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15 years ago
1. Who eats more?
It probably evens out, depending on what we're eating and how hungry I am. He might inch ahead juuuuust a bit.
2. Who said “I love you” first?
Me.
3. Who is the morning person?
I am weird. I tend to fuck up my sleep schedule a lot, but I actually get up out of bed fairly easily, and prefer a more "get up in the actual morning" schedule when it can be managed. More often than not my schedule does not dictate this.
4. Who sings better?
Him, by a lot. I have an awful singing voice, and no rhythm. I keep trying to talk him into uploading some stuff.
5. Who’s older?
Him, by three years and some change. Or two years and more change. I'm bad at maths.
6. Who’s smarter?
I dunno, honestly. I think of him as very intelligent, but he and other people tell me I'm smart so maybe even, just in different areas.
7. Whose temper is worse?
Me, I can be a snappy bastard, but I am working on it.
8. Who does the laundry?
Both of us.
9. Who does the dishes?
Both of us, though I probably end up doing them a little more often.
10. Who sleeps on what side of the bed?
I sleep on the left, he sleeps on the right. I wouldn't share about switching up, but my right arm is shitty [falls asleep, gets pains in it, whatever] easily so I can't sleep comfortably if it might even possibly end up hanging over the side.
11. Whose feet are bigger?
His. I have fairly eensy feet, sigh.
12. Whose hair is longer?
Mine... I wish he'd grow his out some! He has really lovely blonde hair, and when it starts to grow it really flatters his face/eyes, but he prefer a militaristic look.
13. Who’s better with the computer?
Oh man, him, by far. I will admit I have a certain degree of learned helplessness when around him, but I'm just not that great at it honestly. There's a lot of "Come here and make it not do this" going on when shit goes wrong.
14. Do you have pets?
Two cats, Amelia the calico and Hedwig [pronounced with a v, because it's a German name.] the tortie trannycat. Get his pronouns right! He also thinks he's a dog.
15. Who pays the bills?
Him right now, but I want to be able to help with getting a jeorb and stuff.
16. Who cooks dinner?
We've been getting take out a lot because I seriously goddamn hate fucking doing dishes. Sometimes I look at them and would rather just throw it all in the bin than have to stand there and wash that shit. But, uhm, I like the act of cooking, and am fairly decent at it. I'm actually making "chinese honey chicken" tonight for dinner.
17. Who drives when you are together?
He does.
18. Who pays when you go out to dinner?
It's usually him, but I would like to change that [or at least, pay for myself] with the job-thing.
19. Who’s the most stubborn?
Ugh, god, both of us are pretty stubborn.
20. Who is the first one to admit when they’re wrong?
I dunno, me, I guess. It's not that he is a jerk and doesn't apologize or whatever, I just probably say the words approximating "I was wrong" more often. I could just be a jerk more often too, though.
21. Whose family do you see more?
His, I don't speak to most of mine and the rest live very far away [Aunt and cousin in Tennessee and father in AL]
22. Who named your pet?
Me, because they were mine before we dated.
23. Who kissed who first?
Ah, god, I don't know. It was such a nervous blur when we first met it could have gone either way. I was nervous'd into silence which anyone who knows me knows that's not an easy task.
24. Who asked who out?
I guess I asked him out, I dunno. There was never really anything official said in a way that could draw a line.
25. What did you do on your first date?
Uhhhhm. Honestly, I don't know.
26. Who’s more sensitive?
I don't know, me, I guess, but he's so stoic a lot of the time that there could be stuff that bothers him that is no different than the rest of his quietness.
27. Who’s taller?
Him, by ten inches.
28. Who has more friends?
Me, by far.
29. Who has more siblings?
Him, he has a brother and I have no siblings.
30. Who wears the pants in the relationship?
We both wear skorts!
It probably evens out, depending on what we're eating and how hungry I am. He might inch ahead juuuuust a bit.
2. Who said “I love you” first?
Me.
3. Who is the morning person?
I am weird. I tend to fuck up my sleep schedule a lot, but I actually get up out of bed fairly easily, and prefer a more "get up in the actual morning" schedule when it can be managed. More often than not my schedule does not dictate this.
4. Who sings better?
Him, by a lot. I have an awful singing voice, and no rhythm. I keep trying to talk him into uploading some stuff.
5. Who’s older?
Him, by three years and some change. Or two years and more change. I'm bad at maths.
6. Who’s smarter?
I dunno, honestly. I think of him as very intelligent, but he and other people tell me I'm smart so maybe even, just in different areas.
7. Whose temper is worse?
Me, I can be a snappy bastard, but I am working on it.
8. Who does the laundry?
Both of us.
9. Who does the dishes?
Both of us, though I probably end up doing them a little more often.
10. Who sleeps on what side of the bed?
I sleep on the left, he sleeps on the right. I wouldn't share about switching up, but my right arm is shitty [falls asleep, gets pains in it, whatever] easily so I can't sleep comfortably if it might even possibly end up hanging over the side.
11. Whose feet are bigger?
His. I have fairly eensy feet, sigh.
12. Whose hair is longer?
Mine... I wish he'd grow his out some! He has really lovely blonde hair, and when it starts to grow it really flatters his face/eyes, but he prefer a militaristic look.
13. Who’s better with the computer?
Oh man, him, by far. I will admit I have a certain degree of learned helplessness when around him, but I'm just not that great at it honestly. There's a lot of "Come here and make it not do this" going on when shit goes wrong.
14. Do you have pets?
Two cats, Amelia the calico and Hedwig [pronounced with a v, because it's a German name.] the tortie trannycat. Get his pronouns right! He also thinks he's a dog.
15. Who pays the bills?
Him right now, but I want to be able to help with getting a jeorb and stuff.
16. Who cooks dinner?
We've been getting take out a lot because I seriously goddamn hate fucking doing dishes. Sometimes I look at them and would rather just throw it all in the bin than have to stand there and wash that shit. But, uhm, I like the act of cooking, and am fairly decent at it. I'm actually making "chinese honey chicken" tonight for dinner.
17. Who drives when you are together?
He does.
18. Who pays when you go out to dinner?
It's usually him, but I would like to change that [or at least, pay for myself] with the job-thing.
19. Who’s the most stubborn?
Ugh, god, both of us are pretty stubborn.
20. Who is the first one to admit when they’re wrong?
I dunno, me, I guess. It's not that he is a jerk and doesn't apologize or whatever, I just probably say the words approximating "I was wrong" more often. I could just be a jerk more often too, though.
21. Whose family do you see more?
His, I don't speak to most of mine and the rest live very far away [Aunt and cousin in Tennessee and father in AL]
22. Who named your pet?
Me, because they were mine before we dated.
23. Who kissed who first?
Ah, god, I don't know. It was such a nervous blur when we first met it could have gone either way. I was nervous'd into silence which anyone who knows me knows that's not an easy task.
24. Who asked who out?
I guess I asked him out, I dunno. There was never really anything official said in a way that could draw a line.
25. What did you do on your first date?
Uhhhhm. Honestly, I don't know.
26. Who’s more sensitive?
I don't know, me, I guess, but he's so stoic a lot of the time that there could be stuff that bothers him that is no different than the rest of his quietness.
27. Who’s taller?
Him, by ten inches.
28. Who has more friends?
Me, by far.
29. Who has more siblings?
Him, he has a brother and I have no siblings.
30. Who wears the pants in the relationship?
We both wear skorts!
