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Open Intimacy (Old article: 2021/03/07)
7 months ago
This article was written 4 years ago.
I migrated my Wordpress blog somewhere else, so I think maybe it's okay to stash it here.
As I said, it's an article written 4 years ago, so this means the mindset I have now is pretty different from before. But I reckon that it's okay to keep this article as a record, and for me to look back whenever I need.
Maybe I'll find sometime to update my open relationship later. We'll see.
To my partners in my open relationship, and to myself as a grey fox.
For a long time, I really wanted to share my experience of physical interactions between my fursona and my partner's. However, I couldn't help imagine that other people already have some negative presumptions on open relationship. Hence I don't feel like to commission artworks that involves my fursona with others if the theme involves physical intimacy.
For one thing, it would save me a lot of time communicating with other irrelevant parties about the artworks and furthermore my relationship status. To put it more precisely, the whole "explaining to others about the legitimacy of my relationship with my partners, where my partners and I have already agreed upon" thing is meaningless at all – I don't think my way of open relationship would convince those who oppose the idea of open relationship. They would instead just fight for their beliefs and disagree whatever I say.
For another thing, Shu the grey fox is who I am, which means I literally see Shu the grey fox as myself. Whatever Shu the grey fox does in the artworks must be the things I would like to try. Because of that, it makes no sense to me to commission artworks with me and another unacquainted or unfamiliar furry character, let along making them having sex or whatever.
To sum it up, most of my commissioned artworks involve only one character, Shu the grey fox. In a few cases, my friends whom I am familiar with would appear in some artworks.
Well, after a year or two, after I had really good time with my partners, I started to think about buying a commission about my partners and I having a good time. I think it's because I feel more positive about opening up to others about my open relationships, and some of my partners also feel positive about me sharing my open relationships. I couldn't thank them more for their supportive attitude.
And now you have it, a short series of my "Open Intimacy".
In this series, I would like to invite the readers (you) to dive into the perspective of my partner(s), or at least into their imagination of me as a grey fox. Through the lens of my partners, I expect the readers to share physical intimacy with me under a mutual consent, and to experience being one of my open relationship partners.
I consent, and I hope you enjoy the series.
I am an anthro fox with grey fur.
For a long time, I have a deep affection for anthropomorphic animals. I love the animal traits: paws, muzzle, fur coat, body shape, that display on their body. I love their gorgeous, ever-changing fur patterns, and I am absolutely sexually attracted to them. This special taste of mine gradually segues me into building a grey fox fursona which you are looking at, and which I always adore.
Grey, as a color of low-profile; Fox, as a mixture of independence, cuteness and sexiness; The silver pendant I wear, which made of two square-like right triangle, symbolizes the grey fox per se, and reveals my deep awe for minimalism and mathematics.
I love this look a lot, I really want to appear just like him, and I am more than willing to exhibit my fox-self in front of my partners.
*
To me, intimacy and physical contact are closely related.
To begin with, both my partner and I have a strong preference for furry characters, the fact of which makes us very comfortable whenever we would like to express our feelings toward furry characters. Moreover, we both love each other's fursona and personality, and desire physical intimacy with them. Last but not least, our human look and personality in reality are pretty close to our own fursona, which makes the in-person physical contact more attractive to us. At least, when I close my eyes, I could still imagine my partner as their furry character and indulge myself in the furry fantasy.
Not all my physical contacts are intimate. As long as I am not interacting with others in my furry character, then even if the physical contact involves sex, I am not sharing intimacy with them, rather I am just dealing with my human sexual instinct and provide sexual service to them.
To me, the most intimate thing to do with my partner, is taking off my clothes and my little piece of underwear, revealing 100% of Shu the grey fox, and inviting my partner to take off their clothes as well, then mutually enjoying the superposition of human body sensation and furry character imagination.
*
"Well...I'm taking off my undies if you're okay with this..."
I enjoy the interaction in front of a mirror. I could enjoy both ways whether I am the dominant one or the submissive one.
When I am playing submissive, I feel vulnerable and I let my partner grab my body and limbs. I enjoys a lot when my partner enjoys my foxy body, and when my sexual desire is triggered through my partner's fingertip and body form. The submissive look of myself, and the sexy look of my genital being pressed against the glass wall, in no doubt reinforce my lust of being delicately and sexually taken cared of.
On the other paw, when I am playing dominant, I become a director of a sex play. I try every way to trigger the sexual desire of my partner and enjoy their submissive expressions. They would twist their body, almost crying and begging for more caress and tongue licking. And I would fulfill their desire and grab their hands, press them hard on the glass wall, and enjoy every inch of skin touch. They would moan like an animal (literally), and I would fox squeak back to reassure them that their lust would be nicely taken care of.
*
Both F and I enjoy the switch between dominance and submission. Since we know each other's erogenous zone very well, the interaction between us becomes like an unstable balance. One extra touch would easily flip from dominance to submission, and vice versa.
Sometimes it's not one-sided, rather both having a state of dominance and submission. Both F and I can enjoy the mixture of pleasure from receiving and sending the stimulus, which is phenomenal to us. It's not only about the sexual pleasure, it's about genuinely recognizing each other's fursona and need, and to actually caring them.
*
"Do you like being dominant and submissive at the same time?"
I'm not very confident about my private part, which makes me not so willing to let others lick my anus. Having said that, I actually love rimming very much. I just don't want to make my partner feel less satisfying when licking. Rimming (or sex plays in general) in furry artworks are wonderful, but not so much in reality, not to mention the difference between furries and human.
I still like sixty-nine in real life though.
To me, sixty-nine is one of the classic sex positions that demonstrates the switch dynamics and stimulates sexual desire. One expose their most private part to another and vice versa, and both please each other with delicate paw fingers and moist tongue. Saliva polishes the private part, and paw fingers explore the shape of them. Both sides would keep pleasuring each other until one surrender and becomes submissive.
*
Though I only have physical contact with S once, I still couldn't forget the unique experience S offered me. Apart from the physical contact, we send warm fluffy hugs to each other, and hear out when one needs to let out their negative emotion. We are definitely close in some aspects, and we are happy to keep our relationship open and leave room for each other. We do not own each other, and we don't need to be close in every aspect to feel the intimacy between us.
*
"I hope you enjoy the view."
I always feel thankful to my time with C, and I care very much whether C would feel comfortable during our precious time. Therefore I can totally understand C's concern when I am planning to make our relationship public. After some communication, in this artwork I decide to substitute C with Edesk's dear character Red.
Though I don't have much affection for Red, Edesk has been taking an important role regarding to Shu the grey fox. Not only he realized the reference sheet but also many of my commissions. Some of the artworks (including this series) reveal my deep thoughts and represent the core of myself. After all these self-exposure toward Edesk, I feel like I can trust him in no doubt, and so forth I can trust Red in no doubt. This "trust build upon self-exposure" might sound silly, or even blind or dangerous, but toward his artworks and my conversation with him, I am pretty confident that he is genuine and cares a lot about others' well-being.
*
Under the shades, a brief but intimate afternoon.
I actually love the idea of nudism, but I am not into nudism in public. I am not looking for excitement from my naked body being seen by strangers, and I am not comfortable with being nude in front of people I'm not really familiar with. I don't want to process the information from the stranger's stare or their existence. I just want to get rid of my clothes, and feel myself being a grey fox in nature, with peace in mind.
As for outdoor intimacy with my partner, we're just merely looking for unadulterated physical interaction: without clothes, rooms and buildings, without most of the manmade stuffs. Only the nature and our fluffy warmth between us.
*
"Breeze wind brushes your muzzle. Warm sunshine showers your body. Let's have a taste of pure joy together."
I suppose that my way of expressing intimacy toward my partner is quite different from normal people, because I love making fox squeaks or purrs during sex.
When I say "fox squeaks" and "purrs", it's not 100% what it sounds like. I mean after all I am not a real fox, I don't have their vocal tract, and heck Shu is not even a quadrupedal fox anyway. Those "fox squeaks" I make are more like a mishmash of human moans and fox vocalizations. I do follow some fox pet account on Instagram, so I kind of learn those fox voices from their video posts. Foxes gekker when they are having a fight, they purr when they feel comfortable, and they whine just like pet dogs. As for my facial expression when making fox voices, since I'm an anthro fox, I take huge reference from Riley and NaL's Telegram stickers and imagine myself making expression just like those fox stickers.
On the other paw, I don't talk or speak human unless necessary, since it almost feels like turning back to human when I say human words. Almost like a counter magic spell. Well, it is awkward though that an "anthro" fox doesn't speak human, but let's just say that until now I can not imagine Shu the grey fox speaking human. My human voice belongs to only human self, not my fox self, since my human voice could only makes me think of my human self. My voice is hardwired to my human form. Therefore I still use my way of "fox squeaks" to express my joy, my desire, my grief, and my shyness.
*
Apart from vocalization, I also borrow some of the movements from animal interactions. My favorite one, which is also one of the most intimate one, is nose kissing. When I do nose kissing, I always imagine myself having a grey foxy muzzle, and intimately touches my partner's muzzle. Nose kissing always gives me a sense of safety. To me it is the most direct way to feel my fox-self and my partner's fursona.
Another lustful and intimate movement is licking. Licking cheek, licking neck, and licking body. When we lick, we're just like real animal. We move our head, we lick each other, and find comfort when being licked.
*
*Making fox squeaks and moans, sticking his wet tongue out*
I actually enjoy roleplaying through text as well.
I think text roleplay is the cheapest way to dive oneself into imagination. In real world, whether staring myself in front of a mirror or being with my partner only show human body. The physical human body prevents us from imagination, unless having eyes closed. However if we don't have to meet in person, and rather just send messages through IM, then it seems to be easier for us to imagine ourselves being our fursonas. Sometimes we prefer text roleplay to in-person interaction, just because we simply love furries more than human.
I don't have much chance hanging out with D in person, so we do text roleplaying from time to time.
Though it's a roleplay, it's not like imagination inside a fantacy world or Dungeons and Dragons. We're just being our fursona, and we play, and we cuddle, with some warm greetings. Sometimes the roleplay has a longer plot. We run away from our workplace together, and we head to some lake or forest and play. Sometimes the plot goes intimate. Maybe start from a gentle touch and explores each other's furry body form, then some intimate cuddle to please each other. If the feeling is right at the moment, maybe we would go for some mild sex play.
Even in a text roleplay, we would still respect the body boundaries. For example, D takes kissing very seriously and he would only kiss his spouse, then of course I should respect that and not to kiss him during the roleplay. We don't break rules and promises, whether it's in person or in roleplay.
*
*The grey fox stands in front of you, gently touches your belly fur with one paw, and reaches your feline member with another, trying to feel its warmth and shape. He heads up, looks at you, and timidly smiles. You can see his grey fur body and his erecting canine member clearly. His tail wags delightfully.*
My partner and I not only share intimacy to each other, we also share same value on open relationship.
Because we embrace open relationship, we can freely express our feelings and be honest to our relationship status when we have conversations. I know how important I am among their close friends and vice versa, so we could find ourselves the best distance between us and make ourselves comfortable within that distance. If we are close enough, I would try my best to spare some space for them in my future plan, under mutual consent of course.
Though I would not interfere interactions between my partners, my partners know each other at least. Some of them are also close to each other, but I never force them to acquaint one another. I just let it be.
*
To me, every partner, every conversation, every physical intimacy, are unique experiences. I thank them for the warmth they offer whenever I hangout with them. I get to feel more my grey fox self under their caring, and I would definitely care them back and send fluffy warmth to them, until our time together has come to an end.
*
"Thank you for hearing me out."
"Thank you for journeying with me."
* * *
I can not thank you more for taking time reading my stories. I hope this series would serve as one of the possibilities of open relationship, for your reference. 🦊
I migrated my Wordpress blog somewhere else, so I think maybe it's okay to stash it here.
As I said, it's an article written 4 years ago, so this means the mindset I have now is pretty different from before. But I reckon that it's okay to keep this article as a record, and for me to look back whenever I need.
Maybe I'll find sometime to update my open relationship later. We'll see.
To my partners in my open relationship, and to myself as a grey fox.
Foreword
For a long time, I really wanted to share my experience of physical interactions between my fursona and my partner's. However, I couldn't help imagine that other people already have some negative presumptions on open relationship. Hence I don't feel like to commission artworks that involves my fursona with others if the theme involves physical intimacy.
For one thing, it would save me a lot of time communicating with other irrelevant parties about the artworks and furthermore my relationship status. To put it more precisely, the whole "explaining to others about the legitimacy of my relationship with my partners, where my partners and I have already agreed upon" thing is meaningless at all – I don't think my way of open relationship would convince those who oppose the idea of open relationship. They would instead just fight for their beliefs and disagree whatever I say.
For another thing, Shu the grey fox is who I am, which means I literally see Shu the grey fox as myself. Whatever Shu the grey fox does in the artworks must be the things I would like to try. Because of that, it makes no sense to me to commission artworks with me and another unacquainted or unfamiliar furry character, let along making them having sex or whatever.
To sum it up, most of my commissioned artworks involve only one character, Shu the grey fox. In a few cases, my friends whom I am familiar with would appear in some artworks.
Well, after a year or two, after I had really good time with my partners, I started to think about buying a commission about my partners and I having a good time. I think it's because I feel more positive about opening up to others about my open relationships, and some of my partners also feel positive about me sharing my open relationships. I couldn't thank them more for their supportive attitude.
And now you have it, a short series of my "Open Intimacy".
Introduction
In this series, I would like to invite the readers (you) to dive into the perspective of my partner(s), or at least into their imagination of me as a grey fox. Through the lens of my partners, I expect the readers to share physical intimacy with me under a mutual consent, and to experience being one of my open relationship partners.
I consent, and I hope you enjoy the series.
Sex
I am an anthro fox with grey fur.
For a long time, I have a deep affection for anthropomorphic animals. I love the animal traits: paws, muzzle, fur coat, body shape, that display on their body. I love their gorgeous, ever-changing fur patterns, and I am absolutely sexually attracted to them. This special taste of mine gradually segues me into building a grey fox fursona which you are looking at, and which I always adore.
Grey, as a color of low-profile; Fox, as a mixture of independence, cuteness and sexiness; The silver pendant I wear, which made of two square-like right triangle, symbolizes the grey fox per se, and reveals my deep awe for minimalism and mathematics.
I love this look a lot, I really want to appear just like him, and I am more than willing to exhibit my fox-self in front of my partners.
*
To me, intimacy and physical contact are closely related.
To begin with, both my partner and I have a strong preference for furry characters, the fact of which makes us very comfortable whenever we would like to express our feelings toward furry characters. Moreover, we both love each other's fursona and personality, and desire physical intimacy with them. Last but not least, our human look and personality in reality are pretty close to our own fursona, which makes the in-person physical contact more attractive to us. At least, when I close my eyes, I could still imagine my partner as their furry character and indulge myself in the furry fantasy.
Not all my physical contacts are intimate. As long as I am not interacting with others in my furry character, then even if the physical contact involves sex, I am not sharing intimacy with them, rather I am just dealing with my human sexual instinct and provide sexual service to them.
To me, the most intimate thing to do with my partner, is taking off my clothes and my little piece of underwear, revealing 100% of Shu the grey fox, and inviting my partner to take off their clothes as well, then mutually enjoying the superposition of human body sensation and furry character imagination.
*
"Well...I'm taking off my undies if you're okay with this..."
F
I enjoy the interaction in front of a mirror. I could enjoy both ways whether I am the dominant one or the submissive one.
When I am playing submissive, I feel vulnerable and I let my partner grab my body and limbs. I enjoys a lot when my partner enjoys my foxy body, and when my sexual desire is triggered through my partner's fingertip and body form. The submissive look of myself, and the sexy look of my genital being pressed against the glass wall, in no doubt reinforce my lust of being delicately and sexually taken cared of.
On the other paw, when I am playing dominant, I become a director of a sex play. I try every way to trigger the sexual desire of my partner and enjoy their submissive expressions. They would twist their body, almost crying and begging for more caress and tongue licking. And I would fulfill their desire and grab their hands, press them hard on the glass wall, and enjoy every inch of skin touch. They would moan like an animal (literally), and I would fox squeak back to reassure them that their lust would be nicely taken care of.
*
Both F and I enjoy the switch between dominance and submission. Since we know each other's erogenous zone very well, the interaction between us becomes like an unstable balance. One extra touch would easily flip from dominance to submission, and vice versa.
Sometimes it's not one-sided, rather both having a state of dominance and submission. Both F and I can enjoy the mixture of pleasure from receiving and sending the stimulus, which is phenomenal to us. It's not only about the sexual pleasure, it's about genuinely recognizing each other's fursona and need, and to actually caring them.
*
"Do you like being dominant and submissive at the same time?"
S
I'm not very confident about my private part, which makes me not so willing to let others lick my anus. Having said that, I actually love rimming very much. I just don't want to make my partner feel less satisfying when licking. Rimming (or sex plays in general) in furry artworks are wonderful, but not so much in reality, not to mention the difference between furries and human.
I still like sixty-nine in real life though.
To me, sixty-nine is one of the classic sex positions that demonstrates the switch dynamics and stimulates sexual desire. One expose their most private part to another and vice versa, and both please each other with delicate paw fingers and moist tongue. Saliva polishes the private part, and paw fingers explore the shape of them. Both sides would keep pleasuring each other until one surrender and becomes submissive.
*
Though I only have physical contact with S once, I still couldn't forget the unique experience S offered me. Apart from the physical contact, we send warm fluffy hugs to each other, and hear out when one needs to let out their negative emotion. We are definitely close in some aspects, and we are happy to keep our relationship open and leave room for each other. We do not own each other, and we don't need to be close in every aspect to feel the intimacy between us.
*
"I hope you enjoy the view."
C
I always feel thankful to my time with C, and I care very much whether C would feel comfortable during our precious time. Therefore I can totally understand C's concern when I am planning to make our relationship public. After some communication, in this artwork I decide to substitute C with Edesk's dear character Red.
Though I don't have much affection for Red, Edesk has been taking an important role regarding to Shu the grey fox. Not only he realized the reference sheet but also many of my commissions. Some of the artworks (including this series) reveal my deep thoughts and represent the core of myself. After all these self-exposure toward Edesk, I feel like I can trust him in no doubt, and so forth I can trust Red in no doubt. This "trust build upon self-exposure" might sound silly, or even blind or dangerous, but toward his artworks and my conversation with him, I am pretty confident that he is genuine and cares a lot about others' well-being.
*
Under the shades, a brief but intimate afternoon.
I actually love the idea of nudism, but I am not into nudism in public. I am not looking for excitement from my naked body being seen by strangers, and I am not comfortable with being nude in front of people I'm not really familiar with. I don't want to process the information from the stranger's stare or their existence. I just want to get rid of my clothes, and feel myself being a grey fox in nature, with peace in mind.
As for outdoor intimacy with my partner, we're just merely looking for unadulterated physical interaction: without clothes, rooms and buildings, without most of the manmade stuffs. Only the nature and our fluffy warmth between us.
*
"Breeze wind brushes your muzzle. Warm sunshine showers your body. Let's have a taste of pure joy together."
E
I suppose that my way of expressing intimacy toward my partner is quite different from normal people, because I love making fox squeaks or purrs during sex.
When I say "fox squeaks" and "purrs", it's not 100% what it sounds like. I mean after all I am not a real fox, I don't have their vocal tract, and heck Shu is not even a quadrupedal fox anyway. Those "fox squeaks" I make are more like a mishmash of human moans and fox vocalizations. I do follow some fox pet account on Instagram, so I kind of learn those fox voices from their video posts. Foxes gekker when they are having a fight, they purr when they feel comfortable, and they whine just like pet dogs. As for my facial expression when making fox voices, since I'm an anthro fox, I take huge reference from Riley and NaL's Telegram stickers and imagine myself making expression just like those fox stickers.
On the other paw, I don't talk or speak human unless necessary, since it almost feels like turning back to human when I say human words. Almost like a counter magic spell. Well, it is awkward though that an "anthro" fox doesn't speak human, but let's just say that until now I can not imagine Shu the grey fox speaking human. My human voice belongs to only human self, not my fox self, since my human voice could only makes me think of my human self. My voice is hardwired to my human form. Therefore I still use my way of "fox squeaks" to express my joy, my desire, my grief, and my shyness.
*
Apart from vocalization, I also borrow some of the movements from animal interactions. My favorite one, which is also one of the most intimate one, is nose kissing. When I do nose kissing, I always imagine myself having a grey foxy muzzle, and intimately touches my partner's muzzle. Nose kissing always gives me a sense of safety. To me it is the most direct way to feel my fox-self and my partner's fursona.
Another lustful and intimate movement is licking. Licking cheek, licking neck, and licking body. When we lick, we're just like real animal. We move our head, we lick each other, and find comfort when being licked.
*
*Making fox squeaks and moans, sticking his wet tongue out*
D
I actually enjoy roleplaying through text as well.
I think text roleplay is the cheapest way to dive oneself into imagination. In real world, whether staring myself in front of a mirror or being with my partner only show human body. The physical human body prevents us from imagination, unless having eyes closed. However if we don't have to meet in person, and rather just send messages through IM, then it seems to be easier for us to imagine ourselves being our fursonas. Sometimes we prefer text roleplay to in-person interaction, just because we simply love furries more than human.
I don't have much chance hanging out with D in person, so we do text roleplaying from time to time.
Though it's a roleplay, it's not like imagination inside a fantacy world or Dungeons and Dragons. We're just being our fursona, and we play, and we cuddle, with some warm greetings. Sometimes the roleplay has a longer plot. We run away from our workplace together, and we head to some lake or forest and play. Sometimes the plot goes intimate. Maybe start from a gentle touch and explores each other's furry body form, then some intimate cuddle to please each other. If the feeling is right at the moment, maybe we would go for some mild sex play.
Even in a text roleplay, we would still respect the body boundaries. For example, D takes kissing very seriously and he would only kiss his spouse, then of course I should respect that and not to kiss him during the roleplay. We don't break rules and promises, whether it's in person or in roleplay.
*
*The grey fox stands in front of you, gently touches your belly fur with one paw, and reaches your feline member with another, trying to feel its warmth and shape. He heads up, looks at you, and timidly smiles. You can see his grey fur body and his erecting canine member clearly. His tail wags delightfully.*
Shu
My partner and I not only share intimacy to each other, we also share same value on open relationship.
Because we embrace open relationship, we can freely express our feelings and be honest to our relationship status when we have conversations. I know how important I am among their close friends and vice versa, so we could find ourselves the best distance between us and make ourselves comfortable within that distance. If we are close enough, I would try my best to spare some space for them in my future plan, under mutual consent of course.
Though I would not interfere interactions between my partners, my partners know each other at least. Some of them are also close to each other, but I never force them to acquaint one another. I just let it be.
*
To me, every partner, every conversation, every physical intimacy, are unique experiences. I thank them for the warmth they offer whenever I hangout with them. I get to feel more my grey fox self under their caring, and I would definitely care them back and send fluffy warmth to them, until our time together has come to an end.
*
"Thank you for hearing me out."
"Thank you for journeying with me."
* * *
I can not thank you more for taking time reading my stories. I hope this series would serve as one of the possibilities of open relationship, for your reference. 🦊
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