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Leaving the Furry Community
7 months ago
I'm gonna keep this as breif as possible, but I've come to the conclusion that I must step away and take sabbatical form the Furry Community. I'd go into all the reasons why but I believe I aired all my grievances out via Telegram. The main reason for this is I came out mid-last year and wanted to be a father/have children and instead of receive support from my from friends I got shat on. I was told that I don't get girls and have no path to fatherhood. That I'd be happier if I just stayed gay and sucked dick and be happy. What you don't know is that I'm bi-sexual and even though you might be right and my luck hasn't been great with the ladies at the bare minimum it would've been nice to have some support, but nope. Keep in mind I'm in an open relationship with my bunny (a guy) and I love him very much, but still I feel fucked over. Now I'm aware that adoption is an option but I prefer a natural born child, all I wanted was to make my mother a grand mother b4 she leaves this earth. She's a 5 time heart attack survivor and the next could be her last, but no one cares about that. "Maybe it's not meant to be" they say, like you're not helping me or my situation by saying this but oh fuckin kay :(
On top of that thanks to the last election apparently it's legal now to tell people to kill themselves if they have an opinion you don't like. for more information on that see Garden State (GSFTW) you can argue fuss fight whatever, but when we cross over into off yourself territory... like a decade ago people would be all over you "no you can't say that" but now a days as long as you're a popufur I guess you can say whatever you want as long as it's the right opinion.
But that's about it, the main reason is so I can find a path to being a father, I don't see myself doing that in the furry community. If it was meant to be me and her would've cross paths along time ago but nope. Ive only ever attracted guys and I'm not saying that's a bad thing but as previously stated I'm bi-sexual I like girls too, they just don't seem to like me back at least not in that way and being in an lgbtq+ community like furry I don't ever see that happening. Don't get me wrong, it's not a sexual thing, I could go my entire life without "getting some" I just want to bring new life into the world; but considering who our president is right now good fuckin luck because very very few people are trying with this nut job in office. So I may have to look outside the fandom. So as a result after March 31 2025 I'll be taking a leave of absence. I will state that I'll be doing a few pre-planned events like FWA and a trip to Birminham/London UK to meet old friends,but outside of that I will have very little activity in this community. I've also decided to upload some old art work yall may have missed out on and will be doing that over time until or after March. So I hope yall enjoy it because I won't be uploading anything else after wards. That is all for now, I hope yall are having a great day
On top of that thanks to the last election apparently it's legal now to tell people to kill themselves if they have an opinion you don't like. for more information on that see Garden State (GSFTW) you can argue fuss fight whatever, but when we cross over into off yourself territory... like a decade ago people would be all over you "no you can't say that" but now a days as long as you're a popufur I guess you can say whatever you want as long as it's the right opinion.
But that's about it, the main reason is so I can find a path to being a father, I don't see myself doing that in the furry community. If it was meant to be me and her would've cross paths along time ago but nope. Ive only ever attracted guys and I'm not saying that's a bad thing but as previously stated I'm bi-sexual I like girls too, they just don't seem to like me back at least not in that way and being in an lgbtq+ community like furry I don't ever see that happening. Don't get me wrong, it's not a sexual thing, I could go my entire life without "getting some" I just want to bring new life into the world; but considering who our president is right now good fuckin luck because very very few people are trying with this nut job in office. So I may have to look outside the fandom. So as a result after March 31 2025 I'll be taking a leave of absence. I will state that I'll be doing a few pre-planned events like FWA and a trip to Birminham/London UK to meet old friends,but outside of that I will have very little activity in this community. I've also decided to upload some old art work yall may have missed out on and will be doing that over time until or after March. So I hope yall enjoy it because I won't be uploading anything else after wards. That is all for now, I hope yall are having a great day
All that said I know being a parent can be a pain. It's an 18 to 21 year commitment that I'm actually willing to deal with otherwise I wouldn't be fighting so hard to become one. and yeah I agree I'd only allow close friends to see my children and keep everyone else away for their safety, at the very least until they got older probably their mid teens
I may in the future 'most likely when I have kids' return to in-fandom action and events, but for now I need to focus my own life, and mental health. Hopefully I can become a dad b4 anything happens to my mother and she gets to finally be a grand mother
Good night and god bless.
Its only 4 years that the buffoons Basterds will be in the Whitehouse.
Best of luck, take care, be safe & have fun.
This bout to sound kinda shitty but I never wanted to date or be in a relationship with someone outside the fandom, I always thought it would be someone inside the fandom but I don't attract girls I attract guys. Not to say I don't love these guys, especially my bunny I love him alot. But 2 dudes can not produce a child and most women in the community are already taken, lgbtq/lesbian or anti-child. And while adoption is an option my only logical way to bring a child into to the world naturally is by leaving the community. will it be hard, yes yes it will, but my mom gave me everything and the least I can do for her b4 she leaves this earth is give her a grand child. Furries can't do that sadly