Bee Journal #10 Blocked?
5 months ago
You ever go through your following submissions only to suddenly get hit with a "You cannot favorite a submission by someone who has blocked you" alert? Cause I have. Twice. It's... the oddest feeling. I'm less sad that someone blocked me and more curious as to what it is I could've done that caused some complete rando I've never interacted with before to block me. Does that happen to anyone else? Idk, maybe I'm just weird for thinking that way. It does kinda suck tho, mostly cause now I can't favorite the art. It was of Big the cat too. I love that fat fucc :<
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edit: and sometimes I'm scared that the mobile interface will make me hit the block button instead of the favs or journals or commissions or notes buttons
On bluesky saw some blocked posts, but you can't tell who it is, the post is just completely obscured unless you somehow find the source profile, so whatever. Best not investigate how many have blocked you or put you on le bad horrid people lists, not worth the stress to care what internet morons think.
I tend to assume they are either insane, evil, had indigestion and were grumpy, you name it. It's their freedom to block whoever for whatever reason and it's my freedom to assume why, and I will choose the version that suits me. So If you've never interacted with them and therefore can't be much at fault, why not start reframing the situation in your favor. Maybe this method will be effective for you as well.
When you get blocked without prior interaction, you're left with a feeling of guilt and suspicion and the environment is hostile, there is no closure and can't even ask why. But this may be beneficial, some of these people are actually vile and obsessive - which is why they proactively block so many accounts, either out of hate or fear. Interacting with them may be dangerous or unpleasant, let them isolate themselves.
I feel FA will implement a deeper blocking system to the point you will not be able to see the artwork posted on these accounts. I don't think these systems are healthy long term as they allow unsavory and mentally unstable individuals to feel comfortable on the site - normally you just will see things you don't like, I think it's important for that to happen if you don't want tribalism and hate towards whatever the horrid group of the month is, see twitter drama and bluesky with user lists for example
Anyway, the topic sorta brought out a rant I've been thinking about for a long time
People think you are antiferal? Block!
People hate your kinks? Block!
People hate your religious/political views? Block!
People hate insects? Block!
You can never please everyone.