BRIAN OCONNEL IS DEAD
3 months ago
Smart people understand that there is no such thing as paranoia. It is just another mask for ignorance. The Truth, when you finally chase it down, is almost always far worse than your darkest visions and fears.
Hunter S. Thompson
Hunter S. Thompson
He dropped dead in the front yard of Steve Martin's house, where he arrived, uninvited, some months ago.
He wouldn't do a thing to help himself other than have his hand out, constantly asking for money.
I can't really say I'm upset about this, he was an arrogant bugger, and we've lost too many good folks to lament a greedy layabout.
He wouldn't do a thing to help himself other than have his hand out, constantly asking for money.
I can't really say I'm upset about this, he was an arrogant bugger, and we've lost too many good folks to lament a greedy layabout.
No real loss here. Now, when does Sibe croak?
Well, I'd be a hypocrite if I said I cared that much.
But losing another of the Old Guard is always sad..no matter who it is.
He was one of the greatest talents in furry art- But he chose to abuse the gift rather than use it honestly.
I have wished I had a fraction of his art ability.
-Badger-
He's more an Untermensch schmuch.
I avoided him -- I'm not into erotica and was warned he tended to be a moocher. However, as others have said, it's sobering to see another of us gone.
The mooching lifestyle meant he didn't take care of himself (medically) --he was only 56-ish years old.
Hope he gets a job in his next life.
Still, another of the Furry OG's gone.
I've never seen one?
-Badger-
His journals of the past three years are solid beg posts.
the fact the guy kept begging... yeah, no loss too the world, I hate too say it of a dead guy.
And yes, all he did was surf couches across the country. Never contributed anything with his hosts til getting punted. Openly admitted he never paid rent at his last place over Two and a half years banking on squatters rights to protect him from being evicted.
Some kind hearted soul gave him $1800 In September and in less than 2 weeks he smoked, toked, drank, drugged up the money only to beg for more instead of moving to Slab City, his intended goal.
I will NOT be doing a memorial strip for him. Mainly since on December 3rd 2016, while I was at MFF, my older sister Candace died. I posted a journal explaining what had happened and my mind and mood was in the dumps over it, so please understand the situation. Brian posted a 10-12 column rant on my shouts saying and I'll never forget it " People die daily and you don't grieve for them, why should i care about your sister?"
He then spent the rest of the rants bitching how he's a respected artist and HE NEEDS MONEY and deserves it. Dragoneer even stepped in, deleted Brian's rant and punished him with a 2 day suspension over it.
If Brian had made ANY attempt to clean up his life and straighten out, things would be different, but nope, his chosen life style is what killed him. Cigarettes, weed and booze first and foremost.
So I will pull a Jeremy Clarkston , "OH no....Anyway..."
In the immortal words of a good friend who since passed on, "Don't befriend him. You'll be sorry."
Guy stole a lot of money, some from me too. So tears shed at all.
If you kept tabs on him regarding your commission, he'd wig out and say that you're pestering him and now he can't draw.
And if you backed off and didn't contact him, nothing would happen for months/years and if you contacted him for an update after such a long time, he'd then say he forgot and that it's your own fault for not reminding him.
I'm surprised he managed to keep that scam rolling on for so long.