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3 years ago
Hey guys i really hope you are doing well, i wanted to take my time and write a journal to explain whats going on with the living situation of me and choco. ill try to not ramble too much so bare with me please.
Choco and i have been living with a room mate for more that 10 years, as you can imagine that after all those years you can guess that you develop a different kind of relationship that becomes more like a family than just a casual room mate relationship , of course after all this time there was always ups and downs like in every family but our main issue with him was his ''special'' taste on relationships, going from the complete jerks to the dangerous.
Two years ago when the covid pandemic started he decided to take his boyfriend to live with him in his room and of course with us, this guy was American and barely speak any Spanish which it wasn't an issue for us but he was a really really disgusting person, and we had to live with him for two whole months which was a torture until something happen, one day police came to out door saying they were giving free face masks and antibacterial gel to all the neighbors which they did but with a different intention, I went back to my room and a few minutes later i heard loud noises downstairs and as i open the door to my room i saw a gun pointing at my head, he told me to get my id and to get down while he was pointing his gun, while i was down there he was checking my id and he told me that if i didnt know that the American guy that was living with us was a wanted by the FBI for one of the most horrifying crimes you can imagine, at that point i was more scared that angry because choco was at his room also with a gun on his head and my stupid room mate didnt even open his door while the police took his boyfriend away and leave us in there, he didnt say anything not even sorry to us still believing it was a misunderstanding or that his boyfriend as kidnapped, he went out looking for him and a couple of hours when he came back home we showed him a mug shot of him captured and hes in prison now having a couple of life sentences ahead of him.
We were traumatized at that moment we were more scared than angry and we wanted to go out, take all of our stuff and find a new place, but as stupid as we were at the moment we couldnt ignore his crying which it was understandable as he was dating someone who didnt know, we decided to stay because we were afraid he may do something to harm himself and as we couldnt do anything to fix the situation at least be there for someone whos having a hard time it helps, making sure he gets something to eat or just by keeping him company, but as i said we were stupid then.
After all that we all 3 decided to move to a new place to start fresh, the new home was bigger and better than the last one and specially without the bad memories, but just 3 months ago he decided to bring another '' friend'' to hive here with us and share his room, he said it was temporary but two months ago they both went away, he didnt say anything but we found out that he was staying at his friends place leaving all of his stuff behind here with us, showing himself just now and then to pick up his packages and do his laundry until last week when he decided to finally talk to us.
He told us that it was been 11 years and that we need to move on, that he wanted us out as soon as possible, its heartbreaking to see someone who you thought as a part of your family could change that much all of the sudden, im not surprised but im dissappointed and when i thought he couldnt dissappoint us more.
We dont have much time and we are in a bad situation thats why choco and i decided to open donations to help us in this specially hard situation we are dealing with. this wont affect our usual work, we will keep working on commissions pending works and stuff but also we are working on finding a new place which is a bit hard specially with our limited budget.
if you decide to help us thank you so much, we will be eternally grateful with you , or even if you took your time to read this journal thank you so much for everything.
https://www.paypal.com/donate/?host.....NsJgBkskDez7sY
Choco and i have been living with a room mate for more that 10 years, as you can imagine that after all those years you can guess that you develop a different kind of relationship that becomes more like a family than just a casual room mate relationship , of course after all this time there was always ups and downs like in every family but our main issue with him was his ''special'' taste on relationships, going from the complete jerks to the dangerous.
Two years ago when the covid pandemic started he decided to take his boyfriend to live with him in his room and of course with us, this guy was American and barely speak any Spanish which it wasn't an issue for us but he was a really really disgusting person, and we had to live with him for two whole months which was a torture until something happen, one day police came to out door saying they were giving free face masks and antibacterial gel to all the neighbors which they did but with a different intention, I went back to my room and a few minutes later i heard loud noises downstairs and as i open the door to my room i saw a gun pointing at my head, he told me to get my id and to get down while he was pointing his gun, while i was down there he was checking my id and he told me that if i didnt know that the American guy that was living with us was a wanted by the FBI for one of the most horrifying crimes you can imagine, at that point i was more scared that angry because choco was at his room also with a gun on his head and my stupid room mate didnt even open his door while the police took his boyfriend away and leave us in there, he didnt say anything not even sorry to us still believing it was a misunderstanding or that his boyfriend as kidnapped, he went out looking for him and a couple of hours when he came back home we showed him a mug shot of him captured and hes in prison now having a couple of life sentences ahead of him.
We were traumatized at that moment we were more scared than angry and we wanted to go out, take all of our stuff and find a new place, but as stupid as we were at the moment we couldnt ignore his crying which it was understandable as he was dating someone who didnt know, we decided to stay because we were afraid he may do something to harm himself and as we couldnt do anything to fix the situation at least be there for someone whos having a hard time it helps, making sure he gets something to eat or just by keeping him company, but as i said we were stupid then.
After all that we all 3 decided to move to a new place to start fresh, the new home was bigger and better than the last one and specially without the bad memories, but just 3 months ago he decided to bring another '' friend'' to hive here with us and share his room, he said it was temporary but two months ago they both went away, he didnt say anything but we found out that he was staying at his friends place leaving all of his stuff behind here with us, showing himself just now and then to pick up his packages and do his laundry until last week when he decided to finally talk to us.
He told us that it was been 11 years and that we need to move on, that he wanted us out as soon as possible, its heartbreaking to see someone who you thought as a part of your family could change that much all of the sudden, im not surprised but im dissappointed and when i thought he couldnt dissappoint us more.
We dont have much time and we are in a bad situation thats why choco and i decided to open donations to help us in this specially hard situation we are dealing with. this wont affect our usual work, we will keep working on commissions pending works and stuff but also we are working on finding a new place which is a bit hard specially with our limited budget.
if you decide to help us thank you so much, we will be eternally grateful with you , or even if you took your time to read this journal thank you so much for everything.
https://www.paypal.com/donate/?host.....NsJgBkskDez7sY
Literally... Not a care in the world, being close roommates for how ever long... just nothing. They changed in such a short time, its baffling :\
Also.... Do they own that place you're at? why are THEY asking you and Choco to move out to a new place, when they were literally just at someone elses place for two months, with 0 conversation before that???? like... Really.
I find it more crazy that they put you through all of that stuff, and expect you to move out of a basically new place you all looked for together, to then having just you and Choco immediately look for a new place...
Well either way, I hope the two of you can find a good enough place on such short notice.
Espero que encuentren un lugar mejor lejos de ese tarado.