What is Findom exactly?🤔( the hidden comment is me I accidentally wrote Fandom instead of findom)

Financial domination is a fetish lifestyle activity in which a submissive is required to give gifts or money to a dominant.

Imagine a Master/Pet play situation, where the Master is basically demanding the pet money or material purchases in exchange for sexual gratification (this is the most to the point explanation i can give, i'm not too versed in this subcommunity myself, so apologies if it's too vague or skewed towards evil intent)

The trick is, that even people not in financially stable situations are prone to thinking with their genitals. Just seems risky when it’s something that could 100% be done in character with no real world transactions.

That aside; there’s a line being blurred here when it comes to financial transactions in exchange for sexual acts, which are illegal in many places. That’s exactly why websites that enable this specifically word any payments as “donations”.

I’m not saying it’s not hot; I’m saying it’s dangerous and regardless of whether you disclaim or not, people are potentially going to compromise themselves for some good dom action.

I understand what you mean. I know what entails and I'm ready and careful on what I do. I even talk with my clients before initiating unless they are experienced in it already. It's why I have people ask questions first before they know what they are doing. I even ask them if they are able to even do it. I will NOT do any findom with someone if they can't afford to at all.

As long as you keep it like this, I got full respect for you. Wish you the best with it all!

I don't get why people are saying Findom is "financial transactions in exchange for sexual acts". This is not Findom for me. This is being a Ho.

For me Findom means for example someone gets his kicks by giving away his money to a superior Alpha. If the Alpha wants sneakers, that person pays for it and the reward is that the Alpha is willing to use its money. It doesn't even matter if the Alpha wears the shoes or throws them away because they are too cheap.

“Getting your kicks” infers getting off or receiving a sexual thrill from it.

You’re paying someone, to feel a sexual thrill.

Hope that helps.

I was definitely pretty skeptical at first, but after someone offered to show me the ropes, I'm all in. :D

There's really nothing else like it, the thrill and excitement is incredible, addictive even. But yes, it's always important to keep things safe and consensual, no matter the kink, obviously. :P