This is something that did for me, years and years ago...and yeah, its been five years...I finally figured I would post this, even with all the drama that came with it
(at least on my end)

It seemed a shame not to post hir...but then, I thought that 'she' was a 'she', not a HE - and its how I found out about that sort of thing, the hard way, in the furry *dies*

Ah well, lesson learned and moved on from that! er...I hope!!! :P