Getting sued for medical bills we can't pay
16 years ago
My husband is getting sued... and soon I am going to be on the chopping block.
More or less... becuase I got laid off... we couldn't afford to pay his insurance...
The day before I got my surgery in December he got a bad case of the stomach flu, and we took him to the hospital emergency room.
The cost for this and all the tests is 2,100
Because I don't have a job at the moment and we are barely scrapping by we haven't been able to pay. Because we haven't been able to pay they are taking us to small claims court.
We can't afford this.
I really REALLY hate to beg... but this is urgent.
Please help!!!
I made an auction
http://www.furbuy.com/auctions/1009874.html
And if you can't afford the auction then please please PM me
Or you can donate... Just please... I really need this help, there is no other group of people I can turn to.
Pinkuh[at]gmail.com is my paypal addy
Donated: 1064.00
Auction: 300.00
Goal 2,100
total left: 636
More or less... becuase I got laid off... we couldn't afford to pay his insurance...
The day before I got my surgery in December he got a bad case of the stomach flu, and we took him to the hospital emergency room.
The cost for this and all the tests is 2,100
Because I don't have a job at the moment and we are barely scrapping by we haven't been able to pay. Because we haven't been able to pay they are taking us to small claims court.
We can't afford this.
I really REALLY hate to beg... but this is urgent.
Please help!!!
I made an auction
http://www.furbuy.com/auctions/1009874.html
And if you can't afford the auction then please please PM me
Or you can donate... Just please... I really need this help, there is no other group of people I can turn to.
Pinkuh[at]gmail.com is my paypal addy
Donated: 1064.00
Auction: 300.00
Goal 2,100
total left: 636
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They may drop the case if you do..
God I feel like such a looser >_<
~N~
~N~
Also, not to pry, but how is this costing 2000+ dollars for an emergency room visit? I had the same thing happen this month, and it was less than 300(before my insurance got to it) even with a battery of tests and 4 hours on fluids and under observation. Have you requested an itemized bill showing the services rendered and their cost?.. was there an ambulance involved?
As I said, I don't mean to pry, only trying to help.
Before the patient even sees the doctor, we start a large bore IV (18g in the elbow) in case CT contrast media is used, as well as ready access to pull blood for labs - much easier on the patient instead of poking them time and time again in case the doctor orders additional lab work, or blood cells break apart in the tube before they can be processed etc. We do at least seven tests right off from the start. Additionally, we'll do what's called an Acute Abdominal Series, which is a 3 shot xray series. Depending on how strongly we suspect an api, we may or may not order that and go directly to a CT. Now, with the contrast, oral contrast is given in doses over a set period of time to ensure the entire intestinal tract has contrast in it. what this does, is ligtt up the organs like Christmas when they are irradiated by the CT. We will focus the scan on the lower right quadrant of the abdomen and check for abnormalities.
Sadly, with as expensive as a CT is (which I was only recently informed by another patient about a month ago) it's the best way to detect if an appendix is inflamed. There are cheaper ways, but they are not as certain. A CT is preferred, hands down. It's a basic practice in emergency medicine for patients presenting to the ER with these symptoms. A CT is quick and accurate, I've seen it be the deciding factor in patients that either went into emergency surgery, or were treated with oral antibiotics.
Considering the oral contrast was vomited back up, and depending on how long it's been since a bowel movement, they may have done tests to rule out a Small Bowel Obstruction. But, from what I read in your post, this pain came on very quickly which isn't really conducive to an SBO.
I recall an old Garfield cartoon where John is writhing in bed, complaigning of his stomach pain and it wakes Odie. Odie can't get Johns attention for whatever reason, so dials 911. They respond to his barking and get an ambulance to take John to the hospital. I don't recall exactly what he said to Odie at the hospital, but I know it was along the lines of saving his life.
An api isn't something to be taken lightly. it's painful, very painful. If the pain was intense, then suddenly went away or became just tender all of a sudden - the appendix could have burst and you can get what's called sepsis. In a simple term, blood poisoning by a monumental infection.
You did right getting him to the hospital. Kudos to your quick thinking and actions. I can't offer actual medical advice, only explain processes because I don't have face time with the patient to access their symptoms. So if you have any questions or concerns about what happened, please feel free to message me.
Sounds like a bad case of medical fraud to me c..c
The fact that CT have become standard practice is because of greed and laziness. It's the same with what medication the doctors prescribe, always the most expensive alternatives because they or the hospital gets paid for doing so. They use the expensive equipment to justify the purchase of it.
P.S. I have consulted medical personal on the part about ruling out/confirming an inflamed appendix AND my kid-brother had his appendix removed a few months back and I know what was done then.
I'd have to say that the situation was considered critical, since it was done. Neither of us were there for the hospital visit so clearly, at least to me, this is the obvious answer.
The fact that CT have become standard practice is because of greed and laziness. It's the same with what medication the doctors prescribe, always the most expensive alternatives because they or the hospital gets paid for doing so. They use the expensive equipment to justify the purchase of it.
As far as greed and laziness? My hospital provides flat rate medical coverage to our patients; if they come to the er, need surgery, hospitalizations, a boat load of medications etc. If other facilities do it because of "greed and laziness", then that is indeed bad on their part. But I stand by my doctors decisions each time they request a CT to be performed to rule out an api.
While graded compression sonography is over 90% accurate when done correctly, if the patient presents in too much pain for applicable compression, go with the CT. If a patient presents with severe pain, why put them through additional pain to diagnose their problem?
Additionally, we do not supply "brand name" medications if there is a generic version available simply because of costs. If the patient requests the brand name, they will either have a co-pay for that visit, or be given a hand written script to take to a pharmacy of their choosing and pay whatever fees/prices are associated with it.
"P.S. I have consulted medical personal on the part about ruling out/confirming an inflamed appendix AND my kid-brother had his appendix removed a few months back and I know what was done then."
It's good to hear that someone is educating, or had educated, themselves on a topic; however, each facility runs differently. Different protocols are in place at different hospitals. There will always be variances in diagnosis and treatment because medicine is a practice.
If the facility had the ability (technological, staff, and experience level) to perform an US to help diagnose this problem and instead went with a CT, then they could be in the wrong; but, it's neither your nor my place to state such. That would be for a medical review board or consultant to decide after staff interviews and a chart audit.
Insurance companies are going to find ways to not pay out money, don't blame that fact on the hospital. But, from what I've seen..
Most doctors/nurses seem to ignore the patients "professional opinion" about their own bodies, they seem to think that the patient exaggerate a lot...
You already have a very firm belief about the health care system. I was hoping to educate in some sense, but I don't think there is any point to it anymore.
Pinkuh; I'm sorry to turn your original entry into a near cesspool of 'back and forths'. I wish you the best in this crap situation. Just keep your head up, thankfully with medical bills there are lots of ways to stay above water. Best of luck to you!
Worst one though was they had to send me by ambulence to the IWK childrens hospital when iw as 14 because they gave me the wrong dosage of the wrong medication and nearly killed me... I was in the hospital for 4 days.
I don't know why your hospital only charges 1/10th of ours, but I wish I could find one like that. :P
On the plus side, the hospital APPEARS to have a generous charity policy and we might be able to get the bill completely dropped. We'll still going through the paperwork.
They had her practically on lockdown, did dozens and dozens of tests (which she NEVER got results back for but they charged her anyway) and the nursing was absolutely atrocious; wouldn't even refill her cup of tea.
The medical industry in this country needs to be strapped down on a bed and clobbered with socks filled with medical soap. Or enema bags full of barium.
In any case, so long as you're paying 10-15 dollars a month, the most you can have happen to you are angry, scolding phone calls full of vitriol. They can't make you pay if you don't have the money.
And I mean this. If they take you to court and you explain you just plain don't have the finances to pay the absurd bills off right now, the judge will choke the company representative with his gavel.
It serves justice to nobody to threaten jail time or legal fees to people too poor to pay their medical bills.
Don't let them intimidate you. Just send them what you can pay, every month.
You are not a loser.
Ive been sued for medical bills several times for amounts in the tens of thousands.
This is a commen scare tactic they use,and it gets people all like OMGWTF!
Pay atleast 20 a month,explain teh situation and if you do get as far as the judge they will just ask how much you can pay and you say 5-10 20 a month or whatever...
My ex used to have lots of bills, this is how we too care of them.
This seems like a more honest approach to the ordeal rather than just outright begging for money.
Hope you get everything situated.
(Yes. I know there's no excuse for comments like this. But I've just had it up to the eyeballs with people who can't be arsed to make the minimal intellectual effort to encompass sociopolitical opinions that differ from their own. I live on a continent where 300,000,000 people get state-sponsored healthcare. Yes, there are trade-offs of efficiency and taxation, and I warmly invite you to intelligently disagree with them. But if you just write the whole issue of as "brainwashing" then YOU are the one who's forgotten how to think.)
Even with the best insurance and the most capitalistic health care system in existence, cancer treatment doesn't always 'take'. People with great insurance in the states still die all the time from cancer, and people bounce back from cancer all the time in countries with universal health care.
Plenty of Americans have fucked up teeth as well. There's certainly a media bias that attempts to portray the British as having nasty teeth and Americans as having a 'hollywood smile'.
Keep in mind that your healthcare system is only as powerful as you can afford to make it. Those in the US who cannot afford the health care don't get access to that 'superior' health care, and would certainly be better off with the hypothetical 'sub par' healthcare.
I lul'd
And as soon as I started exercising my FDCPA rights? That shut 'em up.
it really doesn't help that it has been rocky and I am totally panicky about this kinda stuff.
:|
Brush up on your trolling dictionary please, and come back another day.
you suck at this :(.
Regardless, I'll note my friends at the
It'll be in our spotlight too at
Take care now.
~Otaku-Man
~Otaku-Man
This might be useful.
Never take it on the chin from bill collectors. Know your rights and take advantage of your options. No matter what happens, remember that YOU are in control.
Other than that, hope you get all this sorted out for yourself Pinkuh.
My best wishes are with you.
As a provider, I sympathize completely. Those pencil-pushing insurance people don't care about anyone but themselves and their money. God help the bureaucrat who tells me I cannot treat a patient for financial reasons!
Shit, theres, NO OFFENCE TO ANYONE THAT READS THIS UNLESS YOU FALL IN THIS CATEGORY, tons of white trash and freeloafing black trash ( seriously dunt know the other term for that besides the N one and not doin that) that have gotten a piece of the bailout to just do nothing and be taken care of
the debt collectors have gone freaking insane with suits (we got hit too and only via refinancing the house could we get free of the wage garnishments) they refused payments being royal dicks they collected tiny amounts and made them into one huge amount the smallest they found was .96 cents! on a water bill at our old rental house!!
its due to the economic down turn theyre snatching and grabbing at any buck they can get! before people dont have a dime and judges start refusing them the cases
they cant put you into a further worse situation the law guarantees that DEFINITELY go to the hearing (if it gets to that) and bring your current pay stubs utilities rent car insurance & payments (all money going out and bank ballences) the judge will figure up a budget if your funds allow payments he will set that if not then he will tell them they have to wait till you get more money and award them interest and fees
this isnt meant to hurt but inform ya so you dont panic you can plan ahead just incase the fandom cant pull it out
ill post a help journal for ya HUGS i hope things get better
PS: Good advice there, but isnt what you mention bankruptcy?
Bankruptcy may be a good option, but only under some conditions, you really have to be careful with that, and think ahead more than in the now.
bankruptcy should be a course of last resort and it dosent get rid of all the debts it also gives the court the option to seize and sell things you own which might be considered luxury items (the definition varies depending on the state and local area) to satisfy the debts anyhow
As I mentioned in my response to Pink, when it comes to considering bankruptcy options, its something that definitely begs doing a lot of homework. I think your option, especially considering that a judge is involved somehow, if it isn't bankruptcy is something that would require a lot of thinking out too. You did remind me of something else though, that would require some heavy thinking as well, but to shop around for an institution or agency that will consolidate your dept outside the scope of a court or requiring the assistance of a lawyer. I'm not to sure about these businesses though, but it seems I've seen even state or federally funded programs offering this service. Its at least another option to look into when getting all the cards out on the table and planning a strategy to get things on the right track as soon as possible.
State of Wisconsin has a minimum payment that you can pay, especially concerning medical, which is like around $10 or $25, I cant remember, and they cant take you to court. Even if its lower than what they say over the phone. The trick here is not to agree to any payment plan they say, unless its around $10 a month, until you can get gainful income again. If they say $50 or $100 is the minimum they can accept dont believe them and dont agree, because then it is a legal contract and they can hold you to it. After that the only thing they can do there to pressure you into paying is threatening to report it to your credit and wack things out there.
And if worse comes to worse you may want to discuss a bankrupcy option with your spouse. If your credit is fairly good, you may want to try to avoid this as much as possible, but if the hospital reporting minimum payment to the credit bureau will lower your credit into bad, or if its already there (dont use free credit report dot come to find out either) and it wont be some time that it will be good again, bankruptcy may be a viable option. Jus do your homework to see if Chapter 13 or 7 is better for you. It may seem odd, but in more cases than not Chapter 7 is best for you to recover. For instance my wife and I thought the more honest option was 13, but we found out fast that it would have been better to do 7. Seven wipes your debts, so you no longer have any, thirteen consolidates them, and they still exist until moneys are allocated and they are paid off, it just protects you from legal action being taken by your debtors.
I'm rootin for you in the donation field, and you're in my thoughts and prayers as far as everything working out for the better.
:/ whenever I'm sick, I shrug it off.
:D I also eat out of the trash.
I know how it feels being jobless...
and homeless.. ..
Good luck with that, Btw. =(
good luck with your medical bills! I can barely afford my community college tuition..
~N~
Either way, even if I'm not familiar with your work, I've been in this spot before. You have a friend in Ceeb.
I wish you the best of luck sorting this all out. I'm crossing my fingers for you. <3 *huggles*
http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/759745/
But still, let's see if we can get a little money your way in any event. It's nice to know you cannot be sued, but now the problem is how to get the money to get by.
I wish I could help more. ^_^
http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/759952/
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Thank you so much.
I'll gladly see them in court though. I look forward to it. I just don't let anyone strong-arm me. Sounds like your talks and phone calls with other people have certainly eased your mind a bit.
That's just how we are, I guess. We panic for a bit, then when we talk things out we realize it's not so bad. ^_^
http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/760058/
We've had this threat done to us a couple times, its total scare tactic. Pay the bare minimum, they will be mad, but they can stick it where the sun don't shine. =P
Also, I wish Hilary Clinton could have got us social health insurance, like canada. =( We can't afford these things anymore, I can't wait for the USA to flip back to normal. =)
People forget that they don't NEED certain things which they through countless dollars on, self discipline is important in cases like these.
But are you seriously telling someone who was laid off, can no longer pay medical insurance, and whose husband is in serious need of medical care to "cut back on their extravagant lifestyle?"
Self discipline is important yes, but when you find yourself in this position -now is not the time to lecture on good spending habits. I know what you're trying to say, but they're already being called into court.
Pinkuh -I love your work, and just bought a rather large commission myself. I'll be sure to send some money your way though paypal.
I need the internet becuase what little money I do earn requires me to have net access in order to do (commission artist)
We already buy crap food, and again without power I can't earn what little I do. so I am kinda stuck.
File for bankruptcy! :D
No...Don't do that.
If you know a rather GOOD lawyer, like Bobby Sands (If you live in Vermont...Which is doubtful), you can always counter-litigate them.
Haaaa, but that lawyer would have to be pretty good at BS'ing. Although, depending on the hospital, they might have some of the best lawyers already on salary.
--Note, these comments are not to be taken seriously.
Here's to hoping that everything gets better post haste. :/ Hang in there.
-The Colonel
Journal Posted :3
I guess the one thing i can do is Pray for ya
Have Faith, you will pull through this one way or another
Anyway, lacking money to offer, I shall donate my thoughts and wishes along with the other poor blokes. =P
Best of luck from Austria (Europe)!
You guy's will make it through this! I'll be sure to donate a little with my next paycheck.
seems we got tadadadammm a bit of.......
CAPITALISM!!!!!!!!
this is whaat happens in capitalism
people who are poor get 'poorer' and people who are rich get wealthier(i know my english sucks)
well i think that if you realy had no other choice and are threatend to go to jail...
you can always go to cuba and ask for an asylum...(only as the very extreme last resort)
the other thing is what i did when i had no house and nothing more than my guitar was
go play on the street for money (i could sleep in hotels for that money)
but then i got a job at the music school and am getting my life back together.....
the next thing i would wish to talk about is saving as much money as you can
frist if you or your husband is/are smoking STOP
second don't use a computer or other electrical devices(use internet cafes for that matter)
third if you have any talents what so ever exploit them
fourth DO NEVER absolutely NEVER borrow money from underground guys....
fifth if you have a backyard or similar land make a garden and grow vegetables-that will help keep your food expenses down
sixth don't drive cars or motorcycles. buy a bike or walk...
seventh-this is illlegal by the way-nevermind i wont write it anyway....
thats it
also do you have an adress so i can send money in an envelope??
"Sir, we can cure your broken bones, but if you don't have enough money we could use one of your kidneys as payment."
America has the worlds most inefficient health care system due to privatization and "the middle man"
For each American the average yearly health care bill is around $5-6,000 where as in Germany it is around $2,000 and in England around $1200
=3
I'm not agreeing with how they worded a lot of things, but I have quite a number of friends who live outside the US, and they tell me similarly. (The bad teeth thing is just incredibly silly, but the part about waiting forever to be treated apparently, is not..)
Although I can imagine certain areas of London and the North having issues with health care provision mainly with more complex surgery :3
I feel deeply sad for people in the US - including good friends of mine that I've seen go through the crap there - that you do not have a proper healthcare system. I'm sorry to say but it is unfair. A national health service would do nothing but benefit the USA.
The idea that individuals outside of the US must sometimes wait a very long time to receive health-care is something I have been hearing from friends of mine who are outside of the US. I am told by several that it is difficult to see a doctor if they are sick, and that the wait can be up to several months. They decide not to go, after all, because it "isn't worth it", yet they do not know what, exactly, is wrong with themselves.
I worry about my friends. I want them to feel as if they can see a doctor when they need to. The thought of them having to wait for several months to be examined frightens me. What if it is something that requires immediate attention, or something that will get considerably worse by the time they are able to be looked at?
For a GP (standard doctor) appointment, here in this very busy part of the UK, you can wait upto 3 weeks. This part is one of the worst (near London - I used to live in central Scotland). This is pretty bad - however - if you are genuinely in any distress or really unwell you can always go to the hospital for immediate treatment. Or to be more specific, you will be referred to emergency GP at your local hospital for assessment within about 2 hours. This is for any time you are in immediate pain or illness. So with that in mind, I think it's pretty fair. However as I have mental health issues, I wouldn't go to the hospital GP for that, and it is annoying to wait on an appointment. Further to this, in some parts of the country you will have a waiting time for non urgent procedures which can be worse in some places than others. One area it could be a week, one it could be 3 months. But if something serious which is threatening to your health comes up, you will get yoinked into hospital and treated there and then. Of course there have been scandals with people not getting the right treatment, but this is the case everywhere and it's not the acceptable norm nor is it something you are likely to go through.
Also it can be kept in mind that you can also see a private doctor/hospital if you do not want to go through the national health service - for which you can get insurance, or just go and pay up fees. This is obviously a lot faster and you get a "luxury" treatment. For example I had to go get my tonsils out (I've not, just an example), I could go to a private hospital and have my own room and plush slippers and nice food. Or I could go NHS where I'd go into a ward probably with a bunch of other people having something similar, food would be passable, I'd get the treatment and it'd just be a "no frills" experience. There is a choice there. I always sigh when I have seen right-wing American politicians on TV who say that in the UK you are FORCED into this COMMUNIST health system where you have no choice. It is utter nonsense.
Anyway, sorry to make such a long post (and apologies to Pinkuh for the off-topic). I just thought I'd explain a little there. While a national health service is something which is very difficult to run, it is most definitely a very good thing.
Perhaps they were exaggerating. I hope so, at least.
Right now, I think I broke my foot. I can't bend my toes. I can't sleep. I can't walk on it. The pain is making me want to puke. It's excruciating. I'm debating going to the ER because I don't have health insurance right now. I will in a few months, and I know the hospital would just hold off billing anything until I called them and let them know I have insurance (they're doing that for my mom), but still...
It's a sad, sad situation. Best of luck to you and your husband! I hope you both are feeling better!
As far as the price of the scan, that is about usual, but many lives have been save by the accuracy of it. I should know, we study that stuff constantly in my pre-med classes.
Best of luck!
Best of luck!
Hope you get through this... I do live near you, so I could MAYBE get you a place to stay if it comes to that. Only issue is the parents, but if you're in dire need, I could probably work something out.
I'd still love to work out a commission!
OKay, I was able to give ya 10 dollars. I know it's much but it's all I could spare. I hope it helps.
Their system fucked up... we only received one bill notice... it was in February. And then we didn't receive ANY phone calls or anything of the like becuase they had entered our home phone number wrong in their system.
Needless to say they got that all straightened out... with the help of FA we paid 1,000 of that bill so far... and if by some miracle we manage to get the full amount it will be GONE forever and never will we have to deal with that BS again (cause now we BOTH have insurance)
Since you're barely scraping by, your insurance cover is likely to be fairly cheap and thus extremely limited. I STRONGLY recommend that, as well as insurance, you put away as much as you possibly can into a savings account. Do not touch it for ANYTHING other than mdeical emergencies.
1. Pay the absolute minimum each month that you can. ($5 will not make that much difference as to whether or not you can keep your lights on. If $5 makes that much of a difference, then you need to reassess either your income or the way that you spend it)
or
2. Declare bankruptcy. It KILLS your credit rating, but jesus if it's THIS bad for you, you don't have much choice.
As nice as we in the fandom are, most of us have our own issues right now financially, and if you're putting all your eggs in the "plz give me money" basket, then you'll be SOL.
That all being said, I hope you take a more mature approach and find yourself either the financial help you need, or handle it the way MOST people in America tend to when they can't afford these things, by doing one of the two things I mentioned above.
Good luck.
OH WAIT It's cool when Admins do it I guess.
We all have our own crap to deal with, sadly things are bad all over right now but I just wanted to point out that Pinkuh's situation is very different from Allan's.
I hate begging as much as the next person. I'm not able to donate at the moment; not enough in paypal thanks to moving across the country and the usual stuff. But, I can pass along the link to here and see if there's some friends willing to make a bid if the auction is still going on.
The best of luck getting the money up in time. Just try to come up with something, even if you have to ask your church for help.
Blah black wall of text. I have had it up to here with the "left" and "right" fighting tooth and nail. Nothing is getting done, and it seems it's gonna stay like that for a while. Hope things work out for you, Pinkuh.
i offerd you to help
im limited in english
hope everything goes good for you
take care
xbs