If the pregnancy is due in a few weeks, a few weeks early is not bad for the baby hon, it's only bad when it's a few months early. Get to a doctor to quell your fears Hope everything goes well!

o.o....i dun wanna be preggers.
*pouts* i'm only 20....I'm too young.
i just started to feel sick at like the beginning of this month.
My mate wants to go get a test but i told him to wait till after the end of this month to see if i start my ToM.
i just wish i didnt feel like shit 24/7, nothing i do makes all of these symptoms go away to give me a break.

Oh sorry! I thought "Due" was due to give birth >.< *smooches* Well talk it over with your mate, talk it over with your doctor. If you decide you can't handle the responsibility of a child, you can use adoption agencies and things will work out ^.^, my roommate did that with his child, and it's a very open adoption, him and his old (Or current... I have no fucking clue anymore) girlfriend still go out to see their child at least once a month. There was no way they could have afforded a child, and they were about 20-21 at the time. Don't keep it in, just keep talking about what you and your mate should do, it's your decision and no one elses.

Well the sad thing is...my mate is going through a divorce and he still loves her with all his heart. its all he ever talks about. She already has his kid and he's trying everything in his power to get back with her. So now we are just friends instead of fully mates. I've had a miscarriage before and i didnt even know i was preggers. It killed me, so if i am, i want it no matter what. I know my mother and her friend stacie (whos like a mom to me) will help me. if he gets back with his ex (current wife) then he will stop talking to me. if he does and i have a kid i dont want to be selfish and keep it from him, but i also dont want to hurt by the memories everytime i see him. A child is not what i'm expecting nor needing right now, but i know that if i am, i couldnt give it away. My life is crazy so idk what to do

*squeezes* First step hon, don't keep thinking about it until it's confirmed. Go through this one step at a time, you have friends and family who will support you from the sounds of it even if your (usedtobe) mate leaves you completely. That's good! A good amount of unexpected mothers rarely have that, so consider yourself lucky.

*purrs and huggles tight* I think about it when i get quezy alot and cramp. I'm trying to be optimistic and tell him my period will come in a week and he thinks otherwise. If his wife found out she'd never take him back. i'm not that revengeful lol. Yea my family will be supportive... after i tell them its not going anywhere lol. Thanks for talking to me. He wont talk to me cuz he's so torn right now and i wont talk to him for hurting me like he is. *nuzzles*

*squeezes* You're welcome hon, and feel free to send me notes if you ever wanna talk or just vent to someone ^.^, I always listen to people! Try to get one of those at home pregnancy tests if you can at least, don't wait. And if this has been going on for awhile, and it isn't a pregnancy, then you should get to a doctor to find out what is going on with your body.

*smiles* yea i'll get one soon. i'm not trying to put my mom in the hospital for a heart attack just yet lol. and if i'm not prego, there is seriously something wrong so of course i'd go to the doctors. thank you so much again *hugs*

Anytime sweetie! Everything will work out ^.^ *hugs and such more*