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[rant] another rant, no need to read. Just need to vent
6 days ago
Socialising always end with me as a monster, so I'm the problem.
Tried to be helpful. Read what was said, took the problem per what seemed the most important factor. Offered solutions. People get in and ignore the factor and tell me I'm wrong.
Guy ask a question. I answer with examples regarding it, never said my own opinion. Guy complains I'm whining. Yeah, reporting other people's feelings is me whining. Left the two groups and thinking of giving my NFC ticket to Snow's mommy. That way I don't have to fear the convention for 6 months
Tried to be helpful. Read what was said, took the problem per what seemed the most important factor. Offered solutions. People get in and ignore the factor and tell me I'm wrong.
Guy ask a question. I answer with examples regarding it, never said my own opinion. Guy complains I'm whining. Yeah, reporting other people's feelings is me whining. Left the two groups and thinking of giving my NFC ticket to Snow's mommy. That way I don't have to fear the convention for 6 months
Socializing can be really difficult! I completely hear that. And, yeah, I have had disastrous group moments with people myself. It definitely is painful. It super sucks when people misinterpret what you say and then they start saying you are whining. And I'm so sorry you have to be dealing with such a thing, Loupy. I hope things get better for you. *hugs* <3
Loupy Lupine
~loupylupine
OP
It's happen all the time. I just left both groups and i'm thinking of leaving others just so I don't bother hurting myself socialising...
you can always chat with me on bsky i will never do this to anyone because i value connection and socialising with furries and people i connect with its a lifeline
i want to add let me take of all the emotional weight of you lets chat and be there for each other no need to worry you might be to much the ship wont sink take my paw and lets stand side by side being stronger together
Perhaps talk to a professional... The internet and the people on it are not obligated to (sit and listen) to your problems... They are not trained psychiatrists. If you have friends to unload on, thats good. But some people will not respond well to it.
dominus_Draconis
~dominusdraconis
In fairness, in this case someone asked for advice then reacted badly, from what he posted here
-backster-
~-backster-
Well then I pass this advice on to "them" aswell.
Loupy Lupine
~loupylupine
OP
I honestly said to not read. It was not hyperbole. I felt like venting and didn't wanted to confront any friends about it.
dominus_Draconis
~dominusdraconis
I wish you had talked to me hon
