Celebrating age and pride
2 years ago
Yesterday was my birthday, and I had an absolute blast. Spent half the day with family in person, the rest online with friends - and all throughout got to eat so much good food, including more snacks and desserts than usual.
I used that day to share that I now identify as grey-ace, with an upload of a simply perfect commission drawn by
ArtieNuki: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/51966161/ To quickly summarize what that sexuality means, I think of a scale of measurement between asexuality (complete or near-total lack of sexual drive/desire) and a 'typical' sexual drive, or libido. Grey-ace falls somewhere in the middle of the two scale ends. While I do dream of one day having a serious, intimate romantic partner, I am not driven on a daily basis to find that for myself, plus I find that I'm uncomfortable viewing most explicit sexual artworks. My orientation may change one day (which somewhat scares me; I prefer having a solid foundation in identity and knowing who I am), but grey-ace feels just right for me today. And I couldn't be happier. (I recommend reading https://asexuality.org/?q=grayarea for more info about the term!)
As a bonus, if you like short fictional stories about fat horses, please check out this lovely upload that
Qu the shark wrote for me as a birthday gift. I love it! And it'd mean the world to me if you gave it a read, too: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/51966246/
Up next, Furry Weekend Atlanta in just under two weeks!! Hope to see some of y'all there, don't be shy to say hello and ask for hugs!
I used that day to share that I now identify as grey-ace, with an upload of a simply perfect commission drawn by
ArtieNuki: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/51966161/ To quickly summarize what that sexuality means, I think of a scale of measurement between asexuality (complete or near-total lack of sexual drive/desire) and a 'typical' sexual drive, or libido. Grey-ace falls somewhere in the middle of the two scale ends. While I do dream of one day having a serious, intimate romantic partner, I am not driven on a daily basis to find that for myself, plus I find that I'm uncomfortable viewing most explicit sexual artworks. My orientation may change one day (which somewhat scares me; I prefer having a solid foundation in identity and knowing who I am), but grey-ace feels just right for me today. And I couldn't be happier. (I recommend reading https://asexuality.org/?q=grayarea for more info about the term!)As a bonus, if you like short fictional stories about fat horses, please check out this lovely upload that
Qu the shark wrote for me as a birthday gift. I love it! And it'd mean the world to me if you gave it a read, too: https://www.furaffinity.net/view/51966246/Up next, Furry Weekend Atlanta in just under two weeks!! Hope to see some of y'all there, don't be shy to say hello and ask for hugs!
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Congratulations making it one more year and having so much self-discovery. Best wishes! ^^