappies. Think of some of the (intellectually) disabled people that we have experienced back when I took those swimming classes". (Long story short regarding this, I had taken - and ultimately failed - swimming classes at a location that specialised in caring for intellectually disabled people.) From how I interpreted her subsequent reaction to my logical argument, she was baffled. So yeah, checkmate for me.
(Whoops, I didn't mean to just vent to you like this without asking you first 🫢🫣)
As for you, I'm terribly sorry that your parents have been giving you such a hard time with this for all of those years, my heart defo goes out to you. I really hope that as soon as you live on your own (and, most importantly, are fully used to your very own abode), you'll eventually be able to truly give in to your desires to wear nappies. (Which, I can tell you from my own experience, are unfortunately pretty expensive - especially the ABDL-specific brands like ABU and Kiddo -, so I highly recommend saving up for those in advance.) 🤞🤞🤞
Mate, I absolutely don't understand the whole fuss around "diapers/nappies are just for babies" and "ABDLs are weird" and everything similar either.
Also, we're totally in the same boat in terms of having horribly close-minded parents who have those exact opinions.
Back when I didn't live on my own yet, both of my (additionally abusive as F) biological parents, who have no longer been together as of my birth, forcefully discouraged me to wear nappies as well, no matter how badly I wanted to. (e.g. by looking at them with pleading baby-doll eyes and pleading to them whenever we'd go through the baby aisle at the supermarket, at some of which they sold those Libero Up & Go size 7 pull-ups, into which I think I could perfectly fit back in my single-digits.) The reason why? They claimed I was "too old" for them - which is absolute poppycock, because there's plenty of people of all ages who still wear or have even never gotten out of nappies for all sorts of reasons: psychological trauma, any given (visible or invisible) disability with which they're born, the aftermath of any given major physical accident/injury, et cetera.
I remember randomly venting to my biological mother (the only bio parent whom I still speak to nowadays) when I was aged 13 (oh, the joy of birth sex hormones and major unresolved tension amongst my blood relatives already biting me hard back then) about how nobody's too old for anything, to which she had the nerve to say "Well, people will eventually become too old for nappies and dummies." ...believe it or not, as a then-closeted TBDL who only had their old baby toys to occasionally fulfil their desires and feelings with, I felt indescribably offended and hurt deep down.
However, about a year or so later, I do remember eventually randomly checkmating my biological mother's aforementioned nonsensical statement with "Oi, I just wanted to say that factually, nobody's too old for nappies. Think of some of the (intellectually) disabled people that we have experienced back when I took those swimming classes". (Long story short regarding this, I had taken - and ultimately failed - swimming classes at a location that specialised in caring for intellectually disabled people.) From how I interpreted her subsequent reaction to my logical argument, she was baffled. So yeah, checkmate for me.
(Whoops, I didn't mean to just vent to you like this without asking you first 🫢🫣)
As for you, I'm terribly sorry that your parents have been giving you such a hard time with this for all of those years, my heart defo goes out to you. I really hope that as soon as you live on your own (and, most importantly, are fully used to your very own abode), you'll eventually be able to truly give in to your desires to wear nappies. (Which, I can tell you from my own experience, are unfortunately pretty expensive - especially the ABDL-specific brands like ABU and Kiddo -, so I highly recommend saving up for those in advance.) 🤞🤞🤞
Dankjewel voor het advies, Sayori!
En het is oké als je liever in het Engels wilt communiceren. Enige is dan wel dat ik moet herinneren ''Eh... o ja, hij is Nederlands''. Engels is zeker wel makkelijker voor een grotere groep FA-gebruikers om te lezen, want ik denk dat dit forum in Amerika zijn oorsprong vindt.
En het is oké als je liever in het Engels wilt communiceren. Enige is dan wel dat ik moet herinneren ''Eh... o ja, hij is Nederlands''. Engels is zeker wel makkelijker voor een grotere groep FA-gebruikers om te lezen, want ik denk dat dit forum in Amerika zijn oorsprong vindt.
I'm sorry to hear that you're in the situation that you're in at home. You are not alone and there are many of us who experienced similar reactions and views from our parents and family.
From their standpoint, they want to prepare you for a happy, healthy and successful life, career, and society. They believe that you wearing diapers (and exploring regression) will hamper your ability to achieve these things.
Nearly all but a small percentage of AB/DL's do not have acceptance of our interests from our families and had to wait until we could move out and live on our own before we could truly immerse ourselves in this lifestyle.
Once you are on your way to a successful career (university and stable job) such that you can move out on your own or with a flatmate, and they see that you can manage yourself like they had hoped when they raised you, then your parents don't need to know about what you do "under your own roof" and you shouldn't need their acceptance of how you live your life at that point.
However, while you live "under their roof" you have to live by their rules I'm sad to say. Pardon the cliche but...That's just a part of growing up. "Maturity is knowing when it is appropriate to act Immature."
Sorry you're in this stage of your life, but I can assure you if you focus on what you need to do to make a career and get out on your own, you can set the groundwork for what you want so badly now. You just need to be patient. Making yourself "crazy" over it distracts you and diverts energy from achieving your goal.
*hugs*
Good luck
Swifty
From their standpoint, they want to prepare you for a happy, healthy and successful life, career, and society. They believe that you wearing diapers (and exploring regression) will hamper your ability to achieve these things.
Nearly all but a small percentage of AB/DL's do not have acceptance of our interests from our families and had to wait until we could move out and live on our own before we could truly immerse ourselves in this lifestyle.
Once you are on your way to a successful career (university and stable job) such that you can move out on your own or with a flatmate, and they see that you can manage yourself like they had hoped when they raised you, then your parents don't need to know about what you do "under your own roof" and you shouldn't need their acceptance of how you live your life at that point.
However, while you live "under their roof" you have to live by their rules I'm sad to say. Pardon the cliche but...That's just a part of growing up. "Maturity is knowing when it is appropriate to act Immature."
Sorry you're in this stage of your life, but I can assure you if you focus on what you need to do to make a career and get out on your own, you can set the groundwork for what you want so badly now. You just need to be patient. Making yourself "crazy" over it distracts you and diverts energy from achieving your goal.
*hugs*
Good luck
Swifty
Oh, don't worry. I'm not really affected by the cliché.
And, thank you. I'm already preparing to move out of my parental house (or, at least, I'm mentally preparing), but we're still looking for a place for me to live. We will get there eventually. Thank you for your kind words!
And, thank you. I'm already preparing to move out of my parental house (or, at least, I'm mentally preparing), but we're still looking for a place for me to live. We will get there eventually. Thank you for your kind words!
what universe are you from that you think nobody ever makes a fuss about abdls, and more importantly why the hell would you practice abdl stuff in plain view of other people particularly your parents?? yes when people think you're getting off sexually to the idea of peeing and pooping yourself they get uncomfortable. I think that's quite reasonable lol. if you're incontinent that's one thing, but if you're wearing for literally any other reason it's common decency to keep it to yourself. people don't like it when people do other sexual things in public, and I think it is quite easy to see why a mix of diapers (which are closely associated with babies/childhood) and sexual kinks would be percieved negatively, even as an abdl enjoyer myself who understands that enjoying diapers doesn't actually correlate to liking kids.
even if it's just something you truly simply enjoy doing and not a fetish, it should still be easy to understand why that would make people uncomfortable. there are numerous things that are considered polite to keep to yourself even if they don't directly harm anyone else.
even if it's just something you truly simply enjoy doing and not a fetish, it should still be easy to understand why that would make people uncomfortable. there are numerous things that are considered polite to keep to yourself even if they don't directly harm anyone else.
Well, that's what FA is for, right? I'm not going to do any of this in public. Sure, some people might get offended, but that's their problem. Like, for example, I sometimes come across overly-sexual pictures on FurAffinity, and whenever I do, I immediately skip those because they make me feel uncomfortable.
My point is, people shouldn't make a fuss about other people liking certain things that most others don't. For instance, I'm not going to immediately report some person's sexually-tinted artwork to the FA Staff, for example. I scroll right past those artworks and leave them be for people who DO find pleasure in admiring those pictures. Many people have many preferences, and that shouldn't interfere with things that totally unrelated people just so happen to like.
My point is, people shouldn't make a fuss about other people liking certain things that most others don't. For instance, I'm not going to immediately report some person's sexually-tinted artwork to the FA Staff, for example. I scroll right past those artworks and leave them be for people who DO find pleasure in admiring those pictures. Many people have many preferences, and that shouldn't interfere with things that totally unrelated people just so happen to like.
yeah uhh furaffinity is a fetish website so I would hope you wouldn't report art for being sexual lol. a fetish website is an appropriate place to explore kinks whereas real life, particularly in front of your PARENTS, is not. what don't you understand about this? are you nine years old?
Whoa, it's OK. I know what this is about. I don't have any relation to this topic and it is the entire reason I try to avoid it.
I'm turning 26 on the 6th of September, so that should be enough reason for me to know what I should and shouldn't do. I simply like creating art for people to see, and any unintended side-effects I will adress on the spot once someone points it out. No stress.
I'm turning 26 on the 6th of September, so that should be enough reason for me to know what I should and shouldn't do. I simply like creating art for people to see, and any unintended side-effects I will adress on the spot once someone points it out. No stress.
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