I'm more and more doubting my choice of wanting to get married. We've been engaged for almost 7 years now. That's a long time. In the time that I've known her I've found out that she's had a hard life with a lot of verbal abuse.

And there's my problem. I can't raise my voice even the slightest or explain something to her and she'll immediately say she's a bad wife and it's all her fault, after which she'll point out my "male proviledges" that she never had. I hate it when she talks like that But she still wants me, for some odd reason. But do I still want her???

I'm good at pushing people away, but she still clings to me like velcro.