...is it all the other wolves who are wrong?

I can't seem to get along with other wolves at all... Most of the ones I converse with are all the same. "I be big ferocious alpha with bad attitude! Rawrawrawr!"

I am a wolf. I am an otherkin. Every day I live with the same ethics: Be nice to others, but don't let them walk on you. Don't disturb my space without my permission. Friends and family come first, and everything else second. Love one and only one. It is not always necessary to be alpha, as long as I'm contributing to the wellbeing of the pack. Live life with honesty, integrity, and be an example of both (even if the rest of the world doesn't).

I don't live to be the alpha, or boss, of anything. I'm not a loner, or I don't consciously try to be one if I am. I love being social...even if it's awkward for me sometimes. Those who are in my pack stay in my pack, unless they betray me, jeopardize my wellbeing, or threaten my family.

So I have a hard time understanding why every wolf I meet is all about the exact opposite. They are either hardened loners, wannabe alphas, or otherwise antisocial furs.

I get along with dragons and felines a lot better than other wolves, it seems. It makes me confused sometimes.