Thank you all for supporting me and understanding the stuff with my mom, she's for the most part okay now it turned out she had a retinal detachment in one of her eyes (it has similar symptoms as a stroke with 1 side starting to get paralysed which was why the doctors thought it was a stroke until they examined it futher ) and she's been operated on and things are for the most part now better etc. though its been really stressful for me so thank you all for being patient with me with all of this stuff happening.