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9 months ago
As i put together my many projects and deal with medical issues, i have to come out to leave a serious statement to all fans and visitors that you all must know.
Watch how you talk to other people.
Today i had to block someone. Im not going to name them ATM unless they try and circumvent my block. To everyone here, i know some of you really love my art. But that has to be a love for my ART, not me as a person.
I want to be generous to people but i think most will agree with me that receiving sudden messages from people you dont know professing love is unsettling. Even if any of you feel that my interests sync up perfectly with each other, that does not mean our personalities will.
Ive lived through abusers before. I know a few signs of how they operate. One is they dont take NO for an answer. I said im not interested before, but later on they persist in pursuing that direct relationship, a profound need to get to know me
Also there are other details, such as saying this need for frienship/ deep love for me, while also at the same time questioning my honesty, values etc. Or as i recall from past experiences, making vague threats while saying you adore them.
My best friends dont insist they must get close with me. Our friendships grew organically. Thats the way it should be for everyone..
If your a person that finds they cant stop craving or needing anothers affection, thats not some great parable of unrequited love anymore, thats a dagerous behavioral issue, and it can do harm to others and yourself. And you must see a therapist about it. I dont hate you but i dont trust you. You need help, and having me wont fix it. Getting what you want wont stop it.
Even if you feel it with all your heart, its not truth. Ive met a person once who absolutely knew right from wrong, loathed abusers, hated themselves when they did bad things, and knowing all that, would just flip a switch and be fully cruel and deceptive and do it anyways. Even i had to learn something once too ... I cannot will a person to fit my dream idea. They are their own person in the end and i have no control over who they are.
Maybe its a history of abuse, i do believe suffering can create more evil. I am really sorry and pained this happens. But that passing down of abuse from one to the next must be cut off at some point.
No always means no.
If i get more people who try and do this and insist they love me and must know me, snd who wont take a lite no for sn answer, ill reply in the open for others to see.
Thank you to all the few people here who have decided to be such sweet fans of mine. Youguys can always chat with me. I love it. But always be considerate. If im not looking or say im not interested please respect that.
Watch how you talk to other people.
Today i had to block someone. Im not going to name them ATM unless they try and circumvent my block. To everyone here, i know some of you really love my art. But that has to be a love for my ART, not me as a person.
I want to be generous to people but i think most will agree with me that receiving sudden messages from people you dont know professing love is unsettling. Even if any of you feel that my interests sync up perfectly with each other, that does not mean our personalities will.
Ive lived through abusers before. I know a few signs of how they operate. One is they dont take NO for an answer. I said im not interested before, but later on they persist in pursuing that direct relationship, a profound need to get to know me
Also there are other details, such as saying this need for frienship/ deep love for me, while also at the same time questioning my honesty, values etc. Or as i recall from past experiences, making vague threats while saying you adore them.
My best friends dont insist they must get close with me. Our friendships grew organically. Thats the way it should be for everyone..
If your a person that finds they cant stop craving or needing anothers affection, thats not some great parable of unrequited love anymore, thats a dagerous behavioral issue, and it can do harm to others and yourself. And you must see a therapist about it. I dont hate you but i dont trust you. You need help, and having me wont fix it. Getting what you want wont stop it.
Even if you feel it with all your heart, its not truth. Ive met a person once who absolutely knew right from wrong, loathed abusers, hated themselves when they did bad things, and knowing all that, would just flip a switch and be fully cruel and deceptive and do it anyways. Even i had to learn something once too ... I cannot will a person to fit my dream idea. They are their own person in the end and i have no control over who they are.
Maybe its a history of abuse, i do believe suffering can create more evil. I am really sorry and pained this happens. But that passing down of abuse from one to the next must be cut off at some point.
No always means no.
If i get more people who try and do this and insist they love me and must know me, snd who wont take a lite no for sn answer, ill reply in the open for others to see.
Thank you to all the few people here who have decided to be such sweet fans of mine. Youguys can always chat with me. I love it. But always be considerate. If im not looking or say im not interested please respect that.
I wish you the best and to stay safe!