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I've seen on some peoples profiles saying about the ABDL & I have been wanting to express & explain about it. the ABDL isn't strictly fetish nor is it strictly sexual with my experience with it it reduces anxiety give a sense of security & escape from life Stresses & i feel more relaxed I've gone out with one on i have never felt so calm & with all the different sensory information i have to Process it is alot for a autistic person. It has nothing to do with people who are under 18 the ABDL community is strictly 18 or older because it can evolve into sexual activity. but that doesn't mean the art has to be because Anyone can wear Diapers at any age. Here is the other misconceptions that people think about the ABDL Incontinence: Many people think that all ABDL individuals are incontinent or have a medical condition that requires them to wear diapers. In reality, most ABDLs are fully capable of using the toilet; they choose to wear diapers for comfort, pleasure, or emotional reasons.
Link to Pedophilia: A pervasive misconception is that ABDL is connected to pedophilia or that participants have inappropriate attractions to children. This is not true; ABDL is about adult role-playing and regression, and not about sexual attraction to minors.
Mental Health Issues: Some believe that those interested in ABDL have unresolved psychological issues or trauma. While some might engage in ABDL as a form of escapism or coping, this isn't inherently indicative of poor mental health. Many ABDLs are well-adjusted and mentally healthy.
Stereotypical Behaviors: It's a common belief that all ABDLs behave in a childish or infantile manner in everyday life. In reality, ABDLs can lead normal, functional adult lives and may engage in ABDL activities privately or in specific contexts, separate from their daily responsibilities.
All ABDLs Are the Same: The ABDL community is diverse, encompassing a wide range of interests and practices. Not all ABDLs engage in the same behaviors or have the same motivations. Some may be more focused on the diaper aspect, while others gravitate toward role-playing or other forms of regression.
ABDL Is a āPhaseā: Some people view ABDL as a fleeting interest or something that people will eventually "grow out of." For many, it's a lifelong preference and an integral part of their identity, much like other kinks or fetishes.
Public Perception Is Universally Negative: While there may be a stigma around ABDL, perceptions vary widely. Some people are understanding and accepting, while others may hold negative stereotypes. However, there are many supportive communities where ABDLs can share experiences without judgment.
ABDL Is Only About Diapers: While diapers are a significant element of ABDL culture, the community extends beyond just wearing diapers. Role-playing, nurturing dynamics, and other forms of age regression are also central to the experience.
Lifestyle and Sexual Elements Are the Same: Not all ABDLs are sexually motivated in their interests, and for some, it is purely about comfort and regression without any sexual connotation. Each individual navigates their feelings and experiences differently.
ABDL Is a Dangerous Lifestyle: Thereās a misconception that engaging in ABDL activities can be harmful or dangerous. As with any personal interest, it depends on the individualās approach and context. Many find healthy ways to incorporate ABDL into their lives without negative repercussions.
Social Interaction Is Limited: Some outsiders think that ABDLs are socially isolated or can't relate to others. However, many ABDLs find community and establish friendships through online forums, conventions, and local meetups.
ABDL and Age Play Are the Same: While ABDL is a form of age play, not everyone who enjoys age play identifies as ABDL. Age play can encompass a broader range of dynamics and roles beyond the baby or diaper aspects.
Stereotyping Based on Appearance: Thereās a misconception that all ABDLs will have a certain look or style. In reality, thereās a wide variety of expressions and personal aesthetics within the community.
Understanding these misconceptions can lead to more open-minded conversations about ABDL and help foster a more inclusive and respectful environment for those who identify with this community. If you don't understand it don't hesitate to ask or read about it online. Just remember how the furry fandom also had misconceptions such as All furries are perverts or have a fetish: This is one of the most prevalent misconceptions. While some individuals in the fandom may have a non-traditional sexual orientation or kink, the vast majority of furries are simply fans of anthropomorphic animals and do not engage in explicit or deviant behavior.
Furries wear fursuits all the time: Most furries do not wear fursuits regularly, but rather reserve them for special events, conventions, or photo shoots. Fursuits are often hot, heavy, and expensive, making them impractical for everyday wear.
The furry fandom is only about sex: While some aspects of the fandom may involve mature themes or explicit content, the majority of furry art, writing, and community activities are focused on creative expression, friendship, and self-identification.
All furries identify as LGBTQ+: While the furry fandom does have a high proportion of LGBTQ+ individuals, it is not exclusive to this community. Many straight, cisgender people also participate in and enjoy the fandom.
Furries are all young adults: The furry fandom spans a wide range of ages, from teenagers to older adults. Many furries are professionals, students, or retirees who simply enjoy the creativity and camaraderie of the community.
Furries are anti-social or have social anxiety: This misconception likely stems from the fact that many furries are introverted or prefer online communication. However, the furry fandom is built around community and social interaction, with many furries actively participating in events, meetups, and online forums.
Furries are all artists or writers: While many furries are talented artists, writers, or musicians, others have different skills and interests. Some furries may be programmers, scientists, or work in various other fields.
The furry fandom is a cult or has a unified ideology: The furry fandom is a decentralized, diverse community with no single ideology or leader. Individuals are free to participate and express themselves as they see fit, without fear of judgment or reprisal.
Furries are all into bestiality or zoophilia: This is a disturbing and completely false misconception. The furry fandom is focused on anthropomorphic animals, which are fictional creatures with human-like characteristics, not real animals.
Furries are immature or childish: The furry fandom is often associated with cartoons, comics, and fantasy, leading some to believe that it's only for children or immature adults. However, many furries are creative, intelligent, and emotionally mature individuals who simply enjoy exploring their imagination and self-expression.
All furries have a 'fursona': A fursona is a personal, anthropomorphic animal character that represents an individual in the furry fandom. While many furries do have a fursona, it's not a requirement for participation in the community.
The furry fandom is dying or in decline: Despite the rise of online hate groups and negative media portrayals, the furry fandom remains a vibrant and growing community. New conventions, events, and online platforms continue to emerge, and the fandom shows no signs of slowing down don't treat the ABDL community. Like when The furry Fandom was miss understood exactly the same way. lets talk about the things we don't understand instead of coming up with our own conclusions witch isn't the way to do it when you don't understand it. because it causes stigma fallacy & other emotions feelings towards a group or individuals lets have a open Discussion. How i did the lists & information was copy & pasting from here https://deepai.org/chat this will make your Journals quicker & more efficient including looking up information online and chatgpt of course
Link to Pedophilia: A pervasive misconception is that ABDL is connected to pedophilia or that participants have inappropriate attractions to children. This is not true; ABDL is about adult role-playing and regression, and not about sexual attraction to minors.
Mental Health Issues: Some believe that those interested in ABDL have unresolved psychological issues or trauma. While some might engage in ABDL as a form of escapism or coping, this isn't inherently indicative of poor mental health. Many ABDLs are well-adjusted and mentally healthy.
Stereotypical Behaviors: It's a common belief that all ABDLs behave in a childish or infantile manner in everyday life. In reality, ABDLs can lead normal, functional adult lives and may engage in ABDL activities privately or in specific contexts, separate from their daily responsibilities.
All ABDLs Are the Same: The ABDL community is diverse, encompassing a wide range of interests and practices. Not all ABDLs engage in the same behaviors or have the same motivations. Some may be more focused on the diaper aspect, while others gravitate toward role-playing or other forms of regression.
ABDL Is a āPhaseā: Some people view ABDL as a fleeting interest or something that people will eventually "grow out of." For many, it's a lifelong preference and an integral part of their identity, much like other kinks or fetishes.
Public Perception Is Universally Negative: While there may be a stigma around ABDL, perceptions vary widely. Some people are understanding and accepting, while others may hold negative stereotypes. However, there are many supportive communities where ABDLs can share experiences without judgment.
ABDL Is Only About Diapers: While diapers are a significant element of ABDL culture, the community extends beyond just wearing diapers. Role-playing, nurturing dynamics, and other forms of age regression are also central to the experience.
Lifestyle and Sexual Elements Are the Same: Not all ABDLs are sexually motivated in their interests, and for some, it is purely about comfort and regression without any sexual connotation. Each individual navigates their feelings and experiences differently.
ABDL Is a Dangerous Lifestyle: Thereās a misconception that engaging in ABDL activities can be harmful or dangerous. As with any personal interest, it depends on the individualās approach and context. Many find healthy ways to incorporate ABDL into their lives without negative repercussions.
Social Interaction Is Limited: Some outsiders think that ABDLs are socially isolated or can't relate to others. However, many ABDLs find community and establish friendships through online forums, conventions, and local meetups.
ABDL and Age Play Are the Same: While ABDL is a form of age play, not everyone who enjoys age play identifies as ABDL. Age play can encompass a broader range of dynamics and roles beyond the baby or diaper aspects.
Stereotyping Based on Appearance: Thereās a misconception that all ABDLs will have a certain look or style. In reality, thereās a wide variety of expressions and personal aesthetics within the community.
Understanding these misconceptions can lead to more open-minded conversations about ABDL and help foster a more inclusive and respectful environment for those who identify with this community. If you don't understand it don't hesitate to ask or read about it online. Just remember how the furry fandom also had misconceptions such as All furries are perverts or have a fetish: This is one of the most prevalent misconceptions. While some individuals in the fandom may have a non-traditional sexual orientation or kink, the vast majority of furries are simply fans of anthropomorphic animals and do not engage in explicit or deviant behavior.
Furries wear fursuits all the time: Most furries do not wear fursuits regularly, but rather reserve them for special events, conventions, or photo shoots. Fursuits are often hot, heavy, and expensive, making them impractical for everyday wear.
The furry fandom is only about sex: While some aspects of the fandom may involve mature themes or explicit content, the majority of furry art, writing, and community activities are focused on creative expression, friendship, and self-identification.
All furries identify as LGBTQ+: While the furry fandom does have a high proportion of LGBTQ+ individuals, it is not exclusive to this community. Many straight, cisgender people also participate in and enjoy the fandom.
Furries are all young adults: The furry fandom spans a wide range of ages, from teenagers to older adults. Many furries are professionals, students, or retirees who simply enjoy the creativity and camaraderie of the community.
Furries are anti-social or have social anxiety: This misconception likely stems from the fact that many furries are introverted or prefer online communication. However, the furry fandom is built around community and social interaction, with many furries actively participating in events, meetups, and online forums.
Furries are all artists or writers: While many furries are talented artists, writers, or musicians, others have different skills and interests. Some furries may be programmers, scientists, or work in various other fields.
The furry fandom is a cult or has a unified ideology: The furry fandom is a decentralized, diverse community with no single ideology or leader. Individuals are free to participate and express themselves as they see fit, without fear of judgment or reprisal.
Furries are all into bestiality or zoophilia: This is a disturbing and completely false misconception. The furry fandom is focused on anthropomorphic animals, which are fictional creatures with human-like characteristics, not real animals.
Furries are immature or childish: The furry fandom is often associated with cartoons, comics, and fantasy, leading some to believe that it's only for children or immature adults. However, many furries are creative, intelligent, and emotionally mature individuals who simply enjoy exploring their imagination and self-expression.
All furries have a 'fursona': A fursona is a personal, anthropomorphic animal character that represents an individual in the furry fandom. While many furries do have a fursona, it's not a requirement for participation in the community.
The furry fandom is dying or in decline: Despite the rise of online hate groups and negative media portrayals, the furry fandom remains a vibrant and growing community. New conventions, events, and online platforms continue to emerge, and the fandom shows no signs of slowing down don't treat the ABDL community. Like when The furry Fandom was miss understood exactly the same way. lets talk about the things we don't understand instead of coming up with our own conclusions witch isn't the way to do it when you don't understand it. because it causes stigma fallacy & other emotions feelings towards a group or individuals lets have a open Discussion. How i did the lists & information was copy & pasting from here https://deepai.org/chat this will make your Journals quicker & more efficient including looking up information online and chatgpt of course

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Itās a well-explained perspective, I can see how itās comforting and meaningful for you. Itās also great that you dared to share something like this too!


thankyou so much it was bothering me so i wanted to make a journal to help others understand it better your one is just as important and i also want to thankyou for sharing yours i have shared my softer side in my gallery too i hope it will help others feels less alone with these rituals