Let's talk about boys π»π½ππΏ
4 years ago
General
No status update or art announcement this time. No, I just want to open the forum to discuss a topic that has been on my mind for quite a lot...
Do you think about boys?
Do you think about boys a lot? Do you check out hot guys while you walk through the supermarket or the park? or the bus? or EVERYWHERE? Cuz that's how i've found myself recently... I'm just so needy of manly love. πΏ
I feel greedy
Very much like being desperate; I crave boy attention so, damn, much. But, you see, it's a very funny feeling. When I spot a hot guy at the beach -wearing nothing but shorts and a baseball cap, displaying a magnificently toned physique- I get this uneasy dual feeling: I NEED to have a boy like that and I NEED to have a body like that! πΉ
Body Issues
I think feel this disaffection because of insecurities deep inside me. I feel like, unless I have an ultra hot body, I cannot drive myself to talk to the guys I see because I am not on their league yet. And so, I'm left feeling deeply dissatisfied, angry and empty. I just don't know how to build more confidence in me and how to procure me a hot guy who can give me sum luv! π½
Does anyone feel this way too?
This is an open space to comment. You can share your own experiences or give me advice if you feel like it. No sexual orientation distinction. I will also give advice to your comments if you'd like. π
Do you think about boys?
Do you think about boys a lot? Do you check out hot guys while you walk through the supermarket or the park? or the bus? or EVERYWHERE? Cuz that's how i've found myself recently... I'm just so needy of manly love. πΏ
I feel greedy
Very much like being desperate; I crave boy attention so, damn, much. But, you see, it's a very funny feeling. When I spot a hot guy at the beach -wearing nothing but shorts and a baseball cap, displaying a magnificently toned physique- I get this uneasy dual feeling: I NEED to have a boy like that and I NEED to have a body like that! πΉ
Body Issues
I think feel this disaffection because of insecurities deep inside me. I feel like, unless I have an ultra hot body, I cannot drive myself to talk to the guys I see because I am not on their league yet. And so, I'm left feeling deeply dissatisfied, angry and empty. I just don't know how to build more confidence in me and how to procure me a hot guy who can give me sum luv! π½
Does anyone feel this way too?
This is an open space to comment. You can share your own experiences or give me advice if you feel like it. No sexual orientation distinction. I will also give advice to your comments if you'd like. π
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And if you'd want advice from me, I would say it's not mandatory to put your dating life on hold until you are post-op. I have a couple of trans and non binary friends who have had the luck of dating someone who loves them while they are in the middle of transitioning. If you wait until you are post op, you might miss out on a lot of new experiences. If course, feeling okay with your body is important and you need to be honest, but a friend managed to gain a lot of confidence simply by acquiring a chest binder :) Whatever you think is best for you.