I will stop nsfw
4 years ago
I understood with what happened with Rudragon that doing nsfw for others is always seen as if it's you that wants it °^° I've been doing it because drawing is a work for me, to be open and accept people as they are. But in the light of what happened, understanding that, now I know that it can't be understood by most people, only relatives. If drawing things for others and work, makes people think that it's okay to ask me for things that isn't me, then I better not °^° It's been years that I tried to understand that, way before furry, but this fandom, the way I joined it, made it clear. The only not safe works I wanted to do are between me and my boyfriend, or even offering him things he likes cause I care for him. And even that, it was seen as if he wanted others to be horny at him and it killed my will to draw this kind of stuff, at least pubicly. Not safe that were offered of my fursona, wasn't my demand, never, but I wanted people to be free to draw what they want, but again, that's something people can't understand, or some abuse of it.
In a way, it saddens me that boundaries can't be seen. It's not because an adult gets sex in his life that it means that he wants it or share it with everyone, I thought it was common knowledge but it's not. I don't want that anymore, so it's done for me °^°
EDIT (more precisions)
I've personaly experienced things that hurt me, it's not just fighting for a cause but more like a conclusion I came with to stop those things from happening to me anymore °^° May be the most effective solution, that's all I tried to explain
In a way, it saddens me that boundaries can't be seen. It's not because an adult gets sex in his life that it means that he wants it or share it with everyone, I thought it was common knowledge but it's not. I don't want that anymore, so it's done for me °^°
EDIT (more precisions)
I've personaly experienced things that hurt me, it's not just fighting for a cause but more like a conclusion I came with to stop those things from happening to me anymore °^° May be the most effective solution, that's all I tried to explain
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It's understandable, but I think the problem is not the SFW/NSRW boundary, but the fact that a lot of people are more interrested in it (yeap. Porn makes sales, everyone knows it).
I didn't follow the drama (i'm not here for that) but I think you have to put rules on it, not just stopping because of the "fear of dramas" :)