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Socializing?
6 months ago
Hey everyone, this a bit of an odd post but does anyone struggle to socialize? Like do you ever get anxious trying to open yourself up to more people waiting for them to approach but they don't, or try to join group chats only to be intimidated by the number of peoplr or don't have anything to contribute. Even then when you do try to speak it kind of feels like you go over people's heads like nothing. Then you think it's just better to be quiet and just hope for the best that they approach you first, rather than make the first move.
Once you find the right person, the feeling of "having nothing to contribute" gets replaced by them actively asking your opinion on things, or you telling them random stuff without thinking too hard about whether it's relevant to their interests, because you know there's a high chance they'll find it interesting anyway. It's pretty great.