Little Tales - RL vs. VR
Firstly, if you think I'm personally attacking you with this comic, go listen to this: http://youtu.be/mQZmCJUSC6g
This was Friday's comic and is based off of my years of running online communities, roleplay mucks, and livestreaming. It's amazing how many people stop seeing you as a human or think that their behavior is excusable because they're not interacting with you directly. I have had people excuse horrible insulting behavior with all sorts of things like being tired, medication, full moons, and the facts that their mommas never loved them. They can't even be bothered to mutter an apology, or if they do it's heavily basted and buttered with excuses and justifications.
We all have bad days, we all have odd moments, but if you're going to be a jerk then at least have the stones to admit it instead of drowning it in rhetoric and weak justifications. Nobody buys it.
Copic marker and pen and ink on cardstock. One of my analog comics while I wait for my replacement tablet. To see more comics, visit http://www.little-tales.com
This was Friday's comic and is based off of my years of running online communities, roleplay mucks, and livestreaming. It's amazing how many people stop seeing you as a human or think that their behavior is excusable because they're not interacting with you directly. I have had people excuse horrible insulting behavior with all sorts of things like being tired, medication, full moons, and the facts that their mommas never loved them. They can't even be bothered to mutter an apology, or if they do it's heavily basted and buttered with excuses and justifications.
We all have bad days, we all have odd moments, but if you're going to be a jerk then at least have the stones to admit it instead of drowning it in rhetoric and weak justifications. Nobody buys it.
Copic marker and pen and ink on cardstock. One of my analog comics while I wait for my replacement tablet. To see more comics, visit http://www.little-tales.com
Category Artwork (Traditional) / Comics
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Thats okay-
I just had to make the comment out of natural smart-assedness.
Figured any profanity would be black-boxed due to the comic in any case.
You're lucky in getting relatively clean complaints though...When I get them in private messages, they're usually a pocket dictionary's worth of "colorful" language....
-Badger-
I just had to make the comment out of natural smart-assedness.
Figured any profanity would be black-boxed due to the comic in any case.
You're lucky in getting relatively clean complaints though...When I get them in private messages, they're usually a pocket dictionary's worth of "colorful" language....
-Badger-
This sounds smug of me even though that isn't the intended tone, but since I don't do adult themed art, the people griping at me tend to not be that way. Usually it's more someone wanting me to pay more attention to them, or upset that I didn't worship them in the precise little way that they wanted, or coddle them exactly the way they felt they deserved.
(That and the folks who know me worth a whit know that if they do come at me like that they better be ready for my retaliation. As I told one person, "If you continue this I will do something, and you will not like it." They continued, and I proceeded to give them a public psych evaluation. Without going into gory detail, they never came back and I didn't have to so much as raise my voice.)
(That and the folks who know me worth a whit know that if they do come at me like that they better be ready for my retaliation. As I told one person, "If you continue this I will do something, and you will not like it." They continued, and I proceeded to give them a public psych evaluation. Without going into gory detail, they never came back and I didn't have to so much as raise my voice.)
We have similar personalities, Gen.
Somewhat similar family backgrounds too....Which is probably why.
(And that is not bragging...I spend a lot of time trying to forget most of my family.)
We have very different attitudes towards adult content.
And thats fine.
I'm comfortable with what I draw, and its definitely not for everyone.
But I like to think you and I get along just fine, since we respect one another's opinions.
-Badger-
Somewhat similar family backgrounds too....Which is probably why.
(And that is not bragging...I spend a lot of time trying to forget most of my family.)
We have very different attitudes towards adult content.
And thats fine.
I'm comfortable with what I draw, and its definitely not for everyone.
But I like to think you and I get along just fine, since we respect one another's opinions.
-Badger-
I've had that realization before of "Oh God...When I'm not face to face with someone I'm WAY more of a jerk"...What did it for me was seeing somebody I talk to regularly on webcam, and realizing that if I got upset and said things out of anger, I would be facing him just as much as if I was right there in person with him. I don't think I've thought of online conversations the same way again since. o.o;;
I've also been on the other end of things...I used to have a friend who was rather quiet and reserved in person, yet would open up quite a bit online. That seemed to be alright until I realized how much this influenced our communications...When we'd hang out in person he'd never say a WORD to me if he was upset, yet I would get a screenfull once I got home and logged on my computer. He never really understood that this was a problem when I brought it up either. x3
Ah the crazy things people do on the internet XD
I've also been on the other end of things...I used to have a friend who was rather quiet and reserved in person, yet would open up quite a bit online. That seemed to be alright until I realized how much this influenced our communications...When we'd hang out in person he'd never say a WORD to me if he was upset, yet I would get a screenfull once I got home and logged on my computer. He never really understood that this was a problem when I brought it up either. x3
Ah the crazy things people do on the internet XD
Yea I hear yea. I ran a couple of mucks back in the day myself. I also run a guild on a semi-popular MMORPG, moderated a couple of forums, among other things online. The only truth I could see and find about all this is that folks tend to be morons at times, and even if they apologize for it, they never really learn manners.
you know, I have a different point of view. I think IRL all you get (from this group of people) is a half hearted apology to get them out of trouble. online you find out how they really feel. I think, at least for rudeness, the only apologies you'll get are the sincere ones.
on the other hand, don't confuse this with apology by way of explanation. ("I'm sorry for being late, I missed the bus", instead of "I'm sorry for being late"). The difference being, social faux pas can be much more complicated to explain then missing a bus. especially for people prone to rambling.... now where was I going with that.....
on the other hand, don't confuse this with apology by way of explanation. ("I'm sorry for being late, I missed the bus", instead of "I'm sorry for being late"). The difference being, social faux pas can be much more complicated to explain then missing a bus. especially for people prone to rambling.... now where was I going with that.....
I've always referred to the internet as opposite land just for this reason. It seems like some of the worst behaviors (& especially logic) fly freely online where, like you said, it just never would anywhere else. It blows my mind man, haha.
Anyway, I'm sorry to hear this sort of thing happens to you sometimes. You deserve better for how good you always are to folks <3
Anyway, I'm sorry to hear this sort of thing happens to you sometimes. You deserve better for how good you always are to folks <3
OMG I can't believe you actually said that! That offends me to my deepest core! I was just trying to be nice and watch you and fav every picc you've ever done because I'm your deepest, most obsessive fan. This makes me so heartbroken I think I'm going to go slit my wrists now or OD on sleeping pills or just shoot myself in the head, well not really but you get the idea. I hate you so much right now, I hate you, I hate you, I hate, I hate you. It's not like I don't try to fit in but it's very hard I've had a very bad childhood growing up. Kids always used to tease me and dip my head in toilets that hadn't been flushed yet. It's made me so anti-social so I have a hard time trusting people and tend to keep to myself. My parents totally hate me, they beat me with leather belts and don't feed me and keep me locked up in the basement, well not really, but you get the idea. They'll only let me play regular NES and Game Boy, not DS, not GB Advance, not Nintendo 64 or Genesis, damn it they're so cheap I hate them I hate them I hate them. Would you like to give me your home address and phone number so I can maybe visit you sometime and we can get married and buy all sorts of these pets that we can pretend are our children. Holy crap, this is harder than I thought it would be, I'm only halfway down the blank space as it is. Hmmmm, let's see. Four score and seven years ago, our forefathers, who art in heaven... well, that's all I know about THAT speech. Crap. Think, think. Warning, you should consult a physician before joining to see if joining Furaffinity is right for you, as side effects may include high-blood pressure, headaches, insomnia, explosive diarrhea, and erections lasting more that fourteen hours. You should not join Furaffinity if you have a history of hear troubles, arthritis, muscle spasms, mental illness, and tennis elbow. Uhhhh, jeez.... John, Jacob, Jinkenheimer-Jinks, that name is my name too... You know what? What the hell. This is more than enough to get the point across. Damn.
P.S. I hope this doesn't mean that I can't still ask you for free art.
P.S. I hope this doesn't mean that I can't still ask you for free art.
The bird fall guy has become almost iconic in your work gen hehe.
I always say, never judge a person as you know them in one medium, weather that be via the Internet or face to face. They are often different people entirely. But this makes it no less right to loose social etiquette on the Internet.... But let's face it, we all troll a bit sometimes (especially trolling the trolls) so we are all responsible in a way.
Top comic as per usual gen :D
That illustration of the rambling looks arduous and without ctrl+z you had it tough. Nice job :)
I always say, never judge a person as you know them in one medium, weather that be via the Internet or face to face. They are often different people entirely. But this makes it no less right to loose social etiquette on the Internet.... But let's face it, we all troll a bit sometimes (especially trolling the trolls) so we are all responsible in a way.
Top comic as per usual gen :D
That illustration of the rambling looks arduous and without ctrl+z you had it tough. Nice job :)
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