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Death in the family.
a year ago
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Well you may notice that i recently havent uploaded many chapters of my Alien story and only a few pictures. Its not because i have troble writing or anything. No the reason is because we recently have had a death in our family. A family member has died but lets start from the beginning.
My older brother Hans, turned 62 year this year and lived hisl ife as usual. He´s older than me and has always had a special place in my heart. During summer his tomach started to hurt and sometimes there were blood in the toilet after he pooped and he called a doctor. The doctor checked him and said it was just hemmoroids and he got a salve for that. He visited another doctor who x-rayed his stomash and such but everything looked good or atleast thats what the doctor said.
Hans got worse pain in his stomach during september but there were no blood in the toilet after he pooped and we didnt know if he should visit a doctor again or not. Hans decided to see if it got better and from early october it seemed pretty fine.
In the middle of october his poop changed alot but no blood. Some days he had bad diarrhea and other day could almost not force out the poo. Then the pain in his stomach came back and i visited him one of these days and he become really pale and hugged his stomach. I said he really should see a doctor and he promised to do so.
In early November me and my family had a get together with Halloween and Hans was there as well. He seemed fine and he and me talked about when we visited Mexico in 2012 and saw many Alebrijes in a street show. I had almost fogotten about that because 2012 was a bad year for me. My girlfriend that i had at the time broke up with me and i went depressed. During the summer, Hans came to me and said that i needed to come away far away from home after the bad breakup and he had a plan.
Hans showed me a folder about Mexico and said that we two should travel there. I was hesitant at first but was persuaded by Hans and the rest is history. The two of us spent two weeks in Mexico and it was a fantastic trip. When I came back to Sweden again, I had mostly forgotten about of the boring things that had happened before the trip. Hans and i ate nice food when we met with the rest of the family and it seemed that Hans no longer had much pain in his stomach.
Hans called me on 12 november and urged me to come to his home quickly and i went there. Hans looked very pale in his face when he opened the door to his apartment and i saw directly that something wasn´t rignt. Hans showed me his toilet and there were lots of blood in there but this blood was rather dark and also the poop seemed to be black. That is a warning sign that something is not good. He said that he didnt have pain in the stomach but had a very strange numb feeling there and i gently feel his stomach and it didnt felt is it should. There were strange bumbs at a place and when i asked about it Hans said he felt the bumps for a while but thought it wasnt a problem.
I told Hans that he should visit the hospital right away and he agreed so i called the emergenzy center and told them about the dark red blood in the toilet and Hans earlier pain in the stomach and they said he should come right away. They wanted to send an ambulance to Hans home and i agree it was the best thing to do. So the ambulance gathered me and Hans and drove to the hospital. Hans was given extra blood in the ambulance and he said it maybe wasnt anything to worry about. I hoped he was right.
When arriving at the hospital Hans was wheeled inside quite fast and they sent him to X-Ray while i waited in the waiting room. There not much to do there but watch TV and drink some coffeé. After some hour a doctor came out in the waiting room and he wanted to talk to me. It turned out that Hans had a cancer tumor in his stomach but it wasnt big and could be removed. Hans wanted them to remove it and i agreed. He would stay in the hospital for a while but would get better. The date for the operation would be on 17 november and that was fine.
Hans was now in a sick room and i visted him for a while before i took the bus home to Hans apartment to gather some things he wanted and also collect my car. I visited him the next day and bringed the stuff he wanted and it was some magazines and stuff and i also let him read the latest chapter of my Alien story on my laptop and he enjoyed it. Hans often read my story on DevianArt and he enjoyed what i wrote. I visited Hans the next days but i couldnt visit him the day he was operated because it would take some time so the next day i visited him was on 18 november and he seemed tired but fine.
Hans joked about that hopefully would be home for christmas and i hoped so to. On 19th november when i visited Hans he seemed to be confused and strange and he was freezing even though the heavy duvet cover was all over his body and I started talking to the doctors but they said it was completely normal. In a couple of days he would be fine again so i drived home when the the hour for visiting the sick was over. The next day i uploaded the newest chapter of the Alien story before i drove to he hospital to meet Hans. I noticed right away that something was wrong. Hans was very absent and had a very high fever. I alarmed the doctors and they checked on him. Turns out that he had got Sepsis from the operation and the doctors qickly gathered things to stabilaze him and i was asked to stay in the guest room.
Some hour later a doctor wanted to talk to me and i saw right away that it wasnt good news he had to say. They had tried to fix the sepsis but it had gone too far and wasnt fixable. I get relly mad towards the doctors because they hadnt seen the warning signs the previous day. The doctor that gathered me said he was sorry. It want his fault but some new doctors. The doctor offered me time to sit beside Hans bed and i gently talked to him after the doctors left the room. I dont know if he heard me because he didnt seemed to be conscious of me but i hope he heard what i said to him.
The doctors said that Hans struggled for life and i belived them. But it wasnt a struggle he would win and late at the evening on november 20 he took the last breath and died. I called my parents and told them that Hans was dead. They knew he was at the hospital but they didnt thought it was this bad. My family came to the hospital and said their goodbyes to Hans and we traveled home to our homes.
A few days later the doctor said that they had seen the tumor in the stomach already when he took the first X-Ray but they didnt belive it would grow so quickly. I become really mad because they never told either Hans or us about it.
I decided to upload the photos that Hans and i took in Mexico to honour him and some other stuff he also was at.
We have begin to empty Hans apartment and its really hard for me and my family to do this. We have so many memories of him and we need the time to sorrow Hans. Hans will be buried on monday next week.
Therefore i will not write as much as before so it might take some time before new chapters of my stories come up. I hope everyone will understand and respect this.
My older brother Hans, turned 62 year this year and lived hisl ife as usual. He´s older than me and has always had a special place in my heart. During summer his tomach started to hurt and sometimes there were blood in the toilet after he pooped and he called a doctor. The doctor checked him and said it was just hemmoroids and he got a salve for that. He visited another doctor who x-rayed his stomash and such but everything looked good or atleast thats what the doctor said.
Hans got worse pain in his stomach during september but there were no blood in the toilet after he pooped and we didnt know if he should visit a doctor again or not. Hans decided to see if it got better and from early october it seemed pretty fine.
In the middle of october his poop changed alot but no blood. Some days he had bad diarrhea and other day could almost not force out the poo. Then the pain in his stomach came back and i visited him one of these days and he become really pale and hugged his stomach. I said he really should see a doctor and he promised to do so.
In early November me and my family had a get together with Halloween and Hans was there as well. He seemed fine and he and me talked about when we visited Mexico in 2012 and saw many Alebrijes in a street show. I had almost fogotten about that because 2012 was a bad year for me. My girlfriend that i had at the time broke up with me and i went depressed. During the summer, Hans came to me and said that i needed to come away far away from home after the bad breakup and he had a plan.
Hans showed me a folder about Mexico and said that we two should travel there. I was hesitant at first but was persuaded by Hans and the rest is history. The two of us spent two weeks in Mexico and it was a fantastic trip. When I came back to Sweden again, I had mostly forgotten about of the boring things that had happened before the trip. Hans and i ate nice food when we met with the rest of the family and it seemed that Hans no longer had much pain in his stomach.
Hans called me on 12 november and urged me to come to his home quickly and i went there. Hans looked very pale in his face when he opened the door to his apartment and i saw directly that something wasn´t rignt. Hans showed me his toilet and there were lots of blood in there but this blood was rather dark and also the poop seemed to be black. That is a warning sign that something is not good. He said that he didnt have pain in the stomach but had a very strange numb feeling there and i gently feel his stomach and it didnt felt is it should. There were strange bumbs at a place and when i asked about it Hans said he felt the bumps for a while but thought it wasnt a problem.
I told Hans that he should visit the hospital right away and he agreed so i called the emergenzy center and told them about the dark red blood in the toilet and Hans earlier pain in the stomach and they said he should come right away. They wanted to send an ambulance to Hans home and i agree it was the best thing to do. So the ambulance gathered me and Hans and drove to the hospital. Hans was given extra blood in the ambulance and he said it maybe wasnt anything to worry about. I hoped he was right.
When arriving at the hospital Hans was wheeled inside quite fast and they sent him to X-Ray while i waited in the waiting room. There not much to do there but watch TV and drink some coffeé. After some hour a doctor came out in the waiting room and he wanted to talk to me. It turned out that Hans had a cancer tumor in his stomach but it wasnt big and could be removed. Hans wanted them to remove it and i agreed. He would stay in the hospital for a while but would get better. The date for the operation would be on 17 november and that was fine.
Hans was now in a sick room and i visted him for a while before i took the bus home to Hans apartment to gather some things he wanted and also collect my car. I visited him the next day and bringed the stuff he wanted and it was some magazines and stuff and i also let him read the latest chapter of my Alien story on my laptop and he enjoyed it. Hans often read my story on DevianArt and he enjoyed what i wrote. I visited Hans the next days but i couldnt visit him the day he was operated because it would take some time so the next day i visited him was on 18 november and he seemed tired but fine.
Hans joked about that hopefully would be home for christmas and i hoped so to. On 19th november when i visited Hans he seemed to be confused and strange and he was freezing even though the heavy duvet cover was all over his body and I started talking to the doctors but they said it was completely normal. In a couple of days he would be fine again so i drived home when the the hour for visiting the sick was over. The next day i uploaded the newest chapter of the Alien story before i drove to he hospital to meet Hans. I noticed right away that something was wrong. Hans was very absent and had a very high fever. I alarmed the doctors and they checked on him. Turns out that he had got Sepsis from the operation and the doctors qickly gathered things to stabilaze him and i was asked to stay in the guest room.
Some hour later a doctor wanted to talk to me and i saw right away that it wasnt good news he had to say. They had tried to fix the sepsis but it had gone too far and wasnt fixable. I get relly mad towards the doctors because they hadnt seen the warning signs the previous day. The doctor that gathered me said he was sorry. It want his fault but some new doctors. The doctor offered me time to sit beside Hans bed and i gently talked to him after the doctors left the room. I dont know if he heard me because he didnt seemed to be conscious of me but i hope he heard what i said to him.
The doctors said that Hans struggled for life and i belived them. But it wasnt a struggle he would win and late at the evening on november 20 he took the last breath and died. I called my parents and told them that Hans was dead. They knew he was at the hospital but they didnt thought it was this bad. My family came to the hospital and said their goodbyes to Hans and we traveled home to our homes.
A few days later the doctor said that they had seen the tumor in the stomach already when he took the first X-Ray but they didnt belive it would grow so quickly. I become really mad because they never told either Hans or us about it.
I decided to upload the photos that Hans and i took in Mexico to honour him and some other stuff he also was at.
We have begin to empty Hans apartment and its really hard for me and my family to do this. We have so many memories of him and we need the time to sorrow Hans. Hans will be buried on monday next week.
Therefore i will not write as much as before so it might take some time before new chapters of my stories come up. I hope everyone will understand and respect this.
