I like to ask, how do you feel when you live with an annoying, gloomy, rage inducing person who constantly makes a living hell out of you and others out of everything you are doing, even though you lived there for a couple of months for a reason but got dragged out for almost a year?… well that was me and my grandma right now.

Originally, me, my brother and my father had to move from our house for a couple of months because our home was about to get renovated. For the first few months it was all okay and I thought...

I had to live with her, since grandma only has my teen cousin who lived there. And my grandma almost gave all the chores to her and since i was not having a job at the moment (even though i was still looking for a job) so i did all the chores for her.

I did continue to live with her to accompany her and my cousin, but for months my patience wore thin and I had enough. My uncle had enough, my father had enough, and even my teen cousin had enough and most of the time never went back home and spent her time with her friends.

My grandma home only have 1 bedroom and must shared with 3 or 4 of us, previously my family had to sleep outside the bedroom since there’s no room, and my teen cousin had to sleep with her to help her like getting a massage on her foot, but sometimes even though she asleep at 1 am and also have to go to school, grandma woke up and berate her for pretending to sleep.

My father hated her after get involved in his work, while my uncle who lived with her for a long time also had enough and instead rented a room near grandma's house. And now I'm going to get back home since the home has already been renovated.

And now she is begging me to stay with her and told her that she forgives me after everything she has done and told me to forgive her as well, but the thing is I can't. Even if I do forgive her, she will be her usual annoying person again and I know she is a manipulative person.

But i know she is scared of being alone, she is old after all already in her late 70s, but everything she did toward everyone just make stay away from her. She needs to learn to respect calm and let people do their job without constantly nagging everyone.

She is a constant drama queen, and always does everything to make someone pay attention to her. Her mood could change suddenly from getting angry to becoming a jokey, even though she already made me and others already angry to begin with. She never allowed someone to give their opinion and always thought that her word is the true one and final.

And when we do make mistakes, instead of just calmly correcting us, she instead just yell and berates everything we did wrong, but when we do tell her when she does the same thing, she just yells and scoffs.

So I keep firm, I get back home, I’m done. If she wants help she can call me. I just don't want to constantly live with her 24/7. My brother still lives in grandma’s home but he will eventually get back home or go to his girlfriend's home.

This is something I had to come out from my chest, I buried this for far too long and had become too hurtful to me. So I'm just telling this to all of you to let out all my frustration.