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My mum
a week ago
Knock off Legoshi says hi
I want to love my mother. I want to forget about all the comments she made in the past and I want to make her proud and happy to see me. I want to bake her brownies and see her happy for a time. I want to sit there for 15 mins and listen to her talk about her interests. And I want to leave when it feels like it gets too much.
And I want her to go to bed happy knowing her son loves her.
I don't want to overextend myself for my family but I don't want to cut them out neither. This is what my heart says...
And I want her to go to bed happy knowing her son loves her.
I don't want to overextend myself for my family but I don't want to cut them out neither. This is what my heart says...
Viperman
~viperman
*hugs*
SeltzAzureRailer
~seltzazurerailer
Just want to take it one step at a time, a relationship of any caliber takes more then one person. The fact that you want to improve is more then enough. Just keep letting her know that you care and want to spend time with her eventually it will happen. Can't force anything, all you can do is be open and willing to connect.
tristanthewolf
~alexnightmurr
OP
But I know my mum loves me. Because even though she says mean things I really do think this, and want to believe it. But you are right. Crashing out over this will get nowhere, I really do have to take it one step at a time. I just hope I can mend our broken bridge , and feel happy again
SeltzAzureRailer
~seltzazurerailer
Just...don't let someone take advantage of you. Your emotions matter too. If someone is mean unprompted and continuous you need to prioritize your own happiness and sanity.
tristanthewolf
~alexnightmurr
OP
*SIGH* Advice too late, but I get where you're coming from, big guy who hopefully has a hairy chest *hugs*
tristanthewolf
~alexnightmurr
OP
Sent her a hi tonight. Hopefully all OK!
