Happy pride month. I'm coming out as aromantic. However, unlike what some aromantics out there may be aro for, mine actually is based in something a bit more grounded in my existence.

Let me put it simply.

I'm not worth being someone's other half.

They'd be left with a weight. I wouldn't provide what I'd need to to keep it up. I'd be a hindrance.

So yeah. Not that anyone wanted to be in love with me in the first place, so I'm just shutting the doors before I end up hurting someone by dating them.

I can't put ace on there either because even though me having real, legitimate sex with someone is something that (well not only would never happen) I find to be horrifying as a concept, but I still jerk off. I find things sexually attractive. I can't have sex from the social aspect. So I'm not a real ace.