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Update on here-kitty--kitty and Life (PLEASE READ)
2 years ago
Hey all, I know I haven't really been on this site. Life has been... a lot. And being on FA is very hard.
I meant to do an update on Amanda/here-kitty--kitty ages ago, and I failed on that. What happened to her was a lot and I can't tell you how much I miss her. I haven't heard her voice in years and only had one sided conversations with her over the phone. But I at least had that. You all never got the update until now. I'm so sorry.
I recently was able to get back in contact with Amanda's mom, which is a major relief. I had been slacking on contacting due to a lot of loss in my life. I lost my mom to cancer and my grandmother shortly after. That left a huge hole in my family that we're still trying to figure out how to handle. I also know the last few years have been tough for everyone, so I don't think I have to explain how much that didn't help either. Amanda's mom has def been handling a lot on her side as well.
So the big thing was Amanda was able to leave the hospital and return home after a year of being in there. There was a great deal of progress, she got the trach out, was responding to questions by blinking and wiggling her fingers and toes. But it seems she has been unable to avoid the hospital. She has been re-hospitalized a few times, but now she's back in and is currently fighting infections again. Her mom goes to see her almost daily and is constantly fighting and caring for her. I'm just so happy she has such an amazing mother to be there for her. They have gone through so much, and her mom is just constantly so proud of her. Always says how beautiful she is and speaks of her with so much love.
I never really talked to her mom much until this happened... but she really is an amazing person. Amanda has had the support of her family and I know all of you have been thinking about her too. I told her about it during the talks I had with her and I know she felt loved by everyone.
I think I will be able to talk to her on the phone again this week and I can tell her anything ya'll want me to. I think that would be a great help for her recovery.
Also I am unable to sign into her account. The password I had is no longer working so I may have to figure something out. For now I'll post on my account and toss it into shouts. I apologize for that. I may have to ask her mom about email or something so I can get on the account again. Unless ya'll are okay with updates from my account. I don't know if I'll ever use it again outside of doing that. Drawing has been almost impossible for me after what happened to her. I'm more active on my dice business socials, but I gotta be to pay my bills.
But thank you everyone for reading. I'm so sorry again for how long it's been. I hope this update helps everyone feel a little more at ease and I'll try to be back with another update soon. Hopefully posted from her account.
I meant to do an update on Amanda/here-kitty--kitty ages ago, and I failed on that. What happened to her was a lot and I can't tell you how much I miss her. I haven't heard her voice in years and only had one sided conversations with her over the phone. But I at least had that. You all never got the update until now. I'm so sorry.
I recently was able to get back in contact with Amanda's mom, which is a major relief. I had been slacking on contacting due to a lot of loss in my life. I lost my mom to cancer and my grandmother shortly after. That left a huge hole in my family that we're still trying to figure out how to handle. I also know the last few years have been tough for everyone, so I don't think I have to explain how much that didn't help either. Amanda's mom has def been handling a lot on her side as well.
So the big thing was Amanda was able to leave the hospital and return home after a year of being in there. There was a great deal of progress, she got the trach out, was responding to questions by blinking and wiggling her fingers and toes. But it seems she has been unable to avoid the hospital. She has been re-hospitalized a few times, but now she's back in and is currently fighting infections again. Her mom goes to see her almost daily and is constantly fighting and caring for her. I'm just so happy she has such an amazing mother to be there for her. They have gone through so much, and her mom is just constantly so proud of her. Always says how beautiful she is and speaks of her with so much love.
I never really talked to her mom much until this happened... but she really is an amazing person. Amanda has had the support of her family and I know all of you have been thinking about her too. I told her about it during the talks I had with her and I know she felt loved by everyone.
I think I will be able to talk to her on the phone again this week and I can tell her anything ya'll want me to. I think that would be a great help for her recovery.
Also I am unable to sign into her account. The password I had is no longer working so I may have to figure something out. For now I'll post on my account and toss it into shouts. I apologize for that. I may have to ask her mom about email or something so I can get on the account again. Unless ya'll are okay with updates from my account. I don't know if I'll ever use it again outside of doing that. Drawing has been almost impossible for me after what happened to her. I'm more active on my dice business socials, but I gotta be to pay my bills.
But thank you everyone for reading. I'm so sorry again for how long it's been. I hope this update helps everyone feel a little more at ease and I'll try to be back with another update soon. Hopefully posted from her account.
I’m also so sorry for the loss you’ve faced throughout this time
You guys deserve nothing less than the best and I hope for more improvement for Amanda’s health
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I'm so sorry for your loss and the things life has thrown at you. Please take care of yourself and be gentle with yourself. You are in my thoughts as well. <3
I'm so sorry for the losses you've suffered through during all this, I can only imagine how hard everything has been for you :( Please take care of yourself and hang in there <3
Just tell Amanda that we are wishing the best for her and that we all miss her.
Thank you and all the best
Thank you for this update.
Remind her she's loved and appreciated and that the community and her following wishes her the best and a good recovery and that she hasn't been forgotten about. I'll gladly light her some incense with some good health wishes.
Strength to you as well, make sure you look after yourself too in all of this and take some time for yourself now and then. I know the quiet moments can be difficult but I also know how easy it is to forget yourself when someone you care about is struggling/suffering, especially when you're so closely attached.
Sounds like life has been hard for you too; I am so sorry for all the losses you have had to face.❤
Sending aaaall the love and best energy for both of you and Kitty ; _ ; /
Don't apologize for being human. You are volunteering to keep us updated, and have no obligation to do so.
My heart goes out to you and Amanda's family.
I'll be keeping you guys in my thoughts. 💕
If you ever want to talk, please feel free to message me :3
As for Amanda, i hope she keeps pulling through! Im sure i can say this on behalf of a lot of people on here, we miss her and love her a lot!
A short while after you posted this journal, I commissioned this art piece: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/51947874/
There was a slight delay due to a miscommunication with the artist I'm afraid. Darn language barrier.
Amanda was the original creator of the character for an adopt about 9-10 years ago. I know it may not help her actual recovery, but it's about the most I can do.
I haven't been able to reach out to her ever since I no longer am on most social apps to this day. It still leaves me a wonder on her overall well-being. Time from time.
I hope she does and will recover from the accident.
Passing the positivity from Eastern Canada 👏❤️