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I have a problem.
18 years ago
I have no idea what's going through my head.
I had a girlfriend that was a little... off.
She had a few issues but I stayed with her because I thought I could help her. The biggest problem though was that she was a habitual liar.
Eventually she lost interest in me and wanted nothing to do with me, which caused some problems because there were still possessions we had of each others. Because I wanted my things back I got a little hot headed in an argument, she tried to get a restraining order put on me for a reason she would tell no one. (because I hadn't done anything to warrant one)
So, I took my stuff as a loss so as not to further stir the pot and just decided to stay clear of her anyway. End of story... right?
Wrong, she has a new boyfriend, and now though I haven't heard or seen anything from her, it appears her boyfriend is now pestering me through PM's on Yiffstar with comments like, "I know what you did." He's creeping me out and he would have only heard her half of the story; this does not bode well.
Anybody who actually reads this, Please Help.
She had a few issues but I stayed with her because I thought I could help her. The biggest problem though was that she was a habitual liar.
Eventually she lost interest in me and wanted nothing to do with me, which caused some problems because there were still possessions we had of each others. Because I wanted my things back I got a little hot headed in an argument, she tried to get a restraining order put on me for a reason she would tell no one. (because I hadn't done anything to warrant one)
So, I took my stuff as a loss so as not to further stir the pot and just decided to stay clear of her anyway. End of story... right?
Wrong, she has a new boyfriend, and now though I haven't heard or seen anything from her, it appears her boyfriend is now pestering me through PM's on Yiffstar with comments like, "I know what you did." He's creeping me out and he would have only heard her half of the story; this does not bode well.
Anybody who actually reads this, Please Help.
If this mystery man begins to say bad things about you, or they both start spreading lies, that's slander and you can take THEM to court, be it to shut them up or sue for damages.
Honestly though, this doesn't sound like a big deal. I'd politely tell the new bf to not concern himself in matters that he doesn't understand, and that if he doesn't leave you alone, you will take legal action against him. That should give him a shock and make him back off.
I don't know why you're so worried though. New boyfriends are always pests, but they are usually harmless. Just let him bounce off you. How do you need help?
And I am finding yours very comforting and helpful.
Thank you.
Sometimes girls can just be complete soulless bitches. Nothing you can do about it.