The gentleman in the yellow shirt was one of those folks
that you constantly notice from the corner of your eye.
You know the type- he's that guy that tries to watch you
without being obvious. Every time you look over, he looks
away. Then you catch him staring, and the jig is up.
One grand benefit of wearing a fursuit is that it gives you an
important super power: the ability to make eye contact
with someone without their knowledge. That sounds creepy,
but it comes in handy. It's kind of like being able to read minds,
without the exposure to scenes you might file under TMI.
This lovely fellow stood at the far end of the bar, nursing his
vodka-and-whatever, stealing amazed glances at Desoto and I
as we mingled with the humans. I noticed that he was alone,
and that he wore a pleased expression as he peeped
over the rim of his glass. I expected him to sidle over, ask
the usual "what's this all about" questions, then slide away
with an interesting story to tell his buddies. To my surprise,
he remained aloof, content to sip and watch.
As always happens, Desoto and I were soon dragged away by the
voracious humans, fodder for pictures and Facebook posts.
When we were finally able to return to the bar, Mr. Yellowshirt was
gone. I've developed a reluctant sixth sense when it comes to
public fursuiting; I've wiggled into a position to connect with those
who really want to know what the suit represents.
I was sad that my yellow buddy and I hadn't had the chance
to have a drink and a chat.
Soldiering on, I ordered another cold Corona for myself and a
Barq's for Desoto. We spoke with a nice group of young ladies
celebrating a win in their bowling league, and when I turned back
to the bar, there was my yellow pal, standing just a few feet away.
I took a slug of Mexico's finest, and ambled over to introduce
myself. "Hello my friend!" I exclaimed, perhaps too loudly.
"Are you enjoying this fine afternoon?" I groomed my whiskers
and watched his face as it bloomed into a huge smile.
I doubt that he'd ever been approached by a talking dog, let
alone one clutching a cold beer in a big paw.
"OK, you got me." He said. "I couldn't leave until I heard the story.
What the heck are you guys up to?"
I smiled and gestured at my beer. "We're enjoying a drink on
this sunny afternoon, relaxing and meeting new friends like yourself."
He pursed his lips and looked me in the nostrils.
"But what's the angle? What are you guys after?"
I gave him my "We're furries and we do this because we love it"
speech, covering the whys and wherefores of fursuiting.
When I was done he thought hard and shook his head.
"So you paid hundreds or thousands for these get-ups, only to
walk around, sweat excessively, and hope to make a few folks smile?"
I nodded. "Yup"
I sipped my beer and let him digest that information for a moment.
I was surprised when I saw his face transform,
and a far away look cloud his eyes.
He wrinkled his brow and asked slowly "Can I tell you something? Something important? Something in confidence?"
I nodded until my plastic nose bounced.
"I hit rock bottom last year." He began. "Drugs almost ruined my
life. I was down to one friend, and that was my dog. He stuck by me
through it all. He never asked for anything in return, and he gave
his all, everyday, just to make me smile."
He continued for several minutes about the stark horror of drug addiction,
and he opened up in ways that I think even surprised himself.
I shall omit those details in deference to his request.
I blinked and put my paw on his shoulder. I couldn't think of what
to say. He continued. "What you're doing is sort of like that. If
dogs were able, they would mingle with us in bars and
buy us drinks and tell silly stories just to make us smile.
So thank you. I'm going home to hug my dog now."
I was stunned. Just when I thought I had heard it all, this chap
gave me another reason to fursuit. It's what dogs would do
if they could!
He agreed to stop for a quick pic, and then he was off for home
and an extended pooch hug.
I returned to the bar, glad to be the recipient of such a fine
compliment. If my demeanor and my actions reminded him of
what a real dog might do, then I was doing something right.
I sipped my beer and posed for another photo, feeling
more dog-like all the time. I smiled as I imagined my own mutts
out for an afternoon of bar hopping, chatting up the crowd and
giving the happy paws to everyone they met.
Every interaction gives something important back to me.
Every person I meet, every story I hear, every smile I see,
make this endeavor incredibly fulfilling.
And, that night, when I returned to being just another human,
you can be darn sure that I gave my mutts the biggest hugs ever.
that you constantly notice from the corner of your eye.
You know the type- he's that guy that tries to watch you
without being obvious. Every time you look over, he looks
away. Then you catch him staring, and the jig is up.
One grand benefit of wearing a fursuit is that it gives you an
important super power: the ability to make eye contact
with someone without their knowledge. That sounds creepy,
but it comes in handy. It's kind of like being able to read minds,
without the exposure to scenes you might file under TMI.
This lovely fellow stood at the far end of the bar, nursing his
vodka-and-whatever, stealing amazed glances at Desoto and I
as we mingled with the humans. I noticed that he was alone,
and that he wore a pleased expression as he peeped
over the rim of his glass. I expected him to sidle over, ask
the usual "what's this all about" questions, then slide away
with an interesting story to tell his buddies. To my surprise,
he remained aloof, content to sip and watch.
As always happens, Desoto and I were soon dragged away by the
voracious humans, fodder for pictures and Facebook posts.
When we were finally able to return to the bar, Mr. Yellowshirt was
gone. I've developed a reluctant sixth sense when it comes to
public fursuiting; I've wiggled into a position to connect with those
who really want to know what the suit represents.
I was sad that my yellow buddy and I hadn't had the chance
to have a drink and a chat.
Soldiering on, I ordered another cold Corona for myself and a
Barq's for Desoto. We spoke with a nice group of young ladies
celebrating a win in their bowling league, and when I turned back
to the bar, there was my yellow pal, standing just a few feet away.
I took a slug of Mexico's finest, and ambled over to introduce
myself. "Hello my friend!" I exclaimed, perhaps too loudly.
"Are you enjoying this fine afternoon?" I groomed my whiskers
and watched his face as it bloomed into a huge smile.
I doubt that he'd ever been approached by a talking dog, let
alone one clutching a cold beer in a big paw.
"OK, you got me." He said. "I couldn't leave until I heard the story.
What the heck are you guys up to?"
I smiled and gestured at my beer. "We're enjoying a drink on
this sunny afternoon, relaxing and meeting new friends like yourself."
He pursed his lips and looked me in the nostrils.
"But what's the angle? What are you guys after?"
I gave him my "We're furries and we do this because we love it"
speech, covering the whys and wherefores of fursuiting.
When I was done he thought hard and shook his head.
"So you paid hundreds or thousands for these get-ups, only to
walk around, sweat excessively, and hope to make a few folks smile?"
I nodded. "Yup"
I sipped my beer and let him digest that information for a moment.
I was surprised when I saw his face transform,
and a far away look cloud his eyes.
He wrinkled his brow and asked slowly "Can I tell you something? Something important? Something in confidence?"
I nodded until my plastic nose bounced.
"I hit rock bottom last year." He began. "Drugs almost ruined my
life. I was down to one friend, and that was my dog. He stuck by me
through it all. He never asked for anything in return, and he gave
his all, everyday, just to make me smile."
He continued for several minutes about the stark horror of drug addiction,
and he opened up in ways that I think even surprised himself.
I shall omit those details in deference to his request.
I blinked and put my paw on his shoulder. I couldn't think of what
to say. He continued. "What you're doing is sort of like that. If
dogs were able, they would mingle with us in bars and
buy us drinks and tell silly stories just to make us smile.
So thank you. I'm going home to hug my dog now."
I was stunned. Just when I thought I had heard it all, this chap
gave me another reason to fursuit. It's what dogs would do
if they could!
He agreed to stop for a quick pic, and then he was off for home
and an extended pooch hug.
I returned to the bar, glad to be the recipient of such a fine
compliment. If my demeanor and my actions reminded him of
what a real dog might do, then I was doing something right.
I sipped my beer and posed for another photo, feeling
more dog-like all the time. I smiled as I imagined my own mutts
out for an afternoon of bar hopping, chatting up the crowd and
giving the happy paws to everyone they met.
Every interaction gives something important back to me.
Every person I meet, every story I hear, every smile I see,
make this endeavor incredibly fulfilling.
And, that night, when I returned to being just another human,
you can be darn sure that I gave my mutts the biggest hugs ever.
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You make an excellent point!
This is why I rely on my friends to edit my ramblings.
I fixed the narrative somewhat to (hopefully) make it more clear.
There are plenty of things that folks have told me that I cannot
possibly share. Some are personal, some are hard to relate,
and some belong on a more adult themed page!
Thank you for your comment, and for giving me the chance
to make this story more cohesive.
This is why I rely on my friends to edit my ramblings.
I fixed the narrative somewhat to (hopefully) make it more clear.
There are plenty of things that folks have told me that I cannot
possibly share. Some are personal, some are hard to relate,
and some belong on a more adult themed page!
Thank you for your comment, and for giving me the chance
to make this story more cohesive.
I think things like this do need to be told though. I think in the end we're just old children, and the things that meant most to us are the source of our fears and joys.
A love of animals should be part of that. People who can't relate to them, doubtful could relate to other humans. How lonely that must be.
A love of animals should be part of that. People who can't relate to them, doubtful could relate to other humans. How lonely that must be.
Most times people forget that we only get one shot at life. So we should make it as happy as we can for ourselves and for those around us.
I wear my tail and collar around town just to for fun and in the hopes someone may get a smile out of it. You inspired me to do so DB.
If I had a suit I would do the same as you DB. *hugs*
I wear my tail and collar around town just to for fun and in the hopes someone may get a smile out of it. You inspired me to do so DB.
If I had a suit I would do the same as you DB. *hugs*
Touching on your recent journal, this submission becomes a perfect example of why your writing is so awesome. Please allow me to explain ( ) ... Without the story, the photo becomes just a picture of a fursuiter posing with some random dude. That's it. Nice picture. Moving on.
But the way you relate the events behind the image gives life to the moment. With every story of yours, I've gone back to the photo afterwards and ... I don't know .. pondered it for awhile. The people you pose with become special; no longer just strangers.
And I always consider the impact you have on these people you meet. How you can bring a moment of curious joy to so many of them. Or help spark a revelation in others, like Yellow Shirt Guy. Imagine if you hadn't spoken to him. He was alone in the bar, and probably would've left without talking to anyone. And have no reason to confess the crappy circumstances he created for himself. And not go home to hug his dog. And tomorrow would just be another day. But you opened up to him and he opened up to you, and whether he had considered his dog before in sense he related to you, I'm thinkin' that he and his only friend will be making more friends soon.
Maybe I'm overly romanticizing, but hey, isn't that what meeting a six-foot talking dog is all about? :3
But the way you relate the events behind the image gives life to the moment. With every story of yours, I've gone back to the photo afterwards and ... I don't know .. pondered it for awhile. The people you pose with become special; no longer just strangers.
And I always consider the impact you have on these people you meet. How you can bring a moment of curious joy to so many of them. Or help spark a revelation in others, like Yellow Shirt Guy. Imagine if you hadn't spoken to him. He was alone in the bar, and probably would've left without talking to anyone. And have no reason to confess the crappy circumstances he created for himself. And not go home to hug his dog. And tomorrow would just be another day. But you opened up to him and he opened up to you, and whether he had considered his dog before in sense he related to you, I'm thinkin' that he and his only friend will be making more friends soon.
Maybe I'm overly romanticizing, but hey, isn't that what meeting a six-foot talking dog is all about? :3
Wow, thank you for that great comment!
I find it gratifying that you take the time to read my submissions,
and then the fact that you actually go back an ~ponder the picture
makes me super happy.
I welcome the opportunity for anyone to romanticize my submissions;
after all, that is what imagination is all about. I do hope that I've made a tiny
dent in some folk's memories with my antics. The thought that I may
have made a lasting and positive impression is more than I could have ever hoped
for. Thank you again for your continued support. It makes this venture rewarding
in ways I can never hope to explain.
I find it gratifying that you take the time to read my submissions,
and then the fact that you actually go back an ~ponder the picture
makes me super happy.
I welcome the opportunity for anyone to romanticize my submissions;
after all, that is what imagination is all about. I do hope that I've made a tiny
dent in some folk's memories with my antics. The thought that I may
have made a lasting and positive impression is more than I could have ever hoped
for. Thank you again for your continued support. It makes this venture rewarding
in ways I can never hope to explain.
One of these days. I'm going to drop over to Cali and bar-suit with you guys, if only to see all this awesome that goes on. I think the west coast is much more amicable towards the idea than the east-coast is. Or maybe I just don't have balls as big as yours to try public suiting ;)
I think Mr. Mellow Yellow truly summed up how many of us view dogs. They're always there, asking for nothing more than to be near us, have a full food dish, and the occasional tummyrub. I'm glad that you two have managed to maintain a positive outlook and welcoming demeanor, no matter how many times you're asked the usual question about "angles". Here's hoping the young man can keep his life clean and free of drugs and that his canine companion will be with him for many years to come!
Yes, our canine buddies are truly a gift, and if we could
all emulate some of their altruistic traits, this world
would be a much better place.
I, too, hope this fine fellow keeps clean and sober,
and with the help of his dog, I'm sure he will succeed.
Thanks for reading and taking the time to comment, my friend!
all emulate some of their altruistic traits, this world
would be a much better place.
I, too, hope this fine fellow keeps clean and sober,
and with the help of his dog, I'm sure he will succeed.
Thanks for reading and taking the time to comment, my friend!
Aw, thank you!
I really appreciate the lovely comment.
And hey, I think I've been to Bertram!
I visited friends in Austin a few years back,
and we went to Canyonlands to go camping,
and then to Bertram for the Oatmeal Festival
(I think?)
Anyway, thanks for the invite.
You just might find a tall, thirsty dog at your door one day!
I really appreciate the lovely comment.
And hey, I think I've been to Bertram!
I visited friends in Austin a few years back,
and we went to Canyonlands to go camping,
and then to Bertram for the Oatmeal Festival
(I think?)
Anyway, thanks for the invite.
You just might find a tall, thirsty dog at your door one day!
Another truly beautiful story and encounter! I always well up with pride when I read of your public suiting adventures and just how much you are able to touch others lives. Its so true that if you live as a dog would, you can only bring joy and happiness to others. What a perfect visual you paint as I could see my woofers hanging out acting all derpy and makings others people laugh at their antics.
That gentlemen may have needed a talking dog or two right at that moment. You and Desoto never know when you will positively affect someones life and I can't wait to emulate your actions with my new suit.
Thanks again and big hugs to both of you :3
That gentlemen may have needed a talking dog or two right at that moment. You and Desoto never know when you will positively affect someones life and I can't wait to emulate your actions with my new suit.
Thanks again and big hugs to both of you :3
And big hugs back to you, my friend!
I surely do appreciate you taking the time to read,
and I really enjoyed the lovely comment.
Wouldn't it be cool to mingle in a bar with real talking
dogs? Imagine the silly stories and antics... what a treat.
I hope that you have the same kinds of wonderful interactions
in your suit that Desoto and I have had.
It truly is a blessing to make a few folks smile!
Cheers.
I surely do appreciate you taking the time to read,
and I really enjoyed the lovely comment.
Wouldn't it be cool to mingle in a bar with real talking
dogs? Imagine the silly stories and antics... what a treat.
I hope that you have the same kinds of wonderful interactions
in your suit that Desoto and I have had.
It truly is a blessing to make a few folks smile!
Cheers.
You're very kind.
I think you have it backwards, though.
It's folks like yourself, that were doing this
kind of thing long before me, who inspired me
and got me out there with the public at large.
All the goodness filters through you, first.
Thank you for all you do, my fine Coyote.
We'll have that drink yet!
I think you have it backwards, though.
It's folks like yourself, that were doing this
kind of thing long before me, who inspired me
and got me out there with the public at large.
All the goodness filters through you, first.
Thank you for all you do, my fine Coyote.
We'll have that drink yet!
heheh, its awesome how just suiting like that makes people open up to you, maybe its just something about being a giant dog that does it but its just amazingly cool because when you tell your stories, I always smile from all the positive things that come out of them. So anyway I am glad you continue to share all these stories with us and I hope you continue ti experience all these awesome fursuit things! x3
You are so awesome. :)
I'd love to fursuit more so than I actually do, seems I only fursuited once this year for a few hours. You seem to fursuit quite literally everywhere, I wouldn't be surprised if you went grocery shopping in suit lol. In lies the question of how do you manage it? Biggest problem with fursuiting for me is that I have no idea where to get into and out of suit at. Living in San Antonio, TX, and the heat, I cannot simply just drive to said locations in suit. I'd also need to be with another fursuiter who actually talks, since I do not. Harder to make friends in such situations not saying a word lol.
I'd love to fursuit more so than I actually do, seems I only fursuited once this year for a few hours. You seem to fursuit quite literally everywhere, I wouldn't be surprised if you went grocery shopping in suit lol. In lies the question of how do you manage it? Biggest problem with fursuiting for me is that I have no idea where to get into and out of suit at. Living in San Antonio, TX, and the heat, I cannot simply just drive to said locations in suit. I'd also need to be with another fursuiter who actually talks, since I do not. Harder to make friends in such situations not saying a word lol.
I do fursuit in the grocery store!
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?f.....=3&theater
But seriously, Thanks for the comment, and I do hope you are able to get out and suit more often.
As far as getting in and out of the suit, we bought a "changing tent" from E-Bay.
It a simple zip up mini tent that one can stand up in. It's great for changing on location!
Thank you again for the lovely comment.
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?f.....=3&theater
But seriously, Thanks for the comment, and I do hope you are able to get out and suit more often.
As far as getting in and out of the suit, we bought a "changing tent" from E-Bay.
It a simple zip up mini tent that one can stand up in. It's great for changing on location!
Thank you again for the lovely comment.
i've always considered, and yes i've experienced them, many years ago, places where liquor is sold, to be rather less then pleasant environments, with little or nothing to attract them.
and so; i've always wondered what fursuiters and furrys in general would need or want with a bar, but i guess if its things like that that you're "called" to ...
This is wonderful, like so many commentors said. And you also summarized what is the core of the furry fandom: seeing the unconditional love that a pet gives on and in a human by combining these creatures. By looking more like them, through fursuiting or artwork, we can be inspired to be more like them in this certain way... or something like that, I feel...
Another awesome one... you seriously need to consider compiling all of these stories and submitting to a new book, "Chicken Soup for the Fursuiter's Soul"
I have a few of my own I could contribute too... and your stories are inspiring me to actually take the time to sit and recall those amazing fursuiting moments!
I have a few of my own I could contribute too... and your stories are inspiring me to actually take the time to sit and recall those amazing fursuiting moments!
I think one of the reasons Dogbomb has so much success is because his suit is realistic. If his suit was cartoony, people would just send their kids to him and make them their part-time baby sitter. Also he can get all these interactions because he talks with a fully moving muzzle.
I'm thinking about getting a realistic fursuit from beastcub of my 21 year-old cat (RIP) and doing the same thing dogbomb does: Just go to social places in costume and hang out. Except I may do it with a gopro hanging from my collar and upload the videos to a special youtube account, instead of relying on someone to take pictures.
I'm thinking about getting a realistic fursuit from beastcub of my 21 year-old cat (RIP) and doing the same thing dogbomb does: Just go to social places in costume and hang out. Except I may do it with a gopro hanging from my collar and upload the videos to a special youtube account, instead of relying on someone to take pictures.
Thank you, and I agree, most of the wonderful reactions I get are
because of the suit. It seems to be just the right mix of realistic
and friendly to bring out the best in people.
I really hope that you do get a suit inspired by your cat.
Can you imagine you and I suiting together?
Now that would be YouTube worthy...
because of the suit. It seems to be just the right mix of realistic
and friendly to bring out the best in people.
I really hope that you do get a suit inspired by your cat.
Can you imagine you and I suiting together?
Now that would be YouTube worthy...
This is made of awesome and win!!!!! Funny thing is that I've often said that about these fuzzbutts here.... They are very passive and just accept life for what it is. They don't discriminate, they don't hold grudges, they just go around happy-go-lucky and all in life is okay.
It's my main thing about suiting is that it makes people smile and releases their inner kid, and it feels so good. it's also therapy for me as I also am generally very shy and reserved. Most folks think that my being a GM of a store is what made me braver, but honestly my confidence has come from being in suit meeting and talking to folks. It's allowed me to warm up a part of me I thought had gone away. :)
Thanks for sharing such a wonderful story!!!
*hugs you and your mate*
It's my main thing about suiting is that it makes people smile and releases their inner kid, and it feels so good. it's also therapy for me as I also am generally very shy and reserved. Most folks think that my being a GM of a store is what made me braver, but honestly my confidence has come from being in suit meeting and talking to folks. It's allowed me to warm up a part of me I thought had gone away. :)
Thanks for sharing such a wonderful story!!!
*hugs you and your mate*
Thank you, my friend!
I surely do appreciate that the suiting experience
takes one out of their shell and lets interactions flow freely.
It's a grand gift that I never expected. The added benefit
of putting one in touch with the imagination of strangers
is extremely gratifying.
Thank you for always giving a positive image to this fandom.
It's my pleasure to know you!
I surely do appreciate that the suiting experience
takes one out of their shell and lets interactions flow freely.
It's a grand gift that I never expected. The added benefit
of putting one in touch with the imagination of strangers
is extremely gratifying.
Thank you for always giving a positive image to this fandom.
It's my pleasure to know you!
All the more reason I am gonna go with a suit based off my favorite child hood pet Cody, who was a GShep Mix mutt. Loved him to death. Your stories make me want to spread the happiness I felt when ever I was around my dog. May you stay forever young enough to suit! Cheers to you Dogbomb, your pups, and my dear pet Cody who is no longer with me. Love you, all suiters out there that bring smiles and happiness to all!
Dogbomb, your stories never cease to amaze me.
I just know if I was to do such things in my partial...
I think I wouldn't fit to well in "today's society", Lol.
Keep it up though. Your stuff always makes me
think constantly in my head, "What would Dogbomb do?"
for nearly every situation.
I just know if I was to do such things in my partial...
I think I wouldn't fit to well in "today's society", Lol.
Keep it up though. Your stuff always makes me
think constantly in my head, "What would Dogbomb do?"
for nearly every situation.
Thank you, my friend!
I agree, your partial is better left for a
receptive audience, but it is amazing never the less.
I am gratified that you think of me and wonder
what I'd do in a certain situation.
Most times, my answer is "Have another beer."
I hope we get to meet up again soon.
I missed you at AC!
I agree, your partial is better left for a
receptive audience, but it is amazing never the less.
I am gratified that you think of me and wonder
what I'd do in a certain situation.
Most times, my answer is "Have another beer."
I hope we get to meet up again soon.
I missed you at AC!
*waggwagg* What an awesome pic and an awesome story to go with it! Thanks so much for sharing this with us sweet sheppy! I know what you mean by the person who really REALLY wants to interact with you in suit but doesn't have the guts to come out of their shell either because they are too self conscious or are intimidated to do so by the environment. I notice this a lot around cons, even other furs will sometimes be hesitant to step forward and break the ice. I love it when I can find them and go over to them to say hi. It is such a nice feeling when you see them happy that you did that for them. Awesome stuff, can't say that enough. Keep being the best giant dog you can be DB. *hugs*
Thank you, my friend!
I agree with you, the best thing ever is to interact with
that certain someone who is too shy to talk to a giant dog, but is
dying inside to shake your paw and get a hug.
Those truly are the magic moments!
Well, that and when you spill and entire beer inside your head.
I agree with you, the best thing ever is to interact with
that certain someone who is too shy to talk to a giant dog, but is
dying inside to shake your paw and get a hug.
Those truly are the magic moments!
Well, that and when you spill and entire beer inside your head.
Your stories are always so heartfelt, you sure meet a lot of interesting people over there. I doubt people would be that accepting over here but oh well.
I always love reading about your adventures, dog. Even if such a simple thing as suiting you bring hapyness to people, even if it is just a smile. That's what suiting should be about
I always love reading about your adventures, dog. Even if such a simple thing as suiting you bring hapyness to people, even if it is just a smile. That's what suiting should be about
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