Work and live and maybe balance
a year ago
Yeah ,
i know I am not really in a very bad work situation and I have money and yeah I have free time but still , it does not feel right .
AT moment I am debating with my self how and if I should change everything up .
‘I have the chase to at lease try to get into a complete new company but I would still stay sort of at the same location I am working at the moment just the field I am working in would change slightly .
‘I am really not happy with my work at the moment …
why telling you this ? I don’t know I just wanted to tell someone
i know I am not really in a very bad work situation and I have money and yeah I have free time but still , it does not feel right .
AT moment I am debating with my self how and if I should change everything up .
‘I have the chase to at lease try to get into a complete new company but I would still stay sort of at the same location I am working at the moment just the field I am working in would change slightly .
‘I am really not happy with my work at the moment …
why telling you this ? I don’t know I just wanted to tell someone
FA+

I had fun working in my first 5 years, then it went stale and the 'slightly ugly parts' became more obvious. My drive was gone and when I did extra good work to move ahead, I was pushed aside for being overtaken by a true boss candidate: A 1 year-young employee who was brainless, spineless, so ideal to be my boss's pushover clone. She was trained and got paid less then I was from my first day onward. She worked 2 years as a mini-boss clone, and then her wage was raised up...to match mine. It was a joke and a scam. She left the firm, and who does the work for the bosses again? Me. And since I am a strong person, with a very tough spine, I have zero chance to be promoted anywhere forward. My sin is, that I am not a pushover, and has ideals, that doesn't make me a mindless slave.
For a person to be okay with work and see growth, a workplace should be changed 5 year-ish, I think. I did so 3 times in this firm I am working, and each location change came with bigger salary and more authority. Sadly, my last 10 years are in the same place, and I am looking still for my next jump, where my wage will skyrocket and I can really call myself also a boss with persons under my own control...In a firm where women bosses to men are 1:75 ratio. I have it tough too.
My only advice is, to work and collect funds, and plan your change when you aren't comfortable with your current situation. I wish you much luck, when you decide to do it and make sure that you win big while doing it!