*hugs anyways* You will be. with a friend. <3

i guess.

i'm just tired of a certain person that's been obsessing over me recently... i don't want to hurt him but he doesn't give me any personal space and keeps saying he's in love with me, even though he knows i already have someone i love.

Then just tell him. It's best to speak up early, than him find out the truth later and get angry that you kept it secret. Tell him that you don't love him, but would like to be friends with him. If he pulls the "If you don't love me, we aren't friends anymore" card, he's not a true friend. A real friend would stick by you through everything.

Trust me on that.

i told him that many times. he just won't listen or give up...

he's online every single day to wait for me until i come and he always talks about his problems. usually i can help people feel better but he just ignores every solution i come up with and says i'm all he can think about and it makes him very sad i don't love him back. the point is i do love him, but as a friend. he doesn't understand that.

i wish he'd listen to me for once and find himself some irl friends too so he won't be so lonely and desperate...

thanks for making me feel a bit better though -hugs-

Hon, I'm that way myself. I have to force myself to deal with the love of others, knowing that I may possibly never have that kind of love. I just suck it up and move forward, and if he can't do that, then it's his fault. He's probably going to end up heart broken, which wouldn't be all bad, but it wouldn't be all good either.

A broken heart has nothing left to lose and is very dangerous. They can go off at anything, and be extremely volatile. If he ends up like that, show him that you love him, and will always love him. But don't force the love, show it naturally.

I hope he listens so that he doesn't end up broken and defeated, it's sad when that happens. And I'm glad you feel better. Sometimes just talking to people can help. -Hugs back-

he's too far gone for that if you ask me... he's been depressive even before i knew him and i get the feeling that meeting me didn't really help him feel better. he's always so sad...

i wish i could cheer him up. i tried many times but eventually that lead into him obsessing over me and i can't stand it when he's after me again... he knows it but he just doesn't care.

i can't solve it. he doesn't notice that too.

ah well, he will listen someday. i'm certain. thanks again!

You're very welcome. And great to see that you are happy again.

aaaawwh * lay next to you an hugs*

everything will be ok <:3

im there for you !

i know X3

i'm just so sick of a certain stalking person... if you read the other comments you'll get it i think...

:( if you say you're all right......

i am. it's just shit happening and sometimes you can't avoid that. i'll be fine soon X3

._. ok...