Look at how shitty I am at making this shit. It's super shitty. Also, I really mean it with that text. Flamboyancy and hyper-masculinity are dumb-stupid go away.
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Well, some men like getting in touch with their feminine side, so what if they wanna be girlish and maybe even dress up a little?
As for woman who are lesbian, but are more masculinity than other's let them do it. Who cares? Yes, I don't really think they should go to the gym and get super buff just to show they are the "Male" role in the relationship, but I also believe no one has the wright to judge another person on their looks like that. That's just like someone judging you for how you look. Just let the person be themselves, you never know...they may even be really nice people.
It's not that. Femininity is not what bothers me. It's when one takes a concept and spins it to the extreme. What I consider to be flamboyant might be farther down the spectrum then what you might. Same for masculinity. I'm bisexual. I have plenty of gay and bi friends. The primary reason why it bothers me is because I feel that gay people and lesbians try so hard to appear this way is less because they try to jump into a style of being so that they can identify with other people like them. They conform to a stereotype in search of identity essentially instead of just being themselves. You can still be feminine, masculine, or both if you express yourself without a filter on top. You can still like clothes or getting your hair done or enjoy sports and working out and stuff like that.
I see now. -nods- Well, I am pan-sexual, I don't care what a person looks like at all, reason why I was a little defensive toward those kinds of people. Because to me, I say if someone wants to look a certain way, let them. It makes them happy, if it didn't then they obviously wouldn't do it.
I'm actually pretty gay such that my brother complains about it because my vocal patterns have changed from months and months of skype calls impersonating flamboyant gay people and essentially talking in that voice for comedic effect, but I'm not fruit loop. Adrogyny is totally fine though. I've never seen androgyny as trying too hard.
Not necessarily. I love RuPaul to death. And I see that more as a hobby sort of thing rather than something else. Starbooty furever. I acknowledge that there can be nice fairies and nice bears or what would you have them, I just feel like they're cheating themselves out of proper self-expression.
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