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Would You Circumcise Your Penis if your Partner Demands It?
a day ago
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I was circumcised (when I was a baby), and of all the women I've met, all of them happen to prefer circumcised penises over uncircumcised. I have no desire to restore my foreskin, and aesthetically and sexually I prefer cut penises over uncut. One of my dates in university, an exchange student from the UK, once told me that she outright refuses to sleep with any guy who has an uncut penis.
Now before anti-circumcision peeps inundate me, I want to make a disclaimer that this journal entry isn't about the morals of circumcision, but rather, would you make practical changes to your genitalia if it would increase the chance of better sex?
PS, I heard that having a foreskin makes masturbation and sex more pleasurable. But to me, that sounds like a way to orgasm too quickly, no?
Now before anti-circumcision peeps inundate me, I want to make a disclaimer that this journal entry isn't about the morals of circumcision, but rather, would you make practical changes to your genitalia if it would increase the chance of better sex?
PS, I heard that having a foreskin makes masturbation and sex more pleasurable. But to me, that sounds like a way to orgasm too quickly, no?
I would find anyone who would want me to permanently surgically alter my body just to suit their preferences to be a giant red flag. That sounds like someone who might be so self-centered or controlling I wouldn't want anything to do with them.
We don't let this shit fly when men do it, we don't let it fly when women do. It shows a deep lack of respect and compassion on her side.
Who is she to demand he alter his body surgically to suit her preferences, and a fairly minor one at that.
This to me, indicates someone that'll push through their wants and way over the other party's at all cost.
Not respecting boundaries as simple as bodily autonomy is an absolute relationship ender.
I think ultimately, the women I've met who happen to prefer cut penises may be coming from the fact their previous partners might be awfully unhygienic, so there is this a false correlation that foreskin = dirty. If a man is responsible, he'd be cleaning his genitals regularly to prevent smegma build up anyways. And really, a foreskin pulled back is basically a cut penis anyways when erect
But if I did still have my foreskin, I wouldn't get rid of it simply because my partner wants it gone. It's my body and I will do with it as I please and I would never tell me my partner to modify any part of themselves just to please me better.
But agreed, as adults, we shouldn't let our partners dictate our bodies, the same way we should dictate theirs
My penis, my problem.