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"We all have the choice of getting along, or stabbing each other in the back. That's a choice we all make, and one that everybody lives with."
Flamersen added me to skype not to long ago, and after an amusing discussion we came to realize that we both seemed to have a similar point of view regarding how we feel how others should be treated. To say the least, it gave me an idea and I decided to commission this little piece. ^^ Enjoy
Afterall I've always felt that, especially when folks on FA try to talk to me, that I feel they deserve to be treated like a friend unless they prove
otherwise. Sadly that is not the case with alot of folks on FA who tend to treat people like garbage until they prove otherwise.
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cappucola As a Gift for 
flamersen Featuring Them and 
Myself
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Hmmn... I'm still pondering my own perspectives to take actually!
Although I screen potential bad people a little differently. If someone shows signs of empathy, caring and altruism, so long as you yourself are pure I can always give them the benefit of doubt. Like, they'll mess up along the way, but I won't perceive said mistakes as forethought and malice. Although I have a keen eye for antisocial behavior and narcissism. When I see someone engage in something like telling a big arbitrary lie, a grandiose sense of self worth, or are quick to go into hiding/end a conversation uncomfortably when someone close to them is feeling down, that raises red flags. I have a little mental checklist for these signs, and it does a wonderful job of screening out potentially dangerous people so you can focus on the really good people in life.
Although I screen potential bad people a little differently. If someone shows signs of empathy, caring and altruism, so long as you yourself are pure I can always give them the benefit of doubt. Like, they'll mess up along the way, but I won't perceive said mistakes as forethought and malice. Although I have a keen eye for antisocial behavior and narcissism. When I see someone engage in something like telling a big arbitrary lie, a grandiose sense of self worth, or are quick to go into hiding/end a conversation uncomfortably when someone close to them is feeling down, that raises red flags. I have a little mental checklist for these signs, and it does a wonderful job of screening out potentially dangerous people so you can focus on the really good people in life.
I'd call envy on that one xD I wish I was noticing those things more often, probably would of prevented a few irritations in life! But I agree with your perspective there, people afterall will fuck up from time to time, but there is always a difference between maliciousness and "shit happens"
Yeah. I'd love to run you on a crash course on how I screen people. But yeah this saved me a LOT of trouble. However! I had to work on myself as well. During my teenage years I was actually a very poisonous person! I'm still a feeling of being a liability, but I intend to improve on that until I got an actual contribution to society. But I find some people will go incredible stands to be a societal detriment... And they will NEVER take repsonsibility for their actions.
I'm rambling but... When you catch these red flags? You can shun these people from your life and completely avoid potential dangers of these kinds of people. It's been said antisocial behavior or narcissism exists in 1 out of every 100 people. Notice the signs and you can avoid the problems they cause and the lost energy and frustration that comes from it.
I met some very beautiful people in my life. Kind people too. I realize though that I too have to focus on my personal development too. Be a blessing onto others. It's so hard though! But I have to work on myself until I am. <3
I'm rambling but... When you catch these red flags? You can shun these people from your life and completely avoid potential dangers of these kinds of people. It's been said antisocial behavior or narcissism exists in 1 out of every 100 people. Notice the signs and you can avoid the problems they cause and the lost energy and frustration that comes from it.
I met some very beautiful people in my life. Kind people too. I realize though that I too have to focus on my personal development too. Be a blessing onto others. It's so hard though! But I have to work on myself until I am. <3
I tend to (try) to be friendly when put in a situation where I have to meet someone new. I have a generally functional idiot filter to avoid the bad ones. But I find time and time again that when someone I see as a close friend get hurt or something, I rashly attack said offender and usually come to regret it later. This is a flaw of mine I am struggling to overcome, but little by little, I feel I am. I still have a long way to go tho :c
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