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Meow
3 years ago
Just wanna say, I may be against certain things etc But I’m not gonna stop being friends with ppl that have been alright with me because they just happen to be into the stuff I’m against, I just choose to not interact with that specific stuff.
Just because I watch a user who may be into something I hate, doesn’t mean I’m also into the same thing. Like I’m not into diapers or ddlg or abdl, in fact I don’t particularly like those fetishes because of trauma.
But am I gonna try and control what my friends are into? No 😂 I just choose to not fave those specific pieces of art etc.
My dni is there as a guideline to my page to help me feel more comfortable, I block whoever I like for any reason.
Just because I watch someone doesn’t mean I’m into the same things. I may watch someone and then turns out I just like one of the pieces of art they’ve done.
The whole reason I am against those things in the first place is literally because I was sexualised from a young age, and then my characters representing my inner child got sexualised and got added to fetish folders on deviantart.
Just because I watch a user who may be into something I hate, doesn’t mean I’m also into the same thing. Like I’m not into diapers or ddlg or abdl, in fact I don’t particularly like those fetishes because of trauma.
But am I gonna try and control what my friends are into? No 😂 I just choose to not fave those specific pieces of art etc.
My dni is there as a guideline to my page to help me feel more comfortable, I block whoever I like for any reason.
Just because I watch someone doesn’t mean I’m into the same things. I may watch someone and then turns out I just like one of the pieces of art they’ve done.
The whole reason I am against those things in the first place is literally because I was sexualised from a young age, and then my characters representing my inner child got sexualised and got added to fetish folders on deviantart.
If it’s not illegal or anything like that, then I can safely ignore it, like I use my dni as a guideline to my page so it can keep creeps away, but if a person is nice and not a shit, then so what if they’re into diapers or feet? I can just ignore their gallery 😂
One of my mutuals is into abdl, but I’m not, I’m not gonna try and police them and they don’t shove it in my face to trigger me. They read the dni, and they kept it private.
I would definitely call out any of my friends if they turned out to have done something actually problematic, and I would refuse to associate with them, but that’s not what this is about. this was originally directed at someone who blocked me because I watch someone who’s into diapers, and assumed I was into them as well, when I’m not.
The only exception to this is stuff like ddlg, they’re blocked on site, but I’m not gonna ask my friends what they’re into as that is inappropriate and not right. I’ve had friends who have on purposely hid that information behind my back and I blocked them as soon as I found out. So yes, I am critical but it isn’t a black and white situation. Because I’ve blocked completely seemingly sfw artists cuz turns out they had a secret nsfw where they draw nsfw of kids.
It’s not the second one as I used to self harm, and seeing FRESH self harm triggers me. It says fresh for a reason.
It’s very triggering as a past self harmer. I never said I have a problem with people who self harm or have self harmed ever. That’s… that’s why it says “fresh”
As long as you’re not sending your self harm to people to manipulate them or posting it public to upset people then you’re fine to interact. But as someone who heavily self harmed in the past, being forced to see FRESH self harm is triggering. I don’t see what’s difficult to understand.