I'm not getting how those two things relate to each other?

Just griping. I have actual major life-impacting problems, and also some shrieking bonehead sifting my words for anything construable as offense so I can be the Villain du Jour in their heroic woobie story.

Don't take your shit out on Cookie just because she didn't get that she didn't make it clear what she was talking about. I already chided her about that

Show me the part where I directed this at or identified any specified individual. I chose to blow off frustration in what was a contained and anonymized venue up to this point.

It was pretty damned clear who you were referring to, Mr. Cranky Pants. Cool your jets.

Dude, PKB. You are not the FA social police, and aggressively poking at a one-off grouse that very few had the context to follow is not keeping the peace. I'm snarky—some might call the terminal illness of a loved one a mitigating factor in that—but right now you're out of line towards both parties.

WTF does PKB mean? Of course I'm not the "FA social police". You're just being ridiculous here, as well as understandably grouchy.

And nah.

Someone needs to be taking up less of your time projecting on your vaguebooking while you have affairs to tend to. Good luck dealing with that

Having a hard time reading your tone here.

Supportive, though phrasing it was difficult due to your wording in the post being slightly obscure and I had to fill in blanks, which I dont know if I was correct on. Lets try this again:

You have a lot on your plate, from the sounds of it. I hope people dont bug you for it, or assume the worst of you since you seem to be planning on taking care of some responsibilities that are exhausting. Exhausting leads to irritation, irritation leads to temper, temper leads to chronic foot in mouth disease, which can also be laborious to clean up after. But back to the point: wishing you my support!

Thank you, and I appreciate the clarification. It wasn't really a huge deal; just someone putting wholesale words in my mouth and falsely saddling me with a straw man ideology at a time when I already have bigger problems.