Clarification
10 months ago
Not sure if anyone has actually noticed or really cares I've been referring to both my male sergal Kythus and my female Nevrean as myself. Well this is because I've kind of come to the self discovery that I'm non-binary. Still not sure what the right term for it is... Bi-gendered? Two Spirited? Basically I feel I am both male and female at the same time. Able to live day to day as my male self so I've had Fiona my female self become more dominant online. Ideally I would just wake up each day as one or the other, who ever is more me at that time or just split myself into to people one male one female. Again not sure of the proper term for it but would welcome any input on it. This is the first time I've been going out publicly like this. Even did a study abroad trip to Japan for school and my professor and most of the class was super supportive and I felt so accepted and loved. Luckily met I wasn't the only newly out non-binary person on the trip and we both became good friends! And if anyone ask this any pronoun is fine with me~ Seriously I do not mind what pronouns you use ^^. Truly do wish others can have a similar coming out experience but I know it's sadly far to rare. Ok enough about myself. I hope you all are doing well out there!

I just figure we are all human and dont pay much attention to pronouns. If you are a decent person, you are a decent person. I hope the internal debate over what to call yourself doesnt mess you up. Just be... nice!
InsaneSergal
~insanesergal
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Honestly that's kind of my feeling on it as well. I think we do get too hung up on labels as well. Guess it's more just not waiting to anger anyone for calling myself 'the wrong thing.' Had plenty of people blow up on me for that.

I think that is a great pity, that people blow up on your for pronouns. I have felt bad for 'saying the wrong thing', now and then, but in the end, eff them
Nine-Eyes
~nine-eyes
genderfluid maybe?
InsaneSergal
~insanesergal
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That tends to be one of my default labels but again one that I've gotten yelled at for being "The wrong thing" before
Nine-Eyes
~nine-eyes
nobody can tell you how you self identify
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