I've got something to say, but I'm not typing it on a cell phone. I'll get back to you ASAP.

Go attend some therapy sessions instead of asking strangers on the internet for advice.

Other than that, it gets better, ride it out, don't do something stupid like hurting yourself. Oh, and don't worry about being a virgin, you're still in high school.

Well, just graduated actually, but close enough.

And I've thought about talking to my therapist about this, but I just don't think she'd understand.

Strangers on the internet would understand you better than a person trained to help people through rough times in their life, who you've talked to before and knows more about your life than said strangers?

Somehow, I doubt that. It's what's therapy is for. It might be difficult to do/say, but it's better than doing it here, on the internet.

Well my therapist isn't gay, I'm just scared I guess. That's the only word. I just don't know if she can help me, or if she'll understand where I'm coming from.

There's a phrase that comes to mind to answer why I posted here on FA, "I've always depended on the kindness of a stranger."

Any decent therapist should be able to put himself in your shoes. Your therapist can't possibly have lived every single experience you have; his job is to fill in those gaps with empathy and training. So even if he's straight, he should be able to imagine and respond to the needs of a bisexual teenager on the basis that you are both human and have a set number of responses (fear, anxiety, etc). Furthermore, concealing something this integral to your identity from your therapist will really waylay whatever else it is you're working on with him. In order to help you, a therapist needs a complete picture of your state of mind. Open up to him.

Well, I suppose there's only one way to find out.

I've gotten a lot of PMs and a lot of heartwarming advice by now.

And hey, I'm not asking strangers on the internet..............

I'm asking furries.

Seconded about the therapist. However, I've been told that it should be you yourself that thinks you have a problem and wants to talk to a therapist. When I was on ritalin, my doctor made sure I was talking to a counselor because of being diagnosed with ADHD. She did have me go into a group therapy, which I only remember bits and pieces, and that was interesting. The half of the things I didn't tell her or others probably set me back during those sessions, but she didn't ask me to talk about my parents being divorced as well, not that I could tell, even though it was a fact I'd put across and avoided talking about my step-dad. Hang in there though! Looks like you got a bunch of support. Don't know how things are going now for you...

I...might be able to help you, if you care to talk about it to a stranger. :D

Feel free to PM me.

I'd try and help you because i've been in bad situations kinda like yours but somewhat opposite but I don't want to accidently make you feel worse. the choice is yours if you want to hear my story. It is heartworming to some

I'll hear anything at this point.

its pretty personal so I'll PM it to you

That's what I expected. That's perfectly fine. ^^

Do you have Skype?

I do, with no mic or webcam though. *facepaw*

That's fine. Add me.

grg, you do know that you can text me whenever you want as always :)

Yeah.....but.....your responses can take......a while.......

There I Said it.

Hii! Um, this was like a month ago, so are you still having this problem?

^^' Not really, but thanks for reading.

Oh mkay! ^-^