awww.... Almoast same thing happened to me (not the pregnant thingys), and we went to a movie and after that home to my place... there we was, sitting in the sofa with an romantic, feel good movie... and.. *ahem... couch* she started to act realy interested in me... and i just hated myself for not telling it to her there and then that i was gay.... would have saved me for soooo much shit.... :/

jesus i know, but telling that sorta thing has the tendancy to create a ripple effect... soon people might actually look at you different and that is something that noone should have on their concious... knowing that their best mates might think differently about em

Thats exactly how i feel up here in the army... if i say it they might, as you say,,, think different about me.. not playing or wrestling with me any more... Some days ago they stripped me naked (for fun) and carried me to the living room... (we all had a good laugh, i enjoyed it some.. *grins*) But what if they'd know i was gay...

i know, they wouldn't do it. It seems that if you told them you were gay all the "guy fun" that is had with groups of guys would just fly out the window.

it seems like there will never be a good time to announce that you're gay, but don't worry there are people out there that don't mind it.

also my friends accused me of being gay, something that (felt bad to do) i had to deny cos it would have been a disaster :'( .. they still think i am i believe... *grins*well they are half right

and another thing i regreted is that once one of my best friends and i walked home from an movie, and we discussed racial and relligious, sexuality thingys, and then after warming up on this subject he says that he totaly feels fine about gay guys... and then he silently asked if i was gay... and i froze.... heart jumped... and i in my panick, not knowing realy what he would think, answered "nope"... and he replied to fast (making me curious) "Me neither" ... Would have been easy to tell hum then... when should i tell someone damn it?

oh wow, i think he probably has thoughts that you are, if you ever strike up the conversation just ask him the same question and see his reaction

If you two have a trusting friendship i think you should let him know ;). It could work out for the better

once girlies start in on the talkage it's like... another language you have to be fluent in to follow what's being said, Jessi and I do the exact same thing and it confuses the hell outa my poor Panda. But we're suckers for anyone who'll listen to our sadness puking {{guys seem to get the short end of the stick on that one...hmmm}} and you shyness ones need to speak up cause the girls aren't telepathic and you guys aren't exactly colour coded {{oh that babe's orange so he's bi! have at!}} and the faster they find out the less confusion and... interesting situations can be averted. Don't really know why I'm commentaring on this, my lack of age wisdom should probably bar me from this conversation buuuut the story was worth reading so I found it worth my two pennies. {{YAY thoughts from an almost 16 year old noob!}}

well actually i have the gift of understanding women well... I can listen for a long time and get everything and i can even solve their problem

However even though i am Bi, i am just not interested in her