super big thanks to the few of yall that helped! i really REALLY appreciate it!

got the ticket paid and also got the tag and insurance updated. the rest will be handled by my parents.
but honestly god this whole damn thing shouldn't have even happened. i haven't been this mentally exhausted in a long time and i really want a break. but i can't. at least not right now. but in the meantime i opened up a good chunk of drive space so now i can work on blender properly again for now. so im going to get coms done and just chill.

again huge thanks for the support! im going to make sure that this kind of crap never happens again