general update
2 years ago
wow, its been a while since i did any form of posting here, but alot has happened in the time since the last post.
Still in Maine, but no longer living with my parents, which is a good thing on many levels. Had a few bombshells drop this year from my parents that have strained that relationship considerably, which makes me sad. Forgiving and moving on from those bombs will take some time, especially since they feel nothing wrong occurred.
Coming up on my 16 year wedding anniversary with my mate this October, and we will be able to celebrate it in Reno at BLFC this year. Even though we are both staff, it will still be a good vacation for us and we will get to see some good friends we don't get to see that often. I am very much looking forward to that trip and if we happen to find a mutual interest to share in the fun, even better ;)
Currently have 2 cats that are the most amazing furbabies ever. We may have more again someday, but for now, 2 is a good number, and Smoreo favors "daddy" while Io is my mamma's boy, always cuddling and wanting uppies. Is it wrong that I would be more devastated if something happened to one of them over my parents?
All in all, it took a couple years, but things are finally starting to settle in for me, feeling more like I am in the right place. This is in part thanks to being able to meet with some of the local furs and go to a couple meets, it really helped nullify that all alone feeling out here. Might opt to host a meetup one of these days, but want some other things to settle into place first.
Might write more in the future, but for now, short, semi sweet will need to do :P
Still in Maine, but no longer living with my parents, which is a good thing on many levels. Had a few bombshells drop this year from my parents that have strained that relationship considerably, which makes me sad. Forgiving and moving on from those bombs will take some time, especially since they feel nothing wrong occurred.
Coming up on my 16 year wedding anniversary with my mate this October, and we will be able to celebrate it in Reno at BLFC this year. Even though we are both staff, it will still be a good vacation for us and we will get to see some good friends we don't get to see that often. I am very much looking forward to that trip and if we happen to find a mutual interest to share in the fun, even better ;)
Currently have 2 cats that are the most amazing furbabies ever. We may have more again someday, but for now, 2 is a good number, and Smoreo favors "daddy" while Io is my mamma's boy, always cuddling and wanting uppies. Is it wrong that I would be more devastated if something happened to one of them over my parents?
All in all, it took a couple years, but things are finally starting to settle in for me, feeling more like I am in the right place. This is in part thanks to being able to meet with some of the local furs and go to a couple meets, it really helped nullify that all alone feeling out here. Might opt to host a meetup one of these days, but want some other things to settle into place first.
Might write more in the future, but for now, short, semi sweet will need to do :P