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An Open Letter
3 years ago
To whom it may concern,
If you're reading this message, there's a good chance you're not cisgender. Please do yourself a favor and just think on that for a little while. <3
Sources:
1. Observations of the online furry community for many years
2. Very suspicious patterns in the content of users who follow me
If you're reading this message, there's a good chance you're not cisgender. Please do yourself a favor and just think on that for a little while. <3
Sources:
1. Observations of the online furry community for many years
2. Very suspicious patterns in the content of users who follow me
If you want the truth, cis men don't hate their bodies and wish they were girls. Cis men don't have dysphoria.
I've accepted that I'm definitely not cis at this point, but I've still been wrapping my head around exactly where my identity and sexuality lies. I know for sure that I'm trans, though. Even started hrt back in September!
I'll admit, I still have doubts from time to time, especially when my family questions me constantly, but I keep coming back to the same answer over and over. I'm not 100% female, but I definitely am not 100% male either. It feels wrong to reject my maleness completely, yet the dysphoria and disconnect from my body is real as well. For those reasons, I seem to feel happiest with a nonbinary gender.
The depression is still another matter to work through, but I feel that I'm on the right path. I'm growing to accept all the aspects of myself, both good and bad, and learn to forgive myself for my quirks and shortcomings. With that at the very least, I can finally move on to be more constructive about finding my true self.
I know I haven't talked much, but I greatly appreciate the chats we've had. It's helped me come to grips with everything!