What We Are...
3 years ago
I keep running into these very particular definitions of what it means to be furry, and it kind of bugs me because they're frequently used to exclude people, or (a personal peeve) people use these definitions to exclude themselves , on the grounds of furry being in some way "bad" or negative in some fashion.
I've been in the fandom for as long as the fandom has existed as an identifiable entity, and what makes you a furry is pretty damned uncomplicated: if you like anthropomorphic creatures in more than a passing fashion, you're a furry.
There are no other requirements; not sex, not suits, not porn, not gender preference or gender roles, not art, not media. Nothing. Anyone who tells you different has an agenda, it may not be malicious or even something that they recognize, but they are inserting their own preferences and biases into the definition.
Certainly there are lots of things that have been and are common elements within the fandom, and I can tell you those elements have changed and evolved over the decades, but those things are all just elements of the fandom and they do not define what it means to be "a furry", they just define what it means to be furry to specific individuals.
When I did my citizenship-test to become a US Citizen, there was a question in there that I found really interesting and a really valuable truth when considering groups of people; I was asked "What one thing is true of all Americans?" I wasn't able to think of anything and told the tester as much. I was told "Actually, that's basically the right answer; aside from being Americans, no one thing is true about all of them.".
It's the same with furries: no one thing is true about all of them, except that they like anthropomorphic creatures.
-Wolf
I've been in the fandom for as long as the fandom has existed as an identifiable entity, and what makes you a furry is pretty damned uncomplicated: if you like anthropomorphic creatures in more than a passing fashion, you're a furry.
There are no other requirements; not sex, not suits, not porn, not gender preference or gender roles, not art, not media. Nothing. Anyone who tells you different has an agenda, it may not be malicious or even something that they recognize, but they are inserting their own preferences and biases into the definition.
Certainly there are lots of things that have been and are common elements within the fandom, and I can tell you those elements have changed and evolved over the decades, but those things are all just elements of the fandom and they do not define what it means to be "a furry", they just define what it means to be furry to specific individuals.
When I did my citizenship-test to become a US Citizen, there was a question in there that I found really interesting and a really valuable truth when considering groups of people; I was asked "What one thing is true of all Americans?" I wasn't able to think of anything and told the tester as much. I was told "Actually, that's basically the right answer; aside from being Americans, no one thing is true about all of them.".
It's the same with furries: no one thing is true about all of them, except that they like anthropomorphic creatures.
-Wolf
I also agree with that test-question. My answer would actually have been "They are all American." Which sounds like a non-answer, but I mean it seriously.
But then again, he was a devout catholic so I'm sure something would have ruined the friendship eventually. (I considered myself a shaman at the time.)
A furry is someone willing to accept the label.
Sure, there's liking this and that, but I know several people that like furry stuff but won't call themselves furries and forcing labels on people generally isn't kosher. If they'll self identify, they are, if they won't, they aren't.
Life is also far too short to spend it worrying that someone is liking furries wrong
I admit, I don't understand what this means.
You can see how that would be if you were to apply that sort of gatekeeping to being in a fandom.
I'm not too worried. Liking anthro characters is too big and broad of a concept for the whole community around it to just vanish. It'll probably just splinter into more-specialized groups over time, as is pretty common for any large fandom. It always hurts when big swaths of a community has to divorce itself from the rest, but...what can I say? Humans are big on tribalism. XD
Ostensibly it's to keep property values up, but it's a little piece of authority lying around you know exactly the sorts that pick it up and then while their afternoons away finding things to fine and hassel their neighbours about.
Last one I was in, the HOA members interfered with me selling my place and getting out - like... running up to potential buyers and getting in their face was going to increase the price. Also complained about the moving trailer I had out for 1 night while we filled it up.
They enable the wrong sorts of people, and yes, increasingly it feels like Furry is getting those types in positions where they can cause problems.
You should write down what you remember about the east coast fandom. Most furry history articles I've read mention California and the west, but skip a lot from other places.
I never really considered myself as part of the fandom, I don't go to conventions or meet with people in person. I keep most if not all of my interactions online. I will say this... I have noticed a clear shift in the fandom, whether it be gatekeeping or creating sub-categories in the fandom. Some parts of the fandom don't seem as welcoming as they used to be... or I could be getting older and seeing things differently.
And i admit i don't go to cons myself (too poor, not enough interest for me to go (i'm an introvert who usually interacts with the rest of humanity at arms length.. of my arm to my keyboard.) and other issues come up (like too lazy to actually commit.. or is that axienty to comitt? oh well)
also which way do you think the fandom is shifting? if you don't mind me asking. because while I see it one way I know others can see it another way that is unique to them. Like with me being center right it means I notice more the shift from my own views more astutely than i do from those shifts towards my own views.
Perhaps I will receive some negative comments from the people here or you for my post. I am aware that dirty cops exist, bad apples exist in every group or profession. I just don't think it's fair to say the entire bag of apples is bad because of one bad apple.
As for right or left, I tend to land somewhere in the center, perhaps center right. I was raised in a Christian household. I was raised to treat people with respect and to treat them how I would like to be treated. Etc.
Those kind of people aren't worth having in your life, and maybe they did you a service in blocking you because you can't get mocked or jeered at or angry at for when they celebrate an officers death who may be known to you.
But i also find it funny how when a certain group mis-construes four cops who died after the 'jan 6" incident (i think there was some planning in that on a certain side who currently holds power) where their death wasn't attributed to that day.. NOW say that a cop's death is a horrible thing (because this time it was by a 'conservative') it's the main stream media, our own leaders, our celebrity's or rather, entirely our elites are working to separate the populace to make them more controllable.
I remember a certain group saying how it's interesting that as kids we have zero prejedices, and then we get them instilled upon us by our parents, family and society. This same group also wants to have unity and peace but at the same time will not allow others to even have the remote freedom to think for themselves and to voice their opinions as we did when we where children who would go "You think that's how it is? maaan.. you're stupid.. but we're still cool. Come on, lets race to my house, mom's got some great snacks for us this time!"
So instead this group pushes everyone they disagree with away and see that the only way unity can be achieved is through their way. In truth.. who's really wise enough to say what can lead to true unity? But I really hope a mono-culture isn't the only way as that is what can lead to a dystopian future. IT's also funny they want a mono-culture but keep saying that to question one culture and then praise another culture through partaking in their customs is bad. Confusing times we're in.. and i'm tired and rambling so I think i'ma wrap this up and go.
I was raised catholic. but my mom (single parent) was super leinent and also celebrated new age stuff such as native american spiritualism, and some degree of druidism. as such was kinda raised center left. Was even for a while a 'soy boy' who hated my own gender because "it was the right path" but now? I don't hate my gender and do have some distaste for the female gender due to now seeing how they have manipulated everyone around them but i still want to hope that not all women are like that.
I can see this going several ways, both good and bad, the furry could deny that the anthro is a furry or even an anthro since they are ''just a modded human'' while the anthro could sneer at the human/furry for still being just a human, it would be an interesting exchange.
My first thought regarding "What one thing is true of all Americans?" was ''They all live in America i guess'' XD
Now, under YOUR definition, yes, I have no problem being called a furry, it is in fact exactly the whole point. But I never saw anything this simple and precise before.
And glad to hear - the less gatekeeping the fandom has, the less rabid agendas (well-meaning or else) get pushed down folks' throats, the better the fandom can and will be.
I find that while there are plenty of people who may be pushing an agenda when they tell others a 'Furry is X or Y', I'm also of a mind to believe it's less an agenda and more just...a lack of introspection. Identity in the fandom is a very superficial thing to a number of furs I've met and gotten to know, where they will label specific characteristics 'Furry characteristics' as if they're flair to put on or take off. When ultimately it just means they've tacked on a bunch of that flair as beacons on top of the underlying core of what the fandom is: An interest in--and celebration and exploration of--anthropomorphic animal themes. That's kinda all.
So it does tickle me when I see accounts proudly declaring 'I am NOT a Furry' when their favorites and galleries are littered with anthropomorphic paraphernalia, fetishized or non. Likewise I steer clear of folk attempting to define what characteristics makes others a "good furry" because they usually are some superficial checkmark: Have a fursuit, have an SL or VRChat av, have gon to a con, have collected art. Like what editorials and exposes on the fandom oft fail to grasp: Those're window-dressing. Most folk are Furries before they even know they're Furries.
Thanks for sharing that, Wolf. :)
The fandom is by the most part its own little economy, this is something I deeply love.
It's that pigeonholing that many fans, especially some of the old guard types, like myself, came to resent.
I'm not old but the weather arthritis makes me feel old (even if it's plagued me since way back) and I have memories of the beautiful days back when. And this question sparked memories of things like the musical Eurofurs. The song "Furry Art" had a piece of a poem that lays it all out. I found that poem, and saved a link. Here you go.
http://www.tigerden.com/poem.html
Even as I witness some people make belittling excluded comments on the word but will comment about liking this one anthro character in a anime or show with the “I’m not a furry…but” comment.
Frankly the change of the definition is helpful, considering being weird for liking this one thing is becoming the new norm now. Especially when animated movies keep making them.
for your own perusal, I present the link: https://www.furaffinity.net/journal/10178904/
With thanks to you always,
Mika Kyubi
Kitsune-at-Large
(oft-times QUITE large)
I think it's possible to like something that can be classified as furry without it *making you into* a furry, or even to like *several* things in that direction. I grew up with all the classic stuff: cartoons, cereal box mascots and so on, and I liked them; I think most people like them, or they wouldn't have existed for so long. But I also don't feel that my liking them makes me furry. There's more depth to it than that.
I do agree with that final statement that liking anthros is a unifying quality of all furries though.
I guess that makes me a furry...no ya know what... I AM a furry, and proud of it! :D