Burnout Incoming
9 months ago
I'm doing this online volunteer work to pad my resume and hopefully pivot careers into something more AI-proof. But this nonprofit is demanding more and more, and I'm already feeling stretched between my actual job, commissions, family stuff, medical issues, and just day-to-day adulting. I agree to too many things. Needless-to-say, America's new administration of toddlers and internet trolls isn't doing my state of mind any good.
I need to stop juggling so many plates because I'm rapidly approaching burnout.
I want to take some time off. But when I do actually have free time, I can't force myself to relax and enjoy the moment. I've been so conditioned by the hustle economy mindset that you always have to be doing something, always setting the next goal, always working toward the next paycheck, and so I go to bed feeling guilty that I accomplished nothing that day. Even while watching a stream with friends, I'm usually sketching something on the side.
I still have a lot of half-finished projects to finish, but afterward I seriously want to force myself to do absolutely nothing for a solid month. Unplug from social media, see real life friends, finish a book, etc.
Does anyone have any tips to counter burnout?
I need to stop juggling so many plates because I'm rapidly approaching burnout.
I want to take some time off. But when I do actually have free time, I can't force myself to relax and enjoy the moment. I've been so conditioned by the hustle economy mindset that you always have to be doing something, always setting the next goal, always working toward the next paycheck, and so I go to bed feeling guilty that I accomplished nothing that day. Even while watching a stream with friends, I'm usually sketching something on the side.
I still have a lot of half-finished projects to finish, but afterward I seriously want to force myself to do absolutely nothing for a solid month. Unplug from social media, see real life friends, finish a book, etc.
Does anyone have any tips to counter burnout?
how to avoid it? well, one way is to become more aware of your own internal energy levels, or "spoons" as spoon theory calls it, how much you are aware you can do before ya just can't no more. but it sounds like, from the title of this journal, you've got that down already.
when i feel it coming, i take time to do something that makes me feel content. eating a good meal that tastes great. playing with or snuggling my dog, reading or playing relaxing video games. it may take more than one session to rid yourself of burnout. gotta let your trees regrow after the forest fire,you know. it takes time, but being kind to yourself and not pushing yourself too hard will really help.
remember: If being hard on yourself worked, it would have worked by now.
here's that comic.
https://www.tumblr.com/kyahcomic/70.....e?source=share
Your mind needs time to defragment, like an old computer! Needs to delete the old stuff and reorder it's thoughts.
Enjoy not thinking, just spend a few weeks being lazy! It sounds like you deserve it!
Hope that helps a little
Maybe try a puzzle...or coloring...or maybe reading. That's how I deal when I feel it
It took getting laid off in 2023 to make me reset my life and realize what I was doing wasn't helping me at all. And while I was grateful for an income when I was recalled to the same job, it was just that: the same job, the same BS I'd left. It had nothing to do with my desired field that I'd enrolled in school for, and last fall I decided to take the plunge and leave that company and pursue more relevant employment. I'm now working an IT construction job I love and have been more relaxed in my off-time than I had been for the past fifteen years.
Take some time away from everything, you already know where you are, consider more where you want to go. In the end, it's your life that matters. Everything else will roll along as it always does.
Hope this helps in some way