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3 years ago
Hey everyone! I'm back! Probably for a good while too.
First off, I'd like to apologize for the long hiatus.
After getting a job last year, I had like little to no time for anything. Living with my cousin wasn't the best decision I made. I was under a lot of stress and he put me through some bullshit. He ended up leaving me in his apartment around August to move back in with his mom. He screwed me on internet making it harder to work since I worked from home. I ended up leaving and moving in with my older sister with has been the worst mistake I have ever made in my life.
I don't even know where to begin with this. I moved in with her back in September of 2021. She lost her job in October leaving me with all of the bills. Rent, phone bill, storage, internet, etc. Left me to support her, myself, her 4 kids, her dog, and my cat. She had no money so when I have her my card to get money orders or to pick up some stuff for the apartment, she would keep my card and spend my money like it was hers. January rolled around and she talked me in to buying a car as hers was stolen in November. She made her promises to me like she would help me with the car payments once she got a job and give me money when she got her taxes to put towards the payments. I should have known better than to believe her. She didn't give me anything. She blew all of her money on drugs, alcohol, and her boyfriend who was only here for like a month.
Back at the end of March, she got a job and used my car to get to and from work. On March 30th, my car was stolen from her work parking lot. Police reports were filed, LoJack notified and when it came to the insurance claim, I discovered they cancelled my policy without my knowledge almost a month earlier. No calls, emails, texts, not even mail was sent to me to let me know it would be cancelled. It wasn't cancelled due to non-payment, they cancelled it because I didn't fill out some stupid questionnaire I never received so I got screwed on insurance. They refused all help so now I'm stuck paying out of pocket for car repairs, they found the car about a week later. I was able to get some help with some of the costs but still need some more money to finish them so I will be throwing up some adopts if it'll help.
Now the cherry on top of all of this bullshit sunday, I found out today that my sister is being evicted which means I am too. While she was jobless, I paid rent for a couple of months. The last time I paid for a money order for rent, she neglected to take it to the office. She made up all her excuses so I stopped giving her the money. To be honest, I wanted to be evicted then. I wanted out of here. She was using me for my money, she drove my car around like she owned it, racking up miles. So in short, because she's lazy and expects everyone to do things for her, rent hasn't been paid since November. Luckily, I'm not on the lease so legally it doesn't affect me, however, I now have no where to go. I mean, I can go back up to my younger sisters house and sleep on a couch but sadly that means I have to find a home for my cat Ghost. He's very anti-social and has bonded with me to a point I'm afraid he'll be put down if I have to drop him off at a shelter.
I'm getting some help with my car repairs but I'm short a few hundred. I'll be throwing up some adopts over the next few days. I do have a donation open on PayPal if anyone is interested in taking a look at or sharing.
I'm sorry to throw up all of this personal stuff about my sister but I honestly don't care who knows about who she is and what she's done to me and my family. In fact, I plan on getting my car back and leaving her with no notice. She wants me to move into another place with her but I only know it's so she can use my car. That's definitely not happening.
I know all of you have helped me out in the past and I am still very appreciative of it but I honestly didn't know where else to go for help or advice. I've lost almost everything this past year and am at my breaking point. I'm stuck. I'm depressed. I feel like I can't do anything to make it better.
Thanks to all who read this and if you have any questions, please send me a note. <3
First off, I'd like to apologize for the long hiatus.
After getting a job last year, I had like little to no time for anything. Living with my cousin wasn't the best decision I made. I was under a lot of stress and he put me through some bullshit. He ended up leaving me in his apartment around August to move back in with his mom. He screwed me on internet making it harder to work since I worked from home. I ended up leaving and moving in with my older sister with has been the worst mistake I have ever made in my life.
I don't even know where to begin with this. I moved in with her back in September of 2021. She lost her job in October leaving me with all of the bills. Rent, phone bill, storage, internet, etc. Left me to support her, myself, her 4 kids, her dog, and my cat. She had no money so when I have her my card to get money orders or to pick up some stuff for the apartment, she would keep my card and spend my money like it was hers. January rolled around and she talked me in to buying a car as hers was stolen in November. She made her promises to me like she would help me with the car payments once she got a job and give me money when she got her taxes to put towards the payments. I should have known better than to believe her. She didn't give me anything. She blew all of her money on drugs, alcohol, and her boyfriend who was only here for like a month.
Back at the end of March, she got a job and used my car to get to and from work. On March 30th, my car was stolen from her work parking lot. Police reports were filed, LoJack notified and when it came to the insurance claim, I discovered they cancelled my policy without my knowledge almost a month earlier. No calls, emails, texts, not even mail was sent to me to let me know it would be cancelled. It wasn't cancelled due to non-payment, they cancelled it because I didn't fill out some stupid questionnaire I never received so I got screwed on insurance. They refused all help so now I'm stuck paying out of pocket for car repairs, they found the car about a week later. I was able to get some help with some of the costs but still need some more money to finish them so I will be throwing up some adopts if it'll help.
Now the cherry on top of all of this bullshit sunday, I found out today that my sister is being evicted which means I am too. While she was jobless, I paid rent for a couple of months. The last time I paid for a money order for rent, she neglected to take it to the office. She made up all her excuses so I stopped giving her the money. To be honest, I wanted to be evicted then. I wanted out of here. She was using me for my money, she drove my car around like she owned it, racking up miles. So in short, because she's lazy and expects everyone to do things for her, rent hasn't been paid since November. Luckily, I'm not on the lease so legally it doesn't affect me, however, I now have no where to go. I mean, I can go back up to my younger sisters house and sleep on a couch but sadly that means I have to find a home for my cat Ghost. He's very anti-social and has bonded with me to a point I'm afraid he'll be put down if I have to drop him off at a shelter.
I'm getting some help with my car repairs but I'm short a few hundred. I'll be throwing up some adopts over the next few days. I do have a donation open on PayPal if anyone is interested in taking a look at or sharing.
I'm sorry to throw up all of this personal stuff about my sister but I honestly don't care who knows about who she is and what she's done to me and my family. In fact, I plan on getting my car back and leaving her with no notice. She wants me to move into another place with her but I only know it's so she can use my car. That's definitely not happening.
I know all of you have helped me out in the past and I am still very appreciative of it but I honestly didn't know where else to go for help or advice. I've lost almost everything this past year and am at my breaking point. I'm stuck. I'm depressed. I feel like I can't do anything to make it better.
Thanks to all who read this and if you have any questions, please send me a note. <3
No so happy to hear that you've had such a rough year, though. I hope things turn around for you soon.