If we are to be confident about ourselves it's not about some sort of Wolfram-Alpha style algorithm to tolerate something or not but how we perceive ourselves in the most dark and surreal times.

We must see ourselves as strong. And that is why I chose to be Skylar the Lion. No one wants to be some bitch ass wimp animal unless they are submissive.

With Furaffinity's cult like disonance. I couldn't choose a proper username. So I chose the balanced choice for a name. I became Skylar the Lion or MrSkylar-1995 to avoid cliche but also to avoid. Ofcourse, before hand I was able to be a (childlike unlike the tough guy I pretend to be). I viewed myself as a playful intelligent powerful creature. I could consume almost all art within my limitation without it conflicting with my self image. I was able to enjoy all things.

Then one day I decided to be pretend to be a far more vulnerable animal. I became weak and fell for everything. I had to keep it safe and it was bland.

Do not do this. Believe in yourself.