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a year ago
Awrite babies I'm scooted over lol. Thank you for sticking with me.
I said I was going to do my best to life update you and since I"m settled in my new acct I might as well do both a welcome post, a life update, and an 'about me' post at the same time <3
So for those of you new, my name is Lola, I'm a 41y old cis femme from Arkansas with 1 kid, a husband, and a lot of very sassy dogs. I'm an amateur self-taught artist who tends to do her own thing, obsessed with OC collecting, and a role player and a writer. I'm currently also working on the light side of sex work (I talk dirty to old British men basically) and I've been doing that job for about ten years.
I'm a heavy woman, though I've been losing weight (56 pounds so far) and I'm taking care of myself more. I was recently diagnosed with ADHD and possibly Autism (still working on that diagnosis) and I'm medicated for the former, but that's brand new and will take some time to actually help out the whole flighty ass thing my brain does.
I'm also medicated for my ptsd, anxiety and depression and for the first time in AGES I've started to feel like myself again.
I"m a bit shy, but I do like chatting. I prefer to not talk in Dm's though, I'd rather be spoken to in comments or in otherwise public settings at least while I get to know someone.
My personal philosophies run very left, I'm a dirty commie hippy more or less who believes in healthcare for all and rights for LGBTQIA+, and all people.
I'm Queer myself, Aegosexual-panromantic, Polyamorous but not looking for any new partners right now, and a bit of a hopeless romantic with a praise kink. My ideal situation would be to just be a pet in a house full of people I love and who love me, lol.
I love huge earrings, press on nails that render me helpless but fabulous, and red lipstick, chunky jewellery and floral patterns. I am unapologetically fabulous. ;)
Anyhow it's nice to meet you newbies, Thank you for sticking around those who have, and a reminder that I love you and you can't do anything about it.
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heyyyyyy boo
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also coolass name
MadamArchon
~madamarchon
OP
THANK you. i wanted something more dignified and like. Adult >.> ish.
Coracleboat
~coracleboat
i think this is the ttttthhird account i've followed you over to now? happy moving day
MadamArchon
~madamarchon
OP
It more than likely is. I'm an indecisive git with personality issues and a strong need to follow linguistic aesthetic in my names more often than not. And it itches when I can't have all my accounts the same. And FA continues to be the thorn in my constantly name-shifting side. -_- I'm glad you followed though! Thank you for indulging me <3
Coracleboat
~coracleboat
i'd marvel at how outdated FA is for not letting you just change your name, but let's be fair in a lot of ways that's a modern contrivance on a relative scale
MadamArchon
~madamarchon
OP
Oh absolutely. Feels trite to grump about given the state of things. And yet grump I shall >.>
Coracleboat
~coracleboat
if we don't take pleasure in complaining how can we have our druthers? if we can't have our druthers we are less than beasts unable to tell stale gas station burgs from. fukken. i don't know imagine a food. they want to take that away from you. they want to take it all away and replace it with a plastic model that sends you ads. if we don't complain, they win! and the score isn't even very good so we really gotta start racking up points we gotta get real bitchy real fast forever
MadamArchon
~madamarchon
OP
Good lord you really aren't wrong. I mean we DO have to have standards. And I'll bite anyone who tries to take food away from me. Unless it was poisoned. But even then I mean...the principle. I probably still need to at least bite ONCE.
Coracleboat
~coracleboat
if you bite the hand that feeds you poisoned food you can get so full up on hand you won't even need the poisoned food anymore
MadamArchon
~madamarchon
OP
i hope you write these wise bits down. Because they are bits that should be written down.
