helloo i’m in a very similar situation ^_^’ i find diaper art comforting in a totally nonsexual way and it’s hard to really find stuff oriented towards that- my opinion is that it is possible to be a nonsexual “adult baby” Or “diaper lover”, however the kink association and origin with those terms will always be there, making it maybe a bad idea to use them if kink interaction is uncomfy. i have heard the term “padded agere” for regressors who use diapers!! not on here but on tumblr n stuffs :3

i’ve also unfortunately seen a lot of people (both abdls and the people who are anti-abdl) insist enjoying diapers can *Never* be nonsexual which is quite frankly. so ableist… there r so many incontinent people and age regressors?
also in general some people can’t grasp having unconventional interests w/out it being kink -__- ..sigh

* shedding tears and sobbing. * THANK YOU FOR YOUR INSIGHT 🥲🥲 FORREAL THANK YOU SM