Oh, we're sorry that our recent...disturbances has caused problems with your search of personal satisfaction and releases. You see, we have had recent concerns about our current relationship, and we find it to have caused a kind of division between us. It is understandable that force is not the best way to tackle the situation at hand, so we will of course use means of persuasion only, though that method may squander the valuable time we get to have with you.
We wish to inquire why you choose him over us. What exactly does he promise that we can not provide? Is it some kind of promise that he provides, because so far, those promises have fallen short and you know just as well as we do that no matter what decision you make you'll be trapped like you always have been.